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    Default PM for appointments what are your opinions?

    What do you believe are the pros and cons of pms to arrange appointments?

    My own opinion is divided in pro and con.

    Pro.
    It is nice that if you know each other from the forum, there is better chance of a connection between you at the appointment.
    The Ladie can check your reviews and your forum persona and decide on whether she would be comfortable meeting you! (Security and services provided issues etc)
    The Lady having looked at reviews and forum comments may be able to judge your likes and dislikes and the appointment goes in the right direction from the start.

    Con
    Can be used by more established and trusted posters to their own advantage especially in relation to the low reviewed and less established Ladies.
    If you have built up a strong friendship with a person, before a meeting, it may lead to a difficult appointment that suddenly introduces intimacy and bussiness.
    You may feel you have to leave a positive review due to online friendship.

    I am sure there are many other issues...

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    I think you have identified the main ones.

    My only comment would be that, assuming the person is not actually a shithead, the pros would outweigh the cons.

    Would be interested in hearing an escort's opinion though. Are we overstating the case? Does it really make any difference,once the punter behaves himself?
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    No is stupid.One guy from de foro send my emails and pm about a month ago,3-5 pm at day,,and he never show.
    then we i will lost my time sending pm when is better that he just look at my profile and call me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aliciasexy View Post
    No is stupid.One guy from de foro send my emails and pm about a month ago,3-5 pm at day,,and he never show.
    then we i will lost my time sending pm when is better that he just look at my profile and call me.
    Yeah, I thought that might be the case.

    I tend to resist the temptation to get involved in PMs for this reason
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    Would agree with both sides put forward , have noticed escorts advertising for clients who book via Pm are given appointments first , some say cut out a lot of timewasters .: doc
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    I am pro.Actually,this is the way that i mainly use and prefer for my appointments.It helps me decide if i want or not to meet somebody,by reading reviews and posts and the first pm can be decisive.And then,it's easier to see if the person is genuine,is a lot safer than making an appointment by phone.Safety before everything else!For me it is always very important to feel comfortable during a session,so if i feel that i don't click with somebody,i prefer not to make the appointment.I think that using the pm system has more pros then cons.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aliciasexy View Post
    No is stupid.One guy from de foro send my emails and pm about a month ago,3-5 pm at day,,and he never show.
    then we i will lost my time sending pm when is better that he just look at my profile and call me.
    Just get more into details,do your "homework" and find out as much as you can from the boards about the person.When he registered,how many posts does he have,what reviews,who has he visited before......this will help you to understand better if he is a timewaster or not.I can say that i've never been failed by somebody that booked me by pm,if i accepted the appointment.
    Last edited by JessicaJessy; 20-01-11 at 12:39.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aliciasexy View Post
    No is stupid.One guy from de foro send my emails and pm about a month ago,3-5 pm at day,,and he never show.
    then we i will lost my time sending pm when is better that he just look at my profile and call me.
    Sorry to hear that Alicia , but I use PM sometimes have found it very useful . .: doc
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    Quote Originally Posted by JessicaJessy View Post
    I am pro.Actually,this is the way that i mainly use and prefer for my appointments.It helps me decide if i want or not to meet somebody,by reading reviews and posts and the first pm can be decisive.And then,it's easier to see if the person is genuine,is a lot safer than making an appointment by phone.Safety before everything else!For me it is always very important to feel comfortable during a session,so if i feel that i don't click with somebody,i prefer not to make the appointment.I think that using the pm system has more pros then cons.
    I do set up appointments by PM where possible, as I was thinking along the same lines.

    I remember one escort telling me later that she found something I said in the forums funny, so that was good. Always nice to make someone smile and help put them at ease.

    Every little helps, I would imagine
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    I've always where possible used pm to book. It's a good way for the escort to see you are not a timewaster. And as Jessy said they can do a little background research on you.
    It's always been good for me, I've never been left waiting or double booked.
    I always send a pm inquiring about availability a few days in advance, then a pm to reconfirm the day before. I always ring or text an hour beforehand on the day. And call when I'm about 10 mins away for directions if needed.

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