Page 3 of 3 FirstFirst 123
Results 21 to 29 of 29

Thread: I need Some LOVE !!!

  1. #21
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Posts
    946
    Reviews
    21

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by sexy cindy View Post
    (SO I,M WRIGHT OR WRONG FOR NOT TRUST MEN??)
    ALL MY EX PROVABLE HAD SOME SECRET LOVE FOR WHEN THEY PROMESS LOVE FOREVER FOR ME...
    This is why I have so much respect for Bill Clinton. The BC answer is always so easy. It depends on what you mean by "trust".

    Let me say a little more.

    First of all, in what follows, "you" means any escort that I visit.

    As a client, you can trust me. I will speak nicely on the phone, I will turn up on time. I will have the money ready, I will not haggle over prices, I will tell you exactly what I desire and I will never do anything that you tell me you do not like.

    If I tell you what I think of the time that I spend with you, you can trust that too. If I tell you that your breasts are absolutely perfect you can trust me. I am surprised at the number of ladies who respond to that comment by saying that they believe that I just tell everyone that. I do not.

    You want more? Can you trust me regarding relationships with you?

    You can trust me completely. I am not available to you and I never will try to do anything to make you think that I am. But then it gets tricky. When I am with you, for those few minutes, you are the only woman in the whole world. I am devoted to you, I want no other. I would actually be incapable of wanting another. It really is the method acting school of punting.

    Now, we are getting out on the thin ice. Most escorts get this. I'm not going to name names but really good punts usually go this way. The lady understands that I really like her very much as an escort, the fact that a client is treating her well and is clearly very aroused by her is often a turn on. The resulting sex is wet, sticky and orgasmic for us both. Then I get cleaned up and dressed and leave. The goodbye hug and peck on the cheek are as platonic as if they were with my best friend's wife with him standing at her side. Mutual thanks and that's it.

    Some escorts don't get this. They think that I mean it for real and they are worried about a client falling in love. It can get a bit awkward and I do not like to unsettle a lady but I try to make it clear at the end of the punt.

    Then there are the ones who don't get the act and actually seem to like the idea and want to take things further. My first draft of this paragraph contained quotes from conversations that I have had that make it utterly clear that this kind of thing can happen. I have removed them as the need for respect for those escorts outweighs the need to illustrate the point so all that I can say is, please believe me, this is real.

    It does happen from time to time and you can still trust me. I will not lead you on.

    But I can see how it can go differently. It is a real boost for a man to spend time with a stunningly hot woman who is a lot less than half his age and who becomes aroused and has multiple climaxes when they are together. Then, she starts to hint that there could be more than an escort client relationship there. How many men can resist the pursuit of that fantasy?

    Clearly some can. I suspect that a fair proportion of the regular client posters here have found themselves in this position and have behaved correctly.

    There have been a few, well documented cases of client escort relationships moving on to true romance but they are not common.

    My advice to any escort who found herself in that position would be to go and get her cynicism detector upgraded to one that goes up to 11 and not just 10.

  2. The Following User Says Thank You to sharkskin For This Useful Post:

    nick2010 (26-12-10)

  3. Default

    Quote Originally Posted by sharkskin View Post
    This is why I have so much respect for Bill Clinton. The BC answer is always so easy. It depends on what you mean by "trust".

    Let me say a little more.

    First of all, in what follows, "you" means any escort that I visit.

    As a client, you can trust me. I will speak nicely on the phone, I will turn up on time. I will have the money ready, I will not haggle over prices, I will tell you exactly what I desire and I will never do anything that you tell me you do not like.

    If I tell you what I think of the time that I spend with you, you can trust that too. If I tell you that your breasts are absolutely perfect you can trust me. I am surprised at the number of ladies who respond to that comment by saying that they believe that I just tell everyone that. I do not.

    You want more? Can you trust me regarding relationships with you?

    You can trust me completely. I am not available to you and I never will try to do anything to make you think that I am. But then it gets tricky. When I am with you, for those few minutes, you are the only woman in the whole world. I am devoted to you, I want no other. I would actually be incapable of wanting another. It really is the method acting school of punting.

    Now, we are getting out on the thin ice. Most escorts get this. I'm not going to name names but really good punts usually go this way. The lady understands that I really like her very much as an escort, the fact that a client is treating her well and is clearly very aroused by her is often a turn on. The resulting sex is wet, sticky and orgasmic for us both. Then I get cleaned up and dressed and leave. The goodbye hug and peck on the cheek are as platonic as if they were with my best friend's wife with him standing at her side. Mutual thanks and that's it.

    Some escorts don't get this. They think that I mean it for real and they are worried about a client falling in love. It can get a bit awkward and I do not like to unsettle a lady but I try to make it clear at the end of the punt.

    Then there are the ones who don't get the act and actually seem to like the idea and want to take things further. My first draft of this paragraph contained quotes from conversations that I have had that make it utterly clear that this kind of thing can happen. I have removed them as the need for respect for those escorts outweighs the need to illustrate the point so all that I can say is, please believe me, this is real.

    It does happen from time to time and you can still trust me. I will not lead you on.

    But I can see how it can go differently. It is a real boost for a man to spend time with a stunningly hot woman who is a lot less than half his age and who becomes aroused and has multiple climaxes when they are together. Then, she starts to hint that there could be more than an escort client relationship there. How many men can resist the pursuit of that fantasy?

    Clearly some can. I suspect that a fair proportion of the regular client posters here have found themselves in this position and have behaved correctly.

    There have been a few, well documented cases of client escort relationships moving on to true romance but they are not common.

    My advice to any escort who found herself in that position would be to go and get her cynicism detector upgraded to one that goes up to 11 and not just 10.


    As client you are perfect....

  4. The Following User Says Thank You to Cindy Forever For This Useful Post:

    sharkskin (25-12-10)

  5. #23
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Posts
    946
    Reviews
    21

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by sexy cindy View Post
    As client you are perfect....
    Blush. Cindy, you are embarrassing me.

    Stop it right now. What was that special code word that we agreed earlier that means stop it, really stop it, now, really?

    Yes, that one.

    Whew, trying to catch my breath now.



    Seriously, thank you, that is how I punt and I guess that if you would ask me what I want an escort to think about me as I walk out of her door then that would be it.

  6. #24

    Love Its Easy FOR MEN !!!

    Hi Guys, Thanks for your comments, I know my place, and am not crazy. Am just a sweet girl in love with the wrong guy, even though it feels so right, The sex is amazing, but its so much more.

    But I feel what cindy says is 100% true, Coz if he can cheat on his wife nuw, He will one day again cheat on me...

    Why Cant I find a normal sweet guy !!!! I always end up in the most complicated Situations...

    I GOT my heart fucked for christmas...

    Merry Xmas Guys

  7. #25
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Posts
    36,558
    Blog Entries
    15
    Reviews
    53

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Areeya View Post
    Hi Guys, Thanks for your comments, I know my place, and am not crazy. Am just a sweet girl in love with the wrong guy, even though it feels so right, The sex is amazing, but its so much more.

    But I feel what cindy says is 100% true, Coz if he can cheat on his wife nuw, He will one day again cheat on me...

    Why Cant I find a normal sweet guy !!!! I always end up in the most complicated Situations...

    I GOT my heart fucked for christmas...

    Merry Xmas Guys
    Your had words of support from posters here , but it's words of comfort you need now , and the only one can do that is a close friend who really knows you . Lol doc
    Never mistake kindness for weakness .: doc

  8. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to dr love For This Useful Post:

    hornylimerick (25-12-10), nick2010 (26-12-10)

  9. #26
    Join Date
    Sep 2010
    Posts
    423

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Areeya View Post
    Hi Guys

    Its christmas Eve, and my lover is with his Wife, and I am heart broken, even though we spend
    a few days in jan together again................I WANT MORE...I want to be loved !!! Fuck Christmas,,,,,,,,I hate IT !!! HELP

    Right Areeya, I'm going to give you my honest opinion and I hope you understand me.

    I'm very sure love can happen between escort and a client. Why not, if there are two human beings sharing a very special moment of our privacy?

    We all know it is only business but a good escort always let wee bit of emotions make part of a meeting, because we are just humans and that is what make the experience enjoyable for both, only when has connection and it must be real to happen, in my opinion.
    But there is a huge difference in let things happens and give your all and that become Love. Sex and love are two completely different things.

    Love in my opinion just happens when you get really involved and get to know each other deeply. I suppose that you have met this man several times and you did let happen to give yourself to him. You must ask yourself, are you needed? Are you feeling alone? It is normal to escorts become needed and vulnerable. We work with the must intimacy of any relationship but sometimes we feel like we don't have a truth love to fill our hearts and that is painful.

    Sometimes it isn't a matter of choice to be in love with somebody but we have the power to avoid what we believe wont be good for ourselves or is unlike to happen to be together in the future, so don't see the reality only brings sadness.

    I always try to put myself in everybody places. The first thing would concern me big time is the fact that he is married. It was a big NO for me to get involved with somebody that already have a family. He can be lost, needed because all married has problems and maybe it is why he has been with you at the first, but that doesn't means he can still in love with his wife.

    I couldn't finish with a family myself. Sometimes talking to my clients I try to advice them as much as I can to fix them marrieds To do as much as them can to be happy together forever and being with a escort can help lots that. It suppose to be a relief for them only, not the reason to give more problems and make them even more confused.

    I have special affection for few of clients mine but them know it is far to become love and that is the only reason them keeping come backing to me.

    A client to realise an escort is in love with him, the most of the times will "take advantage" or will walk away because it is a very dangers field and a very difficult situation to be dealing with. The most won't accept your job and that means has to support you in every single way, mentally, financially etc.... Isn't easy and that man must love you very, very, very much, because your job will be a shadow for the rest of yours lives unfortunately, and only when you live the situation you can understand. And in my opinion, love doesn't happen like that overnight. But will say again, it is possible to happen but is very rare.

    I will advice you to find a love out of this world if you could, if I was you I let him go and if he decide by himself to get divorced of his wife and them back to you after couple of years, then I could say it is meant to be, but I wouldn't never advice you to be the reason of his divorce (if that happens), because it isn't health to you, to him and even worse to his wife.

    So give time to yourself and to him ... Live your life. You are young and beautiful, I'm sure life is only starting for you

    At the right time you will find your true love;-) xxx

    Good luck anyway

    Nick xxx

  10. The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to nick2010 For This Useful Post:

    dr love (26-12-10), lonely (26-12-10), skywalker85 (26-12-10), westernpunter (26-12-10)

  11. #27
    Join Date
    Apr 2010
    Posts
    2,101

    Default

    women need to remove this image inside of Mr Right & make space for a man who is kind thoughtful & generous no woman should entertain the idea of being second best its a mindset that leaves her feeling cheated it will destroy her self esteem IMHO women in these situations need to wise up strengthen up & in my mind need a firm talking to dont waste your life.....

  12. The Following User Says Thank You to Experienced Punter esq For This Useful Post:

    nick2010 (26-12-10)

  13. #28
    Join Date
    Dec 2009
    Posts
    2,662
    Reviews
    5

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by sexy cindy View Post
    So do you guys think i,m wrong when i say i cant trust men after i start escorting??His wife not imagine 98% he have afair with a other lady...
    For sure he that time are perfect hausband,perfect father etc...who in his family can imagine he have secret love??

    (SO I,M WRIGHT OR WRONG FOR NOT TRUST MEN??)
    ALL MY EX PROVABLE HAD SOME SECRET LOVE FOR WHEN THEY PROMESS LOVE FOREVER FOR ME...

    (GUYS THINKING ABOUT AND GIVE YOURS OPINIONS...)
    your both right and wrong, ofcourse some men cant be trusted as they are cheating on their wives when visit an escort, but what us guys who stay single, wee arnt cheating on any1, and maybe wee are single cos havent found the one yet, so visit escorts to feed our needs.

  14. #29
    Join Date
    Dec 2009
    Posts
    2,662
    Reviews
    5

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Areeya View Post
    Hi Guys, Thanks for your comments, I know my place, and am not crazy. Am just a sweet girl in love with the wrong guy, even though it feels so right, The sex is amazing, but its so much more.

    But I feel what cindy says is 100% true, Coz if he can cheat on his wife nuw, He will one day again cheat on me...

    Why Cant I find a normal sweet guy !!!! I always end up in the most complicated Situations...

    I GOT my heart fucked for christmas...

    Merry Xmas Guys
    you havent found that normal sweet guy yet cos i havent met ya yet haha xx

Page 3 of 3 FirstFirst 123

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •