How the hell do you know who you're talking to, or about???

[Ric Hardgear]

Jimbo started a thread about this before after I wound him up in a pm that mods could read our pms. I thought it was very funny but the mods were quite insulted by it.

So Debest is it true,?

[Lucy Chambers]

The moderators have no access to PM's or IP addresses- only EI staff do. Paid staff, that is.

[JAMESCORK]

Am I the only one who doesn't tell escorts who I am or never talks about the site while on a punt?

Another thing....a few weeks back me, Ber and couple of others had a go at James for discussing another punter (J Sparrow) with an escort. It was harmless but we still fucked him out of it and rightly so imo. I don't like the idea of an escort talking about me to a punter. But now we have Anon telling us escorts have told him things about Mr.F. I remember El Gordo saying that escorts told him certain things about well known punters. But there was no earfull for Anon and El Gordo over this. I really don't like to hear about punters and escorts having there own fucking gossip session. Very unprofessional from the lady and the punter should mind his own fucking bidness!!

Point taken Debest. I also have never told an Escort who I am prior to a meeting (believe it or not buddy), but once you leave a review and you revisit again, and again, and again they kinda know who you are. If an Escort volunteers that joe soap is a nice guy I see no harm in this. If a girl decides to bitch about a guy that is different. I have never been in the latter situation thank god. But let’s not fool ourselves here. Friendships can develop and common ground is the Escorting trade and little stories and experiences are told. In my experience these are 99.99% discrete and no names are mentioned. But it does happen and it will continue to happen. The level of discretion depends on the gal…

[Lucy Chambers]

Christ James. A sensible post- well done. Was it hard?

[Ric Hardgear]

Anon pisses me off

[JAMESCORK]

Christ James. A sensible post- well done. Was it hard?

Eh no actually...it kinda flows....

[debest]

Ah, Debest. I had such plans. Lol. Ok, fair comment- but as escorts are talking about entirely fictional characters on a online forum, is it really an issue? Unless your name really is DeBest? Come on now- this isn't what we all do in our real lives. I hasten to add I do agree in principal, but everyone is becoming a little obsessed.

Yes I am a little obsessed with this issue. There are some creeps on here and if I were to ever find out I'm being talked about I would not be happy. I like being happy Lucy! I don't tell the ladies my username or anything but it's not hard to figure out after leaving a review. How are they fictional characters? because you don't know there real name? In some cases escorts might know a punters real name but that's a moot point. You do meet real people in your appointments Lucy? If not that's a whole other discussion.

[JAMESCORK]

Anon pisses me off

Where did this come from.........

[debest]

Anon pisses me off

Hey Mr.F! Started doing the ol multiple profiles thang

[Lucy Chambers]

Yes I am a little obsessed with this issue. There are some creeps on here and if I were to ever find out I'm being talked about I would not be happy. I like being happy Lucy! I don't tell the ladies my username or anything but it's not hard to figure out after leaving a review. How are they fictional characters? because you don't know there real name? In some cases escorts might know a punters real name but that's a moot point. You do meet real people in your appointments Lucy? If not that's a whole other discussion.

Ok, I agree. People should not use their ID to book, nor should tales be told out of school. But if you decide to join a public forum, happily collect your badge and then expect anonymity I think that may be somewhat naive. This whole site is set to draw you in, am I the only one that sees that? In england reviewers never tell you who they are- if you want the same, continue as you are. I am a real person, caught in a unreal situation. And you?