this is a great thing for most adults to have too. I once asked a person who was shooting for alot of stuff why he was doing it when it was so much.His answer never left me. He said its not the end results but the journey that counts. The thing is ppls lives would be so much better with this outlook.
I always say its like someone training for something or someone wnats to be a millionaire for eg. A by product of the goal is improvement and satisfaction anyway. If the millionaire got to 750,000 is he a failure? Would he have gotten to 750,000 if he didnt have that goal to begin with?
I once sat in a surgeons office as he was looking over scans they did on an injury i had. He looked at me and asked me "why do you do this to yourself? My answer was simple,"Why not and besides i love it."
I am saying it all the time, get goals in life.They dont have to be to be the worlds best anything. Just set goals in different areas and go for them.
most ppl have none,
Westside.