Why I am unwilling to be kept waiting

[Rayden]

Lol at being arrested for loitering. Bet you would do serious time for that! Although then again this is Ireland with its lenient prison sentences.

[aml]

The guards can't just show up and arrest you for loitering. In theory they could ask you to move on, but even this is very rare. Just act normal, go around the corner to a shop or something, have a smoke if you do that, and generally behave like someone who is not waiting for a phone call from a prostitute.

Well said...just leave the area and don't act suspicously hanging around waiting for a call...If you don't get through right away take a walk or to to the shops etc... and when the lady is ready proceed...

[Lucy Chambers]

I would carry the cash for the date in a large brown envelope, clearly marked 'money for prostitute', wear sunglasses and a trilby and if possible take a white cane for distraction. Also don't forget to wrap up warm, it gets awfully cold in the cells.

[bigladdub]

I would carry the cash for the date in a large brown envelope, clearly marked 'money for prostitute', wear sunglasses and a trilby and if possible take a white cane for distraction. Also don't forget to wrap up warm, it gets awfully cold in the cells.

that might be a small bit obvious don't you think? just an observation... :-P

BLD

[Sensual Delights]

Ladies, I know that you do your best to have everything ready for an appointment and I know that it is not always possible for you to do this but please, be understanding of clients who will not wait.

If I visit an independent escort who is of age and willingly providing services, I am not breaking the law and I am comfortable about that. If you tell me to turn up at a certain location and then to call you at an agreed time then I will do just that. If you then tell me where to come to meet you: that is fine.

If instead, you tell me to wait for a few minutes, we have a problem. If I wait, I can be considered to be loitering in a public place for the purpose of paying for sex. That is a crime. If you have to ask me to wait, I will not. Sorry, I know that is hard on you but it is also hard on me as I will not get to see you.

Perhaps you think that I am being needlessly paranoid but consider a situation such as this:

You are working in one of Dublin's many apartment complexes and one of your neighbours is unhappy about what is going on and has called the guards. If you are independent, there is little or nothing that they can do about you but they could just hang around and wait for a man to turn up and make a phone call. If he then hangs around for another five minutes, receives a call and then goes to the door and rings a bell, they have him. A check on the cellphone records, a google check of E-I profiles and phone numbers, a charge against the client, a prosecution and a newspaper report and that building will no longer be considered safe by clients. The guards will consider that they have done a good job. The probable trashing of the client's life is just collateral damage.

So, if you are not able to be ready at the agreed time, please do not be surprised if I tell you that I do not wait.

If you know that you will be a few minutes late, call me or text me to let me know. I will then just take a little while longer to arrive and all will be well.

Thanks.

You're talking like the escorts are making you wait right there, like a soldier guarding someting
What's wrong going to get a coffee / take a walk etc ...

Of course, if you don't like waiting, you don't have to do it but there is no need imagine such a scary scenario

[MR-LOVA]

its not nice to be kept waiting....but if she does you just return the favour you keep her waiting for you ....see how she likes it.

[El Gordo]

but if she does you just return the favour you keep her waiting for you ....see how she likes it.

I think a lot of people, punters and escorts, do this, but they return the favour with someone else. In other words, if the lady last month made them wait then they will show up late for the one this month. Or if a lady's 3.00pm shows up at 3.20 then she won't be ready for the 5.00pm at 5.00. It's usually not out of spite. On both sides it's more often a matter of "they're never on time anyway". It's very tempting, but it just reinforces the problem. I know that's not what you were suggesting, Mr-L, but I think it's what is happening.

[Experienced Punter esq]

Oh fuck it this thing about being left waiting did my head in waiting naked on the bed for my callout not a text or call she walks in half hr or so late I'm pulling my mickey all the time(I like to be fully erect when she arrives) the urge is almost gone not worth the money anymore...

[Lucy Chambers]

ha ha some bling round your neck and wear everying to match maybe purple
some gold teeth maybe to, very descrete you wouldnt be charged for lotering they'll just think your checking on your bithes

Oh, yes, that reminds me. Brothel creepers. Preferably suede.