Do we truly respect escorts - or is it just a quick fuck?

[Irish Fiona]

If you truly would respect them, you wouldn't have sex with them. But you do it because 'its their job and well, i just paid good money'.

Everyone says they do, but everybody wants sex from them in the end. Nothing more than that. The chat before, the gifts, the laughs, it's all just foreplay.

Hey hun!
You can pay for a service and still respect the person that provides it (no matter what service)!
But this topic is really getting repetitive!! Basic common sense should prevail here

Fiona xxx

[Sam Spade]

If you truly would respect them, you wouldn't have sex with them. But you do it because 'its their job and well, i just paid good money'.

Everyone says they do, but everybody wants sex from them in the end. Nothing more than that. The chat before, the gifts, the laughs, it's all just foreplay.

Just because you have sex with an escort does't mean you can't respect them.
Otherwise marriage for example would be a very baron place!

Yes, it is the escorts job to satisfy you which you have indeed paid good money for, and yes you want to fuck that gorgeous girl opposite you. Surly however that does not mean you can ride in, wham bam fuck you madame and leave - what does that say to us? I truly hope we are more than animals to take what we want!

Foreplay is great, but sex is so much more that that.

[ChiefHandker]

Do I thank them - every time my heart beats.

That should really come with a cheese disclaimer.

Sorry you probably mean well but this is just corny and taking the slightest of different angles to what's already been discussed over and over and over and over...

[robijntje]

I expressed my opinion.

Mark, I don't believe you pay a wife money to be married to you? You have sex with her out of love and connection. With escorts, you have sex with them because they tolerate you doing so because you've paid them.

It's a service they provide, but I always think what they would think. Would she even tolerate me in her presence when I wouldn't have paid her?

For me, respect is asking/knowing what the other person feels/believes/wants, and take that into account. Most of them wouldn't even want to lay eyes upon me in a club, so why would I suddenly expect that they're waiting in line?

[Ric Hardgear]

FFS tweaking nipples thats the real issue,everything else has been flogged to death,have you falen in love ,,have you dated.. have you made friends with........an escort?.....its the tweaking of nipples ..lol..sorry im giggling..that is the only pressing question here ...to tweak or not to tweak????

[jggy2003]

FFS tweaking nipples thats the real issue,everything else has been flogged to death,have you falen in love ,,have you dated.. have you made friends with........an escort?.....its the tweaking of nipples ..lol..sorry im giggling..that is the only pressing question here ...to tweak or not to tweak????

You've tweaked this thread!!! I'd be a non tweaker myself, I hate when mine are tweaked!!!

[espensen]

I respect the good ones

[magicalman9357]

This question perhaps have several angles which I am sure will be explored over the next few days.

This question for me relates to the skill of any person in any occupation.

A professional escort who provides the escape, companionship and illusion of a perfect lover, has a true skill and vocation. Should this not be respected and rewarded?

I have often read reviews where the reviewer has indicated that the escort is quite unattractive. I have in turn visited these escorts and found them quite beautiful.
It may be that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, or is it just that some reviewers do not get what they want and therefore cloud their judgement and therefore view on the ladies looks? Perhaps they may even want to get their own back on this escort?

My question was 'do we truly respect escorts - or is it a quick fuck?'

If we respect our escorts we should always know the limits and never be afraid to remind the escort or ourselves of these limits. Never be afraid to ask the escort if we are causing discomfort or pain, whether by sqeezing her nipple too hard or otherwise. I would like to think the majority of us would be turned off if we found we were hurting our lover so why not an escort!

Regarding beauty,perhaps we should look in the mirror before we make such judgements.
I for one have been so very lucky that all the ladies I have visited over the past two years have either been beautiful if not gorgeous.
Even if they were plain, just think of the pleasure they give us.
Where else could we ever experience such beauty and pleasure at such a modest cost?

Remember this is after all illusion and for me these ladies are providing it in abundance.

Do I pay them for their time and companionship? Yes.
Do I thank them - every time my heart beats.

Some may think I am a pussy for saying this, but I think it has to be said.

I respect all escorts as I respect all women regardless of anything.

[mr maxi]

Respect comes from within. Doesn't matter who you are dealing with. Could be your mother , sister , wife boss or even yourself.
I was brought up to respect people in general until i am given good reason not to so the answer to your question the answer is yes i do respect escorts but they just happen to be a mighty good fuck.

Don't think for 1 second just because you are paying you can act like a cock because you can't.

[rover]

Respect has nothing to do with it really. You see an escort and you pay for the service (for their time and company). If you have only met the lady once, it's not long enough to develop a mutual respect, of course you can show respect and common courtesy, which comes without saying.

Respect is developed over time.


How To Be Respectful

1. Listen harder. We already know that proactive listening should be your first social skill. We know this because we love when people listen to us, so we find it safe to assume that other people love when we listen to them.
2. Be considerate. Once you’ve listened, it’s time to act accordingly. If there was anything about the persons tone of voice or body language that gave a hint as to how they were feeling, use that information in your interaction.
3. Keep your promise. By keeping your word to someone, you not only establish yourself as a person of integrity, but make the other person feel as though you value them.
4. Be on time. Another way to demonstrate that you value someone, is by treating their time as though it is valuable. Nothing says this better than being punctual. If you have a problem with being chronically late, read my post Always Late? Let’s fix it.
5. Have manners. This is pretty simple. Do not interrupt a conversation, be polite and watch your ‘please’ and ‘thank you’. By showing manners towards someone, you make them feel valuable.
6. Encourage. Sometimes when we hear a silly idea, it’s easy to shoot down someone’s hopes and dreams, or otherwise make them feel unimportant. Genuinely encouraging someone could be very empowering and liberating.
7. Be fair. We often find ourselves in a position of power over someone else; to some extent. Having power enables the opportunity to be corrupt. Avoid corruption, give people what they earn-deserve, and they’ll appreciate it.
8. Go out of your way. You don’t have to always do the bare minimum. If you want to show someone that they’re valuable, and that you respect them, go the extra mile without expecting a reward.
9. Preserve dignity. When wronged, mistreated, or otherwise upset in some way handle the dispute with finesse. This means approaching the person in such a way as to preserve their dignity. The best way to handle it is via a calm and private conversation, as opposed to a public screaming match.
10. Do Not Assume. They say when you ASSUME, you make an AS$- out of -U- and -ME. So don’t assume anything about a person based on their race, income level, or gender. Start off each interaction by thinking of the other person as your equal.

There are dozens if not hundreds of other ways to show people respect. However, the key to showing someone respect, is to show the person you are interacting with that they are valuable. Could you name some of your favorite ways to show respect?