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    Love is it possible for people to change??????

    after alll that has gone on here recently.. I wonder is it possible for people to really change.. I often thought that people could change for a while.. then slowly noticed them sliding back into their old habits.. So is it possible to change...x

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    Of course it is possible to change. The problem is that it is not easy. It takes a lot of effort but it is possible.
    It is worth remmebering that someone cannot be changed from the outside. They can be supported along the way but the desire for change has to come from the inside.



    Quote Originally Posted by DONEGALANGEL View Post
    after alll that has gone on here recently.. I wonder is it possible for people to really change.. I often thought that people could change for a while.. then slowly noticed them sliding back into their old habits.. So is it possible to change...x
    Last edited by herodotus; 12-12-10 at 20:45.

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    well why does some stay as they are.. thats wat annoys me..I guess my misplaced trust a few years ago makes me question the possibilty even more..x

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    Quote Originally Posted by DONEGALANGEL View Post
    after alll that has gone on here recently.. I wonder is it possible for people to really change.. I often thought that people could change for a while.. then slowly noticed them sliding back into their old habits.. So is it possible to change...x
    Only if they want to I suppose ......

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    If you have to try to hard to change Iam afraid it doesn't last .
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    Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before.
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    Cause it is easier to cary on regardless. It takes effort to change and you also need to be supported. But depending on what type of changes yoiu are talking about, it can be very difficult and for some people it is probably is very unlikely that they will be able to achieve it.

    But part of the reason may be that they did not want to change in the first place.

    Quote Originally Posted by DONEGALANGEL View Post
    well why does some stay as they are.. thats wat annoys me..I guess my misplaced trust a few years ago makes me question the possibilty even more..x

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    i`m glad i only have to change small things about me.. but i really do feel for them that have so much to change...x

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    The problem is not having to try hard to change. The problem is carrying out the change every day for the rest of your life. It is a slippery path.

    Quote Originally Posted by dr love View Post
    If you have to try to hard to change Iam afraid it doesn't last .

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    Quote Originally Posted by DONEGALANGEL View Post
    after alll that has gone on here recently.. I wonder is it possible for people to really change.. I often thought that people could change for a while.. then slowly noticed them sliding back into their old habits.. So is it possible to change...x
    The desire to change needs to be there and come from within. Whilst i believe it's possible for people to change I also believe that some people kid themselves and genuinely don't want to so the true effort is not there.

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    i remember when I first started to escort if was because I had very little self esteem.. I guess it built up throughout the years.. and now I like the confident change in me.. so I guess that amongst other things has allowed me to say no to escorting these days..so i often wonder if i had never escorted how I would have been...x

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