I really appreciate where Jimmydee is coming from, I crave the sort of intimacy that he looks for, I appreciate that other lads a really just looking to empty the bag so to speak.

Mutual respect (and to be deserving of it) goes without saying.

I am just honestly dismayed that my demeanour may make a girl aggravated, I bend over backwards to be as friendly as humanly possible.

I can't change, nor do I want to.