Does punting effect your perspective or expectations of women???

[JAMESCORK]

.........no!

Probably because besides your mom, your only interaction with a female has been an escort. Lol.

Of course it alters your relationship with women. But there are two types if relationship: sexual and emotional. Seeing escorts can fuck up both in your life. You very rarely meet a honey that will allow you direct your sexual encounter to suit your tastes as you can with an escort. Then there is the punter that falls in love with the escort only to come crashing back to earth when realism hits home. This can seriously damage a normal guys outlook on relationship with women.

Nah... I'm with Rover on this one and share his enthusiasm. But we all need to adopt a policy of mature consideration when it comes to escorts.

[skywalker85]

Probably because besides your mom, your only interaction with a female has been an escort. Lol.

Of course it alters your relationship with women. But there are two types if relationship: sexual and emotional. Seeing escorts can fuck up both in your life. You very rarely meet a honey that will allow you direct your sexual encounter to suit your tastes as you can with an escort. Then there is the punter that falls in love with the escort only to come crashing back to earth when realism hits home. This can seriously damage a normal guys outlook on relationship with women.

Nah... I'm with Rover on this one and share his enthusiasm. But we all need to adopt a policy of mature consideration when it comes to escorts.

100% agree with ya ther bout crashing back to earth,then its deep depression til the next punt lol escorts can fuck your head up!!!

[Monkeynut]

Simple answer is yes it does ......

Not so simple answer is yes it does if you are not careful ......

Complicated answer is 2x + 3y ((x+2y)/(3x-2y)) where T = Lucy Chambers

[stickytoffee10]

I'm not suggesting that escorts aren't real women, but I'm just wondering if punting effects your expectations, sexually or otherwise of women you may meet socially???

Do you expect women you hope to meet socially to be the beautiful godesses we see here every day???

Do you expect them to be as sexual as the women you may have met here???

Do you find yourself making comparisons???

I'm not trying to insult or judge anyone here, just wondering.......

you write this as if escorts are the only lovely ladies around. i know alot of lovely ladies where i'm from, i'm sure u do too where your from. it's not just about looks but it's a bonus, i really like to get on well with ladies be it escorts or just ladies in general, being with a stunner and not getting on, what's the point.

[Cable87]

For me it's a resounding 'YES', it can and definitely has affected my standards and expectations for sex and dating with non-escorts.

I'm currently seeing a beautiful blonde from Finland; she's nearly 10 years younger than myself, friendly, always smiling, and in my opinion, every bit as good looking as many of the ladies that advertise on this site, and even better looking than some of the escorts I've seen in the past. But even though her and I have already slept together (and have even gone on a shopping trip to LaSenza where she gladly tried-on and let me buy her one of the naughtiest outfits in the shop), I must say that we kind of had a 'false-start' when it came to sex, and I think it was almost totally me and my experiences with escorts that was the cause of it.

What can I say? The first time we were in bed together, despite her being really attractive and horny, I just wasn't as 'stimulated' by the overall experience; I just wasn't all that excited, and though she's very happy to be on the receiving end of things, she's been really shy about 'giving'. We've talked about things now, and she's told me that "all I need to do is ask" (which I must say has worked out well for me ), but there certainly was that underlying expectation there that she would just sort of know what I wanted/expected, or that she would be sort of bold and straightforward in bed without me having to ask, the way things typically are with escorts.

I suppose I've spoiled myself with the level and quality of sex that escorts provide, and felt a bit let-down at first when things started with this girl, since it has been 90% me directing/guiding our sexual ecounters, whereas with escorts it's often them that takes the inititive.

So I've just needed to make a bit of effort to reconcile my expectations with the reality of things again, it's just taken a bit of time to do so.

[Westsidex]

I'm not suggesting that escorts aren't real women, but I'm just wondering if punting effects your expectations, sexually or otherwise of women you may meet socially???

Nope wouldnt effect me in the slightest. The answer will be at the end.

Do you expect women you hope to meet socially to be the beautiful godesses we see here every day???


Maybe ,maybe not. Never gave it any thought.

Do you expect them to be as sexual as the women you may have met here???

As sexual maybe. as experienced nope but see the end again.

Do you find yourself making comparisons???

Nope anymore than if i make comparisons between a new gf and an old one.


It all boils down to chemistry. When you might someone you click with, you dont see or think about these other things. Also if its an escort you meet socially you dont see the escort bit to be honest. You just see a woman the same as everyone else. It all boils down to chemistry.

Westside.

[carlos marvado]

For me it's a resounding 'YES', it can and definitely has affected my standards and expectations for sex and dating with non-escorts.

I'm currently seeing a beautiful blonde from Finland; she's nearly 10 years younger than myself, friendly, always smiling, and in my opinion, every bit as good looking as many of the ladies that advertise on this site, and even better looking than some of the escorts I've seen in the past. But even though her and I have already slept together (and have even gone on a shopping trip to LaSenza where she gladly tried-on and let me buy her one of the naughtiest outfits in the shop), I must say that we kind of had a 'false-start' when it came to sex, and I think it was almost totally me and my experiences with escorts that was the cause of it.

What can I say? The first time we were in bed together, despite her being really attractive and horny, I just wasn't as 'stimulated' by the overall experience; I just wasn't all that excited, and though she's very happy to be on the receiving end of things, she's been really shy about 'giving'. We've talked about things now, and she's told me that "all I need to do is ask" (which I must say has worked out well for me ), but there certainly was that underlying expectation there that she would just sort of know what I wanted/expected, or that she would be sort of bold and straightforward in bed without me having to ask, the way things typically are with escorts.

I suppose I've spoiled myself with the level and quality of sex that escorts provide, and felt a bit let-down at first when things started with this girl, since it has been 90% me directing/guiding our sexual ecounters, whereas with escorts it's often them that takes the inititive.

So I've just needed to make a bit of effort to reconcile my expectations with the reality of things again, it's just taken a bit of time to do so.

That seems to encapsulate it pretty well. With escorts, no matter how good of an actress they are and how much you try to convince yourself otherwise, it's still a contrived sexual experience where you get her to tick of the boxes that you want ticked off....and once she provides those services, it's a case of either you taking her through your wish list or if you prefer, just relaxing and allowing her to do the driving. In the relationship you are now in, there is a learning experence about each other that you have to go through and communication is the key.

Whereas sexual activity with an escort generally commences once the money is handed over, within a relationship it usually is the logically conclusion of a sometimes lenghty courting process. So basically, whereas in a non-escort situation, the horse comes before the cart, in the escort situation, you get to chat and get to know a wee bit about her only after you've had sex.

Agree with you 100%.......anybody who has been exposed to escorting or something such as pornography for any lenght of time, risks having their expectations altered and also risks objectivising women according to what they have seen or done in manufactured scenarios.

[fiatpunter]

I had enough life experiences before starting punting in the last couple of years not to have my perception of women altered as a result. Personally it is not about getting something that I couldn't have if I didn't pay for it but just purely cutting out the effort and subterfuge required to get a lady into the sack!

[carlos marvado]

I had enough life experiences before starting punting in the last couple of years not to have my perception of women altered as a result. Personally it is not about getting something that I couldn't have if I didn't pay for it but just purely cutting out the effort and subterfuge required to get a lady into the sack!

That seems to confirm my point....save time on introduction, communication, learning, dating, developing the relationship, possible rejection.....exchange money for instant guaranteed sexual gratification. I'm sure all heterosexual males love getting women into the sack, it's normal for them after all, but your focus seems to be purely on the sexual element (and in this case a contrived one) of what is normally one part of a more all encompassing interaction. Now if that is'nt objectivising women as creatures of sexual gratification, then I don't know what is.

[robijntje]

I guess punting spoils you as much as it would a teenager watching porn all day.