is it possible to love an escort?true love? honestly..

[Violette]

The people of Hallmark will never beat down your door with a job offer

Thank fuck for that, I would top myself if I had to spend the day writing dribble for greeting cards.
Oh, and if you think I am cynical try this website: www.despair.com, this site makes me look like Mother Theresa.

[robijntje]

Being in love isn't all that its cracked up to be, you behave stupidly, make silly decisions, and basically stop being a rational thinking person, what in the name of god is soo great about behaving like a complete idiot to make a few babies? Which is when you get right down to it, is what all that ridiculous billing and cooing is about. The by product of that is that to ensure the proper care of the off spring daddy sticks around for longer than it took to get his fly unzipped, and thus a bond starts to form between man and woman, and then another baby is born so he sticks around some more. Then a house is purchased, cars, vacations, and before you know it he is so tied in, he can't leave. Plus with the divorce laws in Ireland, the woman would get half anyway, so he stays around being miserable, and then enter escorts.

I know, I am cynical!

I don't know what a man has ever done to you to make you think this way, but you are mostly referring to what happens with the 'touchable' side of it, you refer to marriage and the likes, but what on earth has that got to do with love in essence?

Is it becaue I don't want to marry someone that I don't love that person? Love can be shown in so many ways, but you think of the material side? That side is just what society makes of it, but what you have with that person, you decide.

And I think that if you are in love, you're probably the first one to act like a silly bunny.

I just have the feeling I'm talking to some kind of Artificial Intelligence here rather than a human being.

[BruceAlmighty]

If you have any doubts, always go with a pre-nup.

And don't keep golf clubs in the house.

[robijntje]

But we still have no distinguished answer.

Guess it's different from person to person .


It's a wrap.

[Rodney69]

Not at all, I have loved poor men, rich men and ones in between. Now in terms of giving up my job, for love to a poor man, it ain't going to happen. Would I give up my job for a rich one, probably not either. I like being an independent woman. I allow a man to enter my life to enhance it, not to dictate and change it.
So, having a man on the same economic level as myself is important.

Violette, if you happened to fall for a client in the future, since you are an independent woman and wouldn't give this up, would it be OK for the man to keep seeing escorts. I know it is not the same thing as for an escort it is a job, but for the client it is for pleasure. But as long as it is only pleasure with no emotional attachment to it and it is not kept secret from you, would you allow it?

[robijntje]

Violette, if you happened to fall for a client in the future, since you are an independent woman and wouldn't give this up, would it be OK for the man to keep seeing escorts. I know it is not the same thing as for an escort it is a job, but for the client it is for pleasure. But as long as it is only pleasure with no emotional attachment to it and it is not kept secret from you, would you allow it?

I think her falling for a client in the future is very unlikely to happen.