The Fear

[El Gordo]

This thread cheered me up immensely. I now know you are more scared of us than we are of you. Tres bon. I shall have to start hiding in the wardrobe and jumping out..

Coming out of the closet, are you?

[Mousey]

Coming out of the closet, are you?

I hope she does it nekkid

[Rockman]

Its natural to experience some anixety meeting someone for the first time especially if you are to be intimate because its a very vulnerable situtation. The only way to overcome this is with pratice and become comfortabe within yourself in this environment. I am sure the ladies have also felt like this and probably still do with a new client.

The main difference between men and women with this is sometimes with anixety man can not perform and this only make everything worse.

[scorpio]

This sounds exactly like me, i hate it , wish i could just calm down ha

[Westsidex]

Its natural to experience some anixety meeting someone for the first time especially if you are to be intimate because its a very vulnerable situtation.

Yes it is.

For the escort,
Westside.

[Dirty Harry]

Has anyone else experienced a feeling of immense fear and anxiety before visiting an escort? I can remember my very first time visiting someone in London and was provided with the address details by phone. When I arrived at the destination I was greeted by an elderly lady who asked if I would like something to drink and as the glass would probably have shaken from my hand I said no thank's. I waited and observed and said to myself 'shit' what if this place is raided or something while I am sitting here. After what seemed like ten hours but was probably five minutes I was directed to a very nice and clean bedroom where I was introduced to a very lovely oriental lady. By this time my nervousness had reached a a stage of no return. I was offered a Menu and looked at it as I had never seen anything like this before and said to myself 'what the f**k is this? I really didn't feel like experiencing a body massage so pointed at something different and asked if I was able to kiss. I was told that this was part of the package and was releived as this is probably my favourite aspect of the whole process (depending who i am kissing of course). The lady in question made me feel really comfortable was really pleasant and after we got on with the task in hand provided me with her personal phone number. After dressing I gave my thanks and said goodbye. I then proceeded to the lady outside the bedroom gave her a tip and left. When I left the place I felt the whole world was watching me and felt my face beaming red and probably smoked a dozen cigarettes one after the other. The entire experience was quite scary being a novice. Since then I have of course developed much more experience but must admit that every time I do go to see someone new there is still that degree of uncertainty and anxiety.

i think most guys are the same when they start visiting escorts..i was very much the same as you have just said in your post...but i seem to be ok when i visit the ladies now more experience helps...

[Rayden]

I was fairly calm the first time I met an escort. Though when I meet a new lady or the first time I met a TS, I was quite nervous.

[Mousey]

or the first time I met a TS, I was quite nervous.

Errr.. why would that be???

[Rayden]

Errr.. why would that be???

I didnt really know what to expect, (other Than a lady with a cock). IIRC though I was very pleasantly surprised.

[WD-40]

rayden you really do like takin abou ts'ssss dont you

the only thing i fear is not gettint the really pretty girl on the pics, most of the time i have my hands in my pockets with my fingers crossed repeatin the phrase please be real please be real in my head