Hi there,
I would surmise the poster isn't married, I was merely giving him BOD. Your second statement involves circular logic based off an assumption of something I said- kind of ironic?
Q:What are they going to do with your (real) first name-
A: for the most part absolutely nothing.. but if you get a wackjob, (in a society as small as IRL with about two degrees of separation) who triangulates it with your approx age, physical characteristics & anything you may be lax enough to let slip here.. well, they may as well have your bank a/c # & pin. LOL
BTW- this goes in both directions & is why escorts never use thier real names- go figure