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    I guess it's the same for everyone. Sometimes interested in sex to the point where you can't get enough .... other times no interest what so ever.

    I'm in the latter category at the moment. I have been for weeks. And I was shocked when I dragged my ass off to see one of our fine ladies on this site yesterday, and while it was a job very well done I got no satisfaction out of it. Usually I leave the girl with a spring in my step and an inner peace for the rest of the day .... but yesterday, nada. Left feeling the same as when I arrived.

    Normal ebb and flow aside, this is a bleedin' disaster here ..... how on earth could I have negative interest in sex ?? I dunno what's going on but I refuse to believe I've tasted it all now and there's no more excitement out there .... or is there ?? Does one reach a point where they really have had a piece of all the fruit and they know it ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Banjo View Post
    I guess it's the same for everyone. Sometimes interested in sex to the point where you can't get enough .... other times no interest what so ever.

    I'm in the latter category at the moment. I have been for weeks. And I was shocked when I dragged my ass off to see one of our fine ladies on this site yesterday, and while it was a job very well done I got no satisfaction out of it. Usually I leave the girl with a spring in my step and an inner peace for the rest of the day .... but yesterday, nada. Left feeling the same as when I arrived.

    Normal ebb and flow aside, this is a bleedin' disaster here ..... how on earth could I have negative interest in sex ?? I dunno what's going on but I refuse to believe I've tasted it all now and there's no more excitement out there .... or is there ?? Does one reach a point where they really have had a piece of all the fruit and they know it ?
    Good question and it got me thinking - gave up punting for a while after I met this great girl - even after she made it clear we had no future I just was'nt interested in seeing other girls - went to an escort and came away feeling down even though the girl was great - went to Spain for 3 weeks over Christmas and no shortage of girls but could'nt work up the interest - I think too much sex can indeed turn you off - a bit like rich food - you have to cut back to regain your appitite.

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    A cause of lack of sexual appetite can be attributed to many things , but one in particular and that's depression . Not saying you are suffering from it , but it is a possibility . I've always been happier after i visited an escort and my libido is fairly constant , although i do go thru very infrequent times when i just can't be arsed .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Banjo View Post
    I guess it's the same for everyone. Sometimes interested in sex to the point where you can't get enough .... other times no interest what so ever.

    I'm in the latter category at the moment. I have been for weeks. And I was shocked when I dragged my ass off to see one of our fine ladies on this site yesterday, and while it was a job very well done I got no satisfaction out of it. Usually I leave the girl with a spring in my step and an inner peace for the rest of the day .... but yesterday, nada. Left feeling the same as when I arrived.

    Normal ebb and flow aside, this is a bleedin' disaster here ..... how on earth could I have negative interest in sex ?? I dunno what's going on but I refuse to believe I've tasted it all now and there's no more excitement out there .... or is there ?? Does one reach a point where they really have had a piece of all the fruit and they know it ?
    I'd love a bit of an ebb! Sex on the brain all the time is exhausting! Although I suspect if it did happen, I'd be quite concerned.

    One of the causes may be exhaustion or boredom?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Banjo View Post
    I guess it's the same for everyone. Sometimes interested in sex to the point where you can't get enough .... other times no interest what so ever.

    I'm in the latter category at the moment. I have been for weeks. And I was shocked when I dragged my ass off to see one of our fine ladies on this site yesterday, and while it was a job very well done I got no satisfaction out of it. Usually I leave the girl with a spring in my step and an inner peace for the rest of the day .... but yesterday, nada. Left feeling the same as when I arrived.

    Normal ebb and flow aside, this is a bleedin' disaster here ..... how on earth could I have negative interest in sex ?? I dunno what's going on but I refuse to believe I've tasted it all now and there's no more excitement out there .... or is there ?? Does one reach a point where they really have had a piece of all the fruit and they know it ?
    Perhaps taking a break from punting could be the answer,it probably happens to most punters at some stage that they begin to question themselves that has their time come that they no longer get anything out of this lark.My advice is stand back for a few weeks/months and if you feel the urge to see an escort again go for it...
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    Sometimes we can spoil ourselves by visiting too many ladies.
    It's like the sweetie shop, a little is fantastic, but if we gorge ourselves, then we can't face it for a while.

    Take a break and come back with your batteries recharged and your passion undying.

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    Yeah, don't worry fella... this is normal. I went thorough a phase of sleeping with a string of different women, and got bored after a while. To be honest, at the moment, I wouldn't be able to get enough!!!

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    Don't dwell on it to much . But if the same happens in other areas of your life go get a check up , might be a slight bit of depression or stress .: doc
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    Quote Originally Posted by dr love View Post
    Don't dwell on it to much . But if the same happens in other areas of your life go get a check up , might be a slight bit of depression or stress .: doc
    Maybe it's the stress of punting too much?

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    Quote Originally Posted by samlad View Post
    Maybe it's the stress of punting too much?
    Christ I hope it never happens ,all about paceing yourself . But we have the Irish blood in us a samlad .: doc
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