Does punting effect your perspective or expectations of women???

[luther]

I'm not suggesting that escorts aren't real women, but I'm just wondering if punting effects your expectations, sexually or otherwise of women you may meet socially???

Do you expect women you hope to meet socially to be the beautiful godesses we see here every day???

Do you expect them to be as sexual as the women you may have met here???

Do you find yourself making comparisons???

I'm not trying to insult or judge anyone here, just wondering.......

[debest]

.........no!

[JAMESCORK]

.........no!

Probably because besides your mom, your only interaction with a female has been an escort. Lol.

Of course it alters your relationship with women. But there are two types if relationship: sexual and emotional. Seeing escorts can fuck up both in your life. You very rarely meet a honey that will allow you direct your sexual encounter to suit your tastes as you can with an escort. Then there is the punter that falls in love with the escort only to come crashing back to earth when realism hits home. This can seriously damage a normal guys outlook on relationship with women.

Nah... I'm with Rover on this one and share his enthusiasm. But we all need to adopt a policy of mature consideration when it comes to escorts.

[skywalker85]

Probably because besides your mom, your only interaction with a female has been an escort. Lol.

Of course it alters your relationship with women. But there are two types if relationship: sexual and emotional. Seeing escorts can fuck up both in your life. You very rarely meet a honey that will allow you direct your sexual encounter to suit your tastes as you can with an escort. Then there is the punter that falls in love with the escort only to come crashing back to earth when realism hits home. This can seriously damage a normal guys outlook on relationship with women.

Nah... I'm with Rover on this one and share his enthusiasm. But we all need to adopt a policy of mature consideration when it comes to escorts.

100% agree with ya ther bout crashing back to earth,then its deep depression til the next punt lol escorts can fuck your head up!!!

[Monkeynut]

Simple answer is yes it does ......

Not so simple answer is yes it does if you are not careful ......

Complicated answer is 2x + 3y ((x+2y)/(3x-2y)) where T = Lucy Chambers

[Cable87]

For me it's a resounding 'YES', it can and definitely has affected my standards and expectations for sex and dating with non-escorts.

I'm currently seeing a beautiful blonde from Finland; she's nearly 10 years younger than myself, friendly, always smiling, and in my opinion, every bit as good looking as many of the ladies that advertise on this site, and even better looking than some of the escorts I've seen in the past. But even though her and I have already slept together (and have even gone on a shopping trip to LaSenza where she gladly tried-on and let me buy her one of the naughtiest outfits in the shop), I must say that we kind of had a 'false-start' when it came to sex, and I think it was almost totally me and my experiences with escorts that was the cause of it.

What can I say? The first time we were in bed together, despite her being really attractive and horny, I just wasn't as 'stimulated' by the overall experience; I just wasn't all that excited, and though she's very happy to be on the receiving end of things, she's been really shy about 'giving'. We've talked about things now, and she's told me that "all I need to do is ask" (which I must say has worked out well for me ), but there certainly was that underlying expectation there that she would just sort of know what I wanted/expected, or that she would be sort of bold and straightforward in bed without me having to ask, the way things typically are with escorts.

I suppose I've spoiled myself with the level and quality of sex that escorts provide, and felt a bit let-down at first when things started with this girl, since it has been 90% me directing/guiding our sexual ecounters, whereas with escorts it's often them that takes the inititive.

So I've just needed to make a bit of effort to reconcile my expectations with the reality of things again, it's just taken a bit of time to do so.

[dr love]

i would think luther older punters would be doing it for purely personal reasons.marriage breakups sex life dead at home and the like.

[rover]

I'm not suggesting that escorts aren't real women, but I'm just wondering if punting effects your expectations, sexually or otherwise of women you may meet socially???

Do you expect women you hope to meet socially to be the beautiful godesses we see here every day???

Do you expect them to be as sexual as the women you may have met here???

Do you find yourself making comparisons???

I'm not trying to insult or judge anyone here, just wondering.......

You couldn't ask to shag your buddies wife or the next door neighbours wife, as you say we are surrounded by Godesses here, aren't we the lucky ones, all I know that since I stumbled on this site, I've become obsessed by sex, I dream about it.

[SeeGee]

I'm not suggesting that escorts aren't real women, but I'm just wondering if punting effects your expectations, sexually or otherwise of women you may meet socially???

Do you expect women you hope to meet socially to be the beautiful godesses we see here every day???

Do you expect them to be as sexual as the women you may have met here???

Do you find yourself making comparisons???

I'm not trying to insult or judge anyone here, just wondering.......

For me it definitely does. Its hard to go back to a crap small car when you've experienced the luxury of a bigger, more powerful and stylish bmw for example. Plus escorts are "sex professionals", many non escorts are sooo crap in bed and some have zinch experience too. Went out with a bird few years back, attractive but the worst shag ever. Never wanted to go on top or nothing. Needless to say, it didnt last long..

[JohnRambo]

You can’t and shouldn’t try and compare a normal woman and an escort when it comes to sex, one will have the average number of sexual partners in her life the other will have had thousands, doesn’t make sense.