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Thread: is it possible to love an escort?true love? honestly..

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    Quote Originally Posted by mountainmile View Post
    Ive met escorts ive disliked,liked,lusted after,etc .However i have on occasion thought to myself "i wonder who the lucky B###### is who is with her in her day to day life ?".Its true this could be explained as initial infatuation just after meeting ,but its also true that it cant be explained purely through physical attraction, as ive left stunningly beautiful escorts and never thought about them again from that day to this.It shows that (and i know the escort most likely wont have had similar thoughts),..... physical attraction,personality,interests etc are the primary factors with regard being attracted to someone.What her occupation is couldnt stop a guy falling in love with an escort .....her occupation may however mean he will not or could not allow himself get involved in a relationship with her if he knows he couldnt get past that issue.This is the answer i suppose....Of course he could fall in love with her ,it just means nothing may come of it

    Just to clarify lol
    I am NOT declaring undying love for any of the ladies i have met,but i have met some who appear to have all the attributes i would look for in a woman ,so only a robot could state that her profession would 100% guarantee you wouldnt fall for her outside of punting

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    Quote Originally Posted by mountainmile View Post
    Just to clarify lol
    I am NOT declaring undying love for any of the ladies i have met,but i have met some who appear to have all the attributes i would look for in a woman ,so only a robot could state that her profession would 100% guarantee you wouldnt fall for her outside of punting
    nooooooo..didn't meant that..just u sayed that u've met escorts u liked u disliked...and that's why I asked u 4 examples,anyway was a joke,didn't meant to say that u falled with any..
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    Quote Originally Posted by shirleyy View Post
    could u give some examples? loooooool :P
    I could Shirley lol
    But i dont publicly disrespect the ones i didnt like
    And i might scare you into deleting my number from your phone if i was to list the ones i liked/lusted after :-) (And im not gonna do that until i get a chance to hide your passport while i buy the ring lol)

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    Quote Originally Posted by shirleyy View Post
    nooooooo..didn't meant that..just u sayed that u've met escorts u liked u disliked...and that's why I asked u 4 examples,anyway was a joke,didn't meant to say that u falled with any..
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    I know you didnt mean that
    I posted that clarification as an add on to my earlier post before i saw your query......not as a reply to you asking who i liked/disliked lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by shirleyy View Post
    I suppose not..maybe somebody can like ,appreciate an escort,maybe feel butterflyes into the stomach when looking her,but true love 4 an escort without asking to quit the bussiness it's impossible..
    I think many people misunderstand what love really is. The type of love they have for someone is a conditional love where they only love someone if that person loves them back or is a certain social status or colour or whatever. In a way this is selfish where you only love someone for what you can get out of it.

    But a true love would love someone regardless of what that person has done or does do or could do they dont love someone for what that person gives them. So in essence you can love someone with all your heart and let them go because that love does not demand a payment.
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    Love begins not with lightening bolts but from the seeds of friendship and respect.
    I have net some Ladies working as escorts that seem like wonderful people.
    Could I fall in love with an escort?
    Yes I could!
    But could I be in a relationship with a Lady working as an Escort?
    I do not think for whatever reason I could (male ego etc).

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    I am very fond of one particular escort I visit although I would never dream of telling her and risk crossing the line between being a nice client and a pest or worse.

    We chat a lot when we meet and I could see myself falling in love were the circumstances different - as to asking a girl to quit the business well I believe in freedom of choice.

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    when you meet an escort you have to remember (learnt from a mistake) that you are doing so in a professional basis, a good escort will only show you the side of them they want to show. It is very easy to mistake that for true affection being show by an escort, because if they are good at their job they are able to repeat this multiple times every day.

    Where us guys go wrong is forgetting the above and thinking "it's only me" this girl does this for. Our ego's take over and we mistake an escorts professionalism for affection. Just look at some of the reviews posted, you'd swear the punters were about to propose.

    it might be different if you knew the escort "out of work" but when it's an escort/punter relationship I don't think you can say you love the escort as you don't truly know them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shirleyy View Post
    I suppose not..maybe somebody can like ,appreciate an escort,maybe feel butterflyes into the stomach when looking her,but true love 4 an escort without asking to quit the bussiness it's impossible..
    It is possible. Whats questionable is both parties being able to maintain a relationship. From the guys viewpoint having to deal with her job and from the girls viewpoint being able to emotionally get involved with the guy. Both of these take common sense and the ability to keep things in perspective. Not always easy to do. I think its harder for the escort though.

    Westside.

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    man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.
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