Can a Client fall in Love with an Escort ?

[Cindy Forever]

At the moment about ...less than 10 clients are in love SEXY CINDY but...

[Cindy Forever]

Love !
firstly a quick thank you to all the guys and girls that sent me the pm's, it made me realise thiat this is an issue that exist yet we all have no choice but to keep it secret. I admire the men that have looked at us as women with hearts and real love to share, that have dated, married escorts, and live a normal life.

I am very new to the escort scene, and only know 2 other escorts, I am working until the first week of jan, then i go back to my home country , where I have an arranged marrage, to a suitor choosen by my dad, its sad that women in our country have no voice, but this is due to ancient religous beliefs, that is my issues, going on my dream man, he is married to a philipino bride, coz he felt lonely, nuw the cookie crumbles, when we togeter, nothing else matters, days spent with him , go so fast, feels so natural...... we both feel it is real love, he calls me everyday, from norway, only God knows what could come of it.....

how do I stop these feelings for him, I feel sad, and guys its not a guy that reviewed me, that is why I like him so much more, it was a personal encounter that was private , magical and real.

I still have butterflies, treasured moments in my sad life !

thanks guys for all your kind advice


If the guy real love you he will not let you work as escort or let you back to ur home
No religion,no family no one can change as well you need fight for you love or any things in the life...
All in my i decid hows going,for my freedom i say FUCK OFF for my family and as well for my religion.
And i really happy with my life.

Hope all escorts and as client fight for freedom and make the world better...

[Monkeynut]

And i really happy with my life.

Good for you :-)

[Sensual Delights]

Love??? Here is a cynical post from someone who is usually very optimistic.

While I give some punters circumstances why they think they are in love, seeing that they might use the small head instead of the one with brains, I don’t give as many circumstances to escorts.

An escort is not falling in love so easily, at least not one who is in the business for at least a few month. Despite their fragile looks for some, they are all though women strong enough to run for presidency.

Some girls play the love cars to gain more advantages. Some others, to have someone they trust around when working because it can be very lonely at times. But unless she is not really contemplating to give up her escorting job for someone, there is in no way love what she’s feeling.

Like it or not, this is my opinion. And all the guys that paid me for my time and companionship and tried the love card with me I simply refused to see them anymore. They were either too naïve, either they liked the idea of having a handy ATM in their bed (I read this last part here somewhere, sorry for using it but I like the way it sounds).

If sometimes the exception that confirms the roule occurs, this is really the exception.
So rare that you need to look for it like for a needle in a haystack.

[Sam Spade]

Love??? Here is a cynical post from someone who is usually very optimistic.

While I give some punters circumstances why they think they are in love, seeing that they might use the small head instead of the one with brains, I don’t give as many circumstances to escorts.

An escort is not falling in love so easily, at least not one who is in the business for at least a few month. Despite their fragile looks for some, they are all though women strong enough to run for presidency.

Some girls play the love cars to gain more advantages. Some others, to have someone they trust around when working because it can be very lonely at times. But unless she is not really contemplating to give up her escorting job for someone, there is in no way love what she’s feeling.

Like it or not, this is my opinion. And all the guys that paid me for my time and companionship and tried the love card with me I simply refused to see them anymore. They were either too naïve, either they liked the idea of having a handy ATM in their bed (I read this last part here somewhere, sorry for using it but I like the way it sounds).

If sometimes the exception that confirms the roule occurs, this is really the exception.
So rare that you need to look for it like for a needle in a haystack.

I don't think your post is cynical, but realistic.

I know little if nothing about the escorting world so I won't pretends to do so.

For what it's worth, I believe we all have to protect ourselves as far as possible from love in this artificial world, punters and escorts alike.
It's not fair for the escort who has to make a living from this business, nor the punter who can easily be love struck.

The best we can hope for is a mutual respect and perhaps a great liking for one another which would fall short of love.
Love is a very strong emotion which can lead to great pain and destruction.

If however love is discovered that's great.
But in doing so it will change your life in more ways that one.

[Forrest]

Love??? Here is a cynical post from someone who is usually very optimistic.

While I give some punters circumstances why they think they are in love, seeing that they might use the small head instead of the one with brains, I don’t give as many circumstances to escorts.

An escort is not falling in love so easily, at least not one who is in the business for at least a few month. Despite their fragile looks for some, they are all though women strong enough to run for presidency.

Some girls play the love cars to gain more advantages. Some others, to have someone they trust around when working because it can be very lonely at times. But unless she is not really contemplating to give up her escorting job for someone, there is in no way love what she’s feeling.

Like it or not, this is my opinion. And all the guys that paid me for my time and companionship and tried the love card with me I simply refused to see them anymore. They were either too naïve, either they liked the idea of having a handy ATM in their bed (I read this last part here somewhere, sorry for using it but I like the way it sounds).

If sometimes the exception that confirms the roule occurs, this is really the exception.
So rare that you need to look for it like for a needle in a haystack.

It may be a little cynical, Karin, but you are probably, for the most part, spot on.
I'm sure there are guys that use the 'love' card for ulterior motives, and there are probably some escorts that will lead them on, purely to get more money from them( a fool and his money, and all that )

For my part, there have been escorts that I have met that I could quite easily fall in love with, but I realise that it's just that they are so good at their job.
You shouldn't turn away a client who plays the love card, unless they become threatening.
I'm sure there are plenty of guys who fall in 'love' with you for the time they are in your company, but realise that it is because of an excellent service rather than an emotional connection.

[jacksparrow2010]

then i go back to my home country , where I have an arranged marrage, to a suitor choosen by my dad,

this is part of your post makes me quiet sad Cindy... as its just wrong ...
nobody should be forced into arranged marrage... its 2010! soon be 2011 and for there to still be aranged marrages is just wrong... i almost cant believe it!...

Captain J...

[Forrest]

this is part of your post makes me quiet sad Cindy... as its just wrong ...
nobody should be forced into arranged marrage... its 2010! soon be 2011 and for there to still be aranged marrages is just wrong... i almost cant believe it!...

Captain J...

Jack, that part of the post is not Cindy's. She obviously didn't use the 'quotes' option correctly, as the majority of that post is from Areeya https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...tml#post337163

[Sensual Delights]

You shouldn't turn away a client who plays the love card, unless they become threatening.

Well, it's just me not being comfortable being around such cards. I am aware that a more practical escort would do exactly as in your quote, but for me it's uncomfortable that I can lo longer act naturaly and any session is just a painful mind game, so I rather stay clear away.

Things like these (because I got many others) prove to me I'm not 100% escort material. I should be more opportunistic. At the end of one day, when a successful escort is counting the cash for the day, I am counting how many people I said no to and wory about my bills

[jacksparrow2010]

Jack, that part of the post is not Cindy's. She obviously didn't use the 'quotes' option correctly, as the majority of that post is from Areeya https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...tml#post337163

well now i feel stupid...haha..
shows i should read more before i post..