How the hell do you know who you're talking to, or about???

[luther]

A few stories going around in the closed threads about people saying they heard XY or Z about another member here.......

She told me this, he said that, he was rude to her, he looked for a discount or a freebie for a review, he was abusive etc. etc. etc..........

How the hell do you know who you're talking to or about??? Unless it's via PM through the site.........

Sure I could ring anyone up and tell them I was anybody here and look for a discount or a freebie and if refused could abuse them from a height..........

I could call over to a girls and do the same thing, tell her I was anybody here and be nasty to her, who's to know I am who I say I am???

What's next, E-I ID cards???

I'm not saying this doesn't go on, Mr Fussy has reported a case of this recently, but anyone could be going around saying that are anybody else just to look for a discount or to give someome a bad reputation...........

Again, I'm not saying any reports or stories of members being abusive, nasty etc. aren't true, but they are hard to prove at times..........

[lonely]

a few stories going around in the closed threads about people saying they heard xy or z about another member here.......

She told me this, he said that, he was rude to her, he looked for a discount or a freebie for a review, he was abusive etc. Etc. Etc..........

How the hell do you know who you're talking to or about??? Unless it's via pm through the site.........

Sure i could ring anyone up and tell them i was anybody here and look for a discount or a freebie and if refused could abuse them from a height..........

I could call over to a girls and do the same thing, tell her i was anybody here and be nasty to her, who's to know i am who i say i am???

]what's next, e-i id cards???[/color]

i'm not saying this doesn't go on, mr fussy has reported a case of this recently, but anyone could be going around saying that are anybody else just to look for a discount or to give someome a bad reputation...........

Again, i'm not saying any reports or stories of members being abusive, nasty etc. Aren't true, but they are hard to prove at times..........

ei id cards you could be onto something luther

[Lucy Chambers]

Human nature is to covet what we see. Unfortunately public forums are kind of- public. I see what you are saying but to take it seriously would be to validate it.

[debest]

Am I the only one who doesn't tell escorts who I am or never talks about the site while on a punt?

Another thing....a few weeks back me, Ber and couple of others had a go at James for discussing another punter (J Sparrow) with an escort. It was harmless but we still fucked him out of it and rightly so imo. I don't like the idea of an escort talking about me to a punter. But now we have Anon telling us escorts have told him things about Mr.F. I remember El Gordo saying that escorts told him certain things about well known punters. But there was no earfull for Anon and El Gordo over this. I really don't like to hear about punters and escorts having there own fucking gossip session. Very unprofessional from the lady and the punter should mind his own fucking bidness!!

[Lucy Chambers]

Am I the only one who doesn't tell escorts who I am or never talks about the site while on a punt?

Another thing....a few weeks back me, Ber and couple of others had a go at James for discussing another punter (J Sparrow) with an escort. It was harmless but we still fucked him out of it and rightly so imo. I don't like the idea of an escort talking about me to a punter. But now we have Anon telling us escorts have told him things about Mr.F. I remember El Gordo saying that escorts told him certain things about well known punters. But there was no earfull for Anon and El Gordo over this. I really don't like to hear about punters and escorts having there own fucking gossip session. Very unprofessional from the lady and the punter should mind his own fucking bidness!!

Ah, Debest. I had such plans. Lol. Ok, fair comment- but as escorts are talking about entirely fictional characters on a online forum, is it really an issue? Unless your name really is DeBest? Come on now- this isn't what we all do in our real lives. I hasten to add I do agree in principal, but everyone is becoming a little obsessed.

[debest]

Ah, Debest. I had such plans. Lol. Ok, fair comment- but as escorts are talking about entirely fictional characters on a online forum, is it really an issue? Unless your name really is DeBest? Come on now- this isn't what we all do in our real lives. I hasten to add I do agree in principal, but everyone is becoming a little obsessed.

Yes I am a little obsessed with this issue. There are some creeps on here and if I were to ever find out I'm being talked about I would not be happy. I like being happy Lucy! I don't tell the ladies my username or anything but it's not hard to figure out after leaving a review. How are they fictional characters? because you don't know there real name? In some cases escorts might know a punters real name but that's a moot point. You do meet real people in your appointments Lucy? If not that's a whole other discussion.

[JAMESCORK]

Am I the only one who doesn't tell escorts who I am or never talks about the site while on a punt?

Another thing....a few weeks back me, Ber and couple of others had a go at James for discussing another punter (J Sparrow) with an escort. It was harmless but we still fucked him out of it and rightly so imo. I don't like the idea of an escort talking about me to a punter. But now we have Anon telling us escorts have told him things about Mr.F. I remember El Gordo saying that escorts told him certain things about well known punters. But there was no earfull for Anon and El Gordo over this. I really don't like to hear about punters and escorts having there own fucking gossip session. Very unprofessional from the lady and the punter should mind his own fucking bidness!!

Point taken Debest. I also have never told an Escort who I am prior to a meeting (believe it or not buddy), but once you leave a review and you revisit again, and again, and again they kinda know who you are. If an Escort volunteers that joe soap is a nice guy I see no harm in this. If a girl decides to bitch about a guy that is different. I have never been in the latter situation thank god. But let’s not fool ourselves here. Friendships can develop and common ground is the Escorting trade and little stories and experiences are told. In my experience these are 99.99% discrete and no names are mentioned. But it does happen and it will continue to happen. The level of discretion depends on the gal…

[Lucy Chambers]

Christ James. A sensible post- well done. Was it hard?

[Ric Hardgear]

Anon pisses me off

[debest]

Point taken Debest. I also have never told an Escort who I am prior to a meeting (believe it or not buddy), but once you leave a review and you revisit again, and again, and again they kinda know who you are. If an Escort volunteers that joe soap is a nice guy I see no harm in this. If a girl decides to bitch about a guy that is different. I have never been in the latter situation thank god. But let’s not fool ourselves here. Friendships can develop and common ground is the Escorting trade and little stories and experiences are told. In my experience these are 99.99% discrete and no names are mentioned. But it does happen and it will continue to happen. The level of discretion depends on the gal…

Yep and I'm saying that guys who are discussing other reviewers on there punts are sad. Am I wrong? I'm not trying to find a solution to this or put a stop to it. I just don't get it.

Don't ever disagree with me again or I'll break you in half. THANKS.