Stick to just one ?

[Banjo]

Nobody's going to attack you Fiona. xx Your opinion is welcome.

In answer to your yes/no question about CIM/OWO, I would answer yes. It does include these activities.

When I read the posting about unprotected sex in the warnings forum it got me scared. That's the background against which I wrote my posting. That other thread got me thinking and I was wondering if there were any way of minimising the risks.

As intelligent, clever and with it as you clearly are yourself Fiona, it's never possible for escort or client to know what they're dealing with when the meet for the first time. My point is that it may be possible to reduce that element of risk by sticking to just one. One girl that is for the clients .... not the other way around of course.

[City Gent]

Indeed it is Alexanda! lol

I know you mean "Aleksandr" Jackie but I'm more like his great-grandaddy "Vitaly" but you could still work under me

CG

[BruceAlmighty]

Sorry am i missing something here???? Unprotected sex????? That means anything without a condom........ yes?????? That include's OWO CIM....... YES/NO???? Or am i just an ignorant idiot!!!! To me, any lady that offers it is agency! No independent intelligent and informed lady would ever provide a service excluding protection!!! Do the math!!!!? And why would you need to????
Most of my regulars come to me because i am so strict on hygiene and protection!

"Men are from Mars women are from Venus" springs to mind here!!!!!

I just dont understand the mentality of someone gambling with their lives like this...... but thats just me as i said!!!!

I just felt the need to add here because it is a very important part of my life in this business!

Please dont attack me..... i'm not enforcing or judging..........just adding/expressing etc

Fi Fi the chilled xxxxxx








Absolutely no disrespect to anyone's personal choices here....... just expressing mine

I won't attack your opinion, but please don't use words like agency, intelligent and informed. Many beautiful ladies I have visited have offered CIM and OWO which was wonderful and I am very happy that the ladies were independent and both intelligent and informed.

Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but that opinion doesn't extended to generalisations.....

[City Gent]

I won't attack your opinion, but please don't use words like agency, intelligent and informed. Many beautiful ladies I have visited have offered CIM and OWO which was wonderful and I am very happy that the ladies were independent and both intelligent and informed.

Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but that opinion doesn't extended to generalisations.....

Well put that Bruce a very good answer that to me was more of a rant than an opinion, but that's just my opinion.

CG

[Lucy Chambers]

They aren't the same risks. And being informed generally means having the ability to make up your own mind. Here is some more information from another post about this-

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...areback-2.html

Everybody has the right to make up their own mind and it is your decision what you choose to partake in. But generalisations, as Bruce mentioned, are quite dangerous and unfounded.

[Sam Spade]

[QUOTE=Banjo;320967]Having had the pants scared off me by what I read on the "Warnings Section" about unprotected sex, I have serious thoughts of completely pulling out of the scene altogether.

Or, another thought I'm having is to pick one girl and stick to only her. Someone I've been with before in the past most likely who I found it easy to be in company with and as far as is possible is trustworthy to not engange in dodgy activities with other clients.


I believe it is as simple as this.
Protection must be used at all times unless you are in a long term relationship with a girl who sees only you.
That means condom, covered oral and no rimming or other activities which may cause infection.
It may limit the menu available but if you stick to this, I believe it is safe to explore more than one escort.
Remember even if you decide to stick only to one escort, she may have other clients who may in turn visited a number of escorts - do the maths!

If you say to an escort that you are happy with covered oral without CIM, believe me she will be happy to obliged,
wouldn't you!

I guess it's never possible to be 100% sure that sex is safe, however if you exercise good practice the you should minimise the risks?

Happy punting.

[Jasmin]

Everybody(or most of us) agrees that having unprotected oral sex is not as risky as having unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse. But nobody can deny than unprotected oral sex is NOT risk free, mind that Gonorrhea survives well in the throat and it is common.

Surely each one can decide how much risk they take in their own lives. Personally OWO and CIM are risks that I prefer not to take, needless to say that I don’t reach those clients that consider them essential services, but it is my choice and I do accept that, on the other hand there are the ones that visit me because they feel safe knowing that I don't do it, so they have told me.

[BruceAlmighty]

Everybody(or most of us) agrees that having unprotected oral sex is not as risky as having unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse. But nobody can deny than unprotected oral sex is NOT risk free, mind that Gonorrhea survives well in the throat and it is common.

Surely each one can decide how much risk they take in their own lives. Personally OWO and CIM are risks that I prefer not to take, needless to say that I don’t reach those clients that consider them essential services, but it is my choice and I do accept that, on the other hand there are the ones that visit me because they feel safe knowing that I don't do it, so they have told me.

Thank you for the reasoned comments, Jasmin.

[Doozer]

I have to agree. There is risk with owo cim but its negligable compared to anal or vaginal sex.
If women want to partake in owo or cim thats up to them and it should never be forced on them
But owo and cim are considerably safer. Escorts here get themselves checked out often and are actually probably healthier than you normal girl in a pub/club.

As regards to OWO and CIM its up to the escort to decide if she wants to offer this service and the punter can decline if thats his wish, however seeing as the risk of anal and vaginal sex condom free is so high no one should ever take the risk

[Jasmin]

I have to agree. There is risk with owo cim but its negligable compared to anal or vaginal sex.
If women want to partake in owo or cim thats up to them and it should never be forced on them
But owo and cim are considerably safer. Escorts here get themselves checked out often and are actually probably healthier than you normal girl in a pub/club.

As regards to OWO and CIM its up to the escort to decide if she wants to offer this service and the punter can decline if thats his wish, however seeing as the risk of anal and vaginal sex condom free is so high no one should ever take the risk

I do get checked out regularly but how do I know everyone that I see do the same?
Of course being an escort brings me risks as for the nature of the business but let's face it nobody wants to get the results of their tests with the word POSITIVE