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[kissinger]

Been thinking about meeting one of the girls on here for a while. Saw one particular profile, Ana, who's in Cork at the moment who caught my eye. What happened was I tried ringing her voicebox to hear a voice. It was a generic voicebox message however so I just hung up. A minute later the phone rang and obviously my little pry came up as a missed call.

I got very nervous then. Discretion would have to be key in any dealings I have here. I went for a walk to think and rang back with the intention of telling her I'm sorry I didn't mean to leave a missed call - was just curious. It actually rang out and I left a voice message (!) saying don't worry, I don't want to meet or anything. After I hung up another missed call so I rang again.

I explained to the girl what happened. I said I was only curious and moreover I was frickin nervous . I'm not sure exactly what she said but she said did I want to meet her tomorrow? I said no I was fine (busy tomorrow anyway). She sounded nice though and with the memories of her pictures and good reviews I just said is tonight too late. I think she said no, what time. This was at 9.15. I said how about 10? I asked was that too late? She said yes - how about tomorrow. So maybe a bit of a language barrier - I was a bag of nerves so was probably mumbling away.

I have questions for ye:
1. All the reviews seem to be at times from midday til about 8 p.m. Why not more at night? To be honest about 9-11 kind of time suits me best.
2. Will the girl always be able to answer the call? Will she not be with a client from time to time?
3. Is this a regular occurence - have I anything to be majorly worried about?

Any help, particularly on 1 would be appreciated.

[benin]

Been thinking about meeting one of the girls on here for a while. Saw one particular profile, Ana, who's in Cork at the moment who caught my eye. What happened was I tried ringing her voicebox to hear a voice. It was a generic voicebox message however so I just hung up. A minute later the phone rang and obviously my little pry came up as a missed call.

I got very nervous then. Discretion would have to be key in any dealings I have here. I went for a walk to think and rang back with the intention of telling her I'm sorry I didn't mean to leave a missed call - was just curious. It actually rang out and I left a voice message (!) saying don't worry, I don't want to meet or anything. After I hung up another missed call so I rang again.

I explained to the girl what happened. I said I was only curious and moreover I was frickin nervous . I'm not sure exactly what she said but she said did I want to meet her tomorrow? I said no I was fine (busy tomorrow anyway). She sounded nice though and with the memories of her pictures and good reviews I just said is tonight too late. I think she said no, what time. This was at 9.15. I said how about 10? I asked was that too late? She said yes - how about tomorrow. So maybe a bit of a language barrier - I was a bag of nerves so was probably mumbling away.

I have questions for ye:
1. All the reviews seem to be at times from midday til about 8 p.m. Why not more at night? To be honest about 9-11 kind of time suits me best.
2. Will the girl always be able to answer the call? Will she not be with a client from time to time?
3. Is this a regular occurence - have I anything to be majorly worried about?

Any help, particularly on 1 would be appreciated.

its totally normal to be nervous and she was coola bout what you did thats good
1.everyone is different but some escorts finish b4 10 pm so that would explain that
2.she wont always be able to answer your call(it would be rude if she did while with a punter)
3.what are you worried about meeting the escort?..make sure she is independent and has references you like and you will be fine

https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html

if thats the girl the reviews seem good so you should be fine

[Rayden]

they should probably sticky the eejits guide in the general chat.

[benin]

they should probably sticky the eejits guide in the general chat.

The Eejit's Guide to Escorts in Ireland, for new and first-time Irish escort clients - Escort Ireland

[naughty_g5]

I am not the most experienced guy here, but let me try to answer you to best of my knowledge.

I have questions for ye:
1. All the reviews seem to be at times from midday til about 8 p.m. Why not more at night? To be honest about 9-11 kind of time suits me best.

You must understand that ladies are doing a job here. Just like everyone else, they have work hours. Besides rest, ladies also have to consider their safety as it is not safe to have strangers in your house at midnight. If you want to visit any escort, politely ask her if she will meet you at time suitable to you, but if she declines, don't press it.

2. Will the girl always be able to answer the call? Will she not be with a client from time to time?

If meeting an escort is not impulsive decision and you are really planning it out, PM the lady and set the meeting in advance, call her to confirm the meeting and call about 30 minutes before you are due to meet her for directions. If you do set an appointment, don't just stand her up because you got too nervous. If you visit any top rated escort, she will put you at ease.

I visit escorts on impulse and I would be very lucky if first escort I call answers the phone. I have left voice mails but till date never got a reply (I have answered to both default and personal voice boxes). I will not like it if lady answers her phone when I am with her, so it would be wrong of me to expect ladies to answer me every time I call.

3. Is this a regular occurence - have I anything to be majorly worried about?

Nothing to worry about, happens all the time. Its OK to be nervous.

Any help, particularly on 1 would be appreciated.

You are in this for fun, just enjoy yourself. Treat ladies with respect and you will get excellent service. Be neat and clean for appointments. Happy punting.

[benin]

What's wrong with girls who use an agency? Perhaps it is naieve of me but isn't be easier for the ladies to work with an agency? Provided the relationship with the agency is not exploitative of course. Independents keep a bigger slice of their income but they have to find buddies, apartments etc.

An agency can screen the calls the lady gets, can take the hassle out of finding a secure place to work. Perhaps even provide a measure of security because the lady can call in before and after the rendezvous.

The thing is that it seems to me that many of the independent girls are already working for agencies anyway. Somebody must own or lease those apartments that are shared with dozens of touring escorts. Of course I would prefer to think that the flat is escort owned, but even then, isn't that a kind of agency too?

your post is valid..but for a newbie its safer to go for a varified independent imo...so he meets the girl he thinks he is going to meet ...first time your nervous(i still am after about 50) just trying to help the guy thats all

[nicegirlsarenice]

Been thinking about meeting one of the girls on here for a while. Saw one particular profile, Ana, who's in Cork at the moment who caught my eye. What happened was I tried ringing her voicebox to hear a voice. It was a generic voicebox message however so I just hung up. A minute later the phone rang and obviously my little pry came up as a missed call.

Her "voicebox", as in her larynx? I think you mean her voicemail, I haven't heard voicebox used like that but maybe people are saying that nowadays (probably from someone combining voice and inbox and knowing he heard the word voicebox before).

[debest]

Her "voicebox", as in her larynx? I think you mean her voicemail, I haven't heard voicebox used like that but maybe people are saying that nowadays (probably from someone combining voice and inbox and knowing he heard the word voicebox before).

Ah NICE....I've missed your pointless posts.

[JAMESCORK]

your post is valid..but for a newbie its safer to go for a varified independent imo...so he meets the girl he thinks he is going to meet ...first time your nervous(i still am after about 50) just trying to help the guy thats all

Gee. I never really thought anyone was over fifty here. It must be so tiring for you bud. lol.

[benin]

Gee. I never really thought anyone was over fifty here. It must be so tiring for you bud. lol.

now now james we all know your a 55 year old vending machine loader who has a soft spot (hard spot even) for other peoples furniture...sure im a young fella compared to you