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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnRambo View Post
    If the girl had retired Lucy yes absolutely but I couldn’t handle or deal with the situation if she was still working.

    I’m going to be really honest here Lucy and I know I might get some stick for saying this but since you have asked a really good question I’m going to be honest.

    Some escorts who I am friendly with since I started working for E-I I find hard reading their reviews and they are only friends never mind what it would be like reading a review of a girl I was involved with, I couldn’t do it, it would kill me.
    yes john i know exactly what you are saying and fair play to you for your honesty it happend to me also......i could never have a relationship while the lady was still working but if she was retired from escorting then that would be ok

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    Call me old fashioned but to me sex is sex, sex between a husband and wife should be a private personal thing, anything out side of the marriage…………..well its taking the piss out of the marriage and the commitment to each other and making a joke out of marriage as a whole.

    Why even get married in the first place if you know even beforehand that you’re going to be having sex with other people? Why bother? Its supposed to be a body and soul commitment for life to each other.
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    Quote Originally Posted by spur View Post
    Sex outside of marraige even if it is a job would destroy it..
    Er, are you married?
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    Quote Originally Posted by luther View Post
    Still allow her???

    Do you really think the man would or should have a choice???

    I'd like to say I'd be mature, strong and big enough to handle it. In reality I must admit, I probably wouldn't be able to. The mentality of getting ones head around the fact that it's just a job and is just physical as opposed to emotional, would be, in my opinion, very very difficult. And I would imagine in many cases where people say they can handle it, and on the surface may appear to be doing so, are probably in denial..........

    Fair play to those who can though......
    You'd be surprised if you liked the girl enough. Remember love is blind and this is applicable to a persons background or job too. My prob would be marraige is a sort of finalisation of a commitment to one another. I think if an escort is serious enough to get married then she is serious enough to stop working. I would never alter her ability to choose but i wouldnt marry her either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnRambo View Post
    Call me old fashioned but to me sex is sex, sex between a husband and wife should be a private personal thing, anything out side of the marriage…………..well its taking the piss out of the marriage and the commitment to each other and making a joke out of marriage as a whole.

    I guess your not up for bit of swinging so lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Westsidex View Post
    This is one thing that drove me nuts when i went out with an escort. Talking about her clients.
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    before anyone jumps on my fragile body ,nope, i am not saying a girl i know talks about her clients.I am just speaking in general terms here.

    Westside.
    Ah, no. That's exactly what you're saying. Unless you didn't know the girl you were going out with.........
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    Quote Originally Posted by luther View Post
    Ah, no. That's exactly what you're saying. Unless you didn't know the girl you were going out with.........
    The first comment was aimed at my own personal life. The second one was in case any guys thought it was a girl from this site i was speaking about talking about them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnRambo View Post
    Call me old fashioned but to me sex is sex, sex between a husband and wife should be a private personal thing, anything out side of the marriage…………..well its taking the piss out of the marriage and the commitment to each other and making a joke out of marriage as a whole.

    Why even get married in the first place if you know even beforehand that you’re going to be having sex with other people? Why bother? Its supposed to be a body and soul commitment for life to each other.
    when you say it like that why bother getting married i think if i was to ever get into a relationship or get married i don't think i would bother with sex outside the relationship......i never did when i was in relationships anyway....

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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    Er, are you married?
    hi lucy
    if you get to a marrige point, then, surely, this a point where 2 people, say, thats it, you and me only, or am i being to stupid here?
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    I thought you were talking about the girl you mentioned, former lapdancer..and yes, it was a generalisation, I wouldn't dream of talking about my clients.
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