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    Question Escorts, do you like seeing reviewers?

    I am not asking if you like to get reviews, good bad or whatever.

    I am not asking about clients who tell you before that they are going to review you as some kind of encouragement or threat.

    I'm not asking if the guys who write lots of reviews are actually really great lovers.

    I'm just wondering this, do you find that the guys who leave reviews are easier or harder to see? Are they more serious about their punt, more realistic in their expectations, more considerate and better prepared. Or are they more demanding, cynical and arrogant? Or just the same as the others. Or something else?

    Do you ever find yourself thinking, this guy is a reviewer?

    Just wondering.

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    The secret is to forget all about the review and just give the service. Anyone could be a reviewer, we always know that. The only thing I don't like is if someone says something along the lines of make this good, there will be a review.

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    Why would anyone say they're going to write a review, except as a threat? It seems like a strange thing to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by El Gordo View Post
    Why would anyone say they're going to write a review, except as a threat? It seems like a strange thing to do.
    One reviewer did just that a while back lost all creditability ,but there are dick heads out there .;doc;
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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    The secret is to forget all about the review and just give the service. Anyone could be a reviewer, we always know that. The only thing I don't like is if someone says something along the lines of make this good, there will be a review.



    You should have replied "You make this good, you are on candid camera!! And I am sending the tape to your wife."

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    Before I registered in March this year, I had my one and only experience, where after making a booking, making the effort to go into city centre in Dublin, only for the escort in question never to answer her phone or return any texts. So I decided to register and since then I haven't had one bad experience. I think nearly every appointment I have made since has started off via PM. I am not saying that this is necessary to have a great experience. Obviously the escorts know I am a reviewer this way, but I certainly hope it isn't perceived that is why I do it. I never mention it during the booking or before an appointment.

    For me exchanging a few PMs beforehand helps break the ice, and helps both the escort and me to get to know each other a little first.
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    Quote Originally Posted by El Gordo View Post
    Why would anyone say they're going to write a review, except as a threat? It seems like a strange thing to do.
    El Gordo, some clients have been known to waft money at me and say if 'I give you this as well am I going to have a good time'?

    Unfortunately there will always be someone who thinks that money or favours will get something 'extra'. I don't like that, and it would make no difference to the service. it may actually offend me, given my mood. On the same note, if I was upset by or didn't like someone, they would be seeing the outside of my door- reviewer or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    El Gordo, some clients have been known to waft money at me and say if 'I give you this as well am I going to have a good time'?

    Unfortunately there will always be someone who thinks that money or favours will get something 'extra'. I don't like that, and it would make no difference to the service. it may actually offend me, given my mood. On the same note, if I was upset by or didn't like someone, they would be seeing the outside of my door- reviewer or not.
    And I for one don't doubt that you would ,
    Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before.
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    Quote Originally Posted by El Gordo View Post
    Why would anyone say they're going to write a review, except as a threat? It seems like a strange thing to do.
    Yes indeed, I know for a fact that there are guys who are big enough assholes to try exactly this: using the "threat" of a review to try to gain something, whatever it is they think they want, from an escort. In their pathetic, immature minds it probably seems like a form of power.

    Personally I don't think I've ever mentioned my EI username to an escort (or mentioned EI at all for that matter - there are more interesting things to talk about, no offence). Also I've never (successfully) made a booking through EI by pm - I prefer to call, hear a voice, and make a decision based on that.

    As for writing reviews, to be honest I always feel more than a little ambiguous about it: a good review is useful to an escort & is therefore the least that you can do for somebody who put a lot of time & effort into ensuring that I enjoyed my experience with them. It is a form of "thank you" but on the other hand it does feel a bit "kiss & tell" and I am always afraid that an escort will feel degraded or insulted by something that I might say.

    Some of the things that I read in reviews horrifies me - the way some men discuss women is unbelievable. I mean they seem to forget that they are speaking about a human being with whom they have shared an intimate (physical) experience. They then discuss her and her "service" as if she were goods - I find that disgusting but then, like I said, some guys are assholes. This is why I sometimes think I don't want to post a review - I'd hate to be associated with such creeps or considered one of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bodkin View Post
    Yes indeed, I know for a fact that there are guys who are big enough assholes to try exactly this: using the "threat" of a review to try to gain something, whatever it is they think they want, from an escort. In their pathetic, immature minds it probably seems like a form of power.

    Personally I don't think I've ever mentioned my EI username to an escort (or mentioned EI at all for that matter - there are more interesting things to talk about, no offence). Also I've never (successfully) made a booking through EI by pm - I prefer to call, hear a voice, and make a decision based on that.

    As for writing reviews, to be honest I always feel more than a little ambiguous about it: a good review is useful to an escort & is therefore the least that you can do for somebody who put a lot of time & effort into ensuring that I enjoyed my experience with them. It is a form of "thank you" but on the other hand it does feel a bit "kiss & tell" and I am always afraid that an escort will feel degraded or insulted by something that I might say.

    Some of the things that I read in reviews horrifies me - the way some men discuss women is unbelievable. I mean they seem to forget that they are speaking about a human being with whom they have shared an intimate (physical) experience. They then discuss her and her "service" as if she were goods - I find that disgusting but then, like I said, some guys are assholes. This is why I sometimes think I don't want to post a review - I'd hate to be associated with such creeps or considered one of them.
    I don't think you should feel bad about writing reviews. Escorts who really don't want to be reviewed can always opt out. As long as you're tactful, you should think of it as something which is helpful both for the escort and for other clients.

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