Why is it??

[Cable87]

I have to disgree Cable, or at least I hold out hope that I disgree because I haven't found it yet, but I live in hope that this kind of love does exist but maybe that's just the idealist or the romantic coming out in me, but I live in hope, I have to, I've let myself and to many others down not to believe this..........

Maybe I'm just sad, either tonight or in life in general.........

Don't be sad Luther!

I think some of the others put it better in saying that it's 'lust' at first, but later REAL love develops, and that's what keeps people together in the long-run! It's that initial sexual attraction that I was talking about, and that is what fades, opefully to be replaced by a stronger, more mature kind of love and respect for each other. My own parents had their 40th anniversary last month, and I can't think of a happier couple! It's out there Luther, we just have to keep our eyes (and hearts) open!

[aml]

I think in the days of 'quickie divorces' real love will never bloosom.Lust will be followed by hate.

[Irish Soairsa]

Ok i'm new this so bear with me,
Why is it you meet the girl of your dreams.... shes sexy,intelligent,witty,caring,sesnsitive and is great in the Bedroom...then after a few years you find she is still the girl of your dreams but the bedroom no longer matters??
I consider myself to have a high sex drive and love passion and anything goes between the sheets but yet i find myself on this website searching for someone to fill the missing void??
Perhaps its a bit much for a first post,
Sexmadman.

P.s: Anyone offering to help with their services??

Perhaps you should try communicating with 'the woman of your dreams' instead of risking her public humiliation by visiting escorts??? Just a thought

[Sexmadman]

Hi all,
I would like to thank you all for your comments,
From the guys it appears im not alone out there and alot of LT relationships seem to have the same end result.
This leaves me to ponder a question for the ladies - Would you rather your man having a full blown affair and risk him falling in love with another(perhaps it just be lust) or with him from time to time having the occasional "punt" in order for him to fulfil his desires and fantasies??? (even if he has tried to invole you without success)
Remember i have never punted but am definately considering it as an option. i have tried trust me and i feel the relationship has moved on to a more "meaningful" one and that it is more important than the sex but after all i am a red blooded man as they say...
Sexmadman.

[JessicaJessy]

In a relationship(like in everything!)there is always something missing.I don't believe in perfection but i do believe than if somebody really wants to make a relationship to work and last is able to do it!The question that comes up now is if you both really want the same thing and if you do,but still something isn't great,then the only problem is communication.
A relationship is a thing of two and if it doesn't go in the right direction,then is both's fault.I don't believe in that myth about men having a higher sexdrive then girls,in my opinion this is just an excuse,but the major difference between men and women is that we think and we judge things in different ways.This is just a general thing,but women think more with the heart and men with other part of the body which is not the brain.The interesting thing is that we all start to use our brain after problems show up and when we try to find a solution,when the best thing to do would be women to try to be less sentimental and men less superficial and to really use the brain to try to avoid problems.
I am an escort and for a customer i consider myself being a sort of "fresh air"or even an emotional support sometimes.You come,you breath and you leave(with a smile i hope.....lol!).You go back to your partner more relaxed and with more patience.A lot of fights are avoided in this way.The most important thing is her not to find out why you are so nice suddenly!

[Mousey]

Jessy, I would like to have a short intense relationship with your tits

[JessicaJessy]

Jessy, I would like to have a short intense relationship with your tits

Be my guest,but let's see how do you convince them to get in a short intense relationship with you.Don't forget about seduction!

[Forrest]

I am an escort and for a customer i consider myself being a sort of "fresh air"or even an emotional support sometimes.You come,you breath and you leave(with a smile i hope.....lol!).You go back to your partner more relaxed and with more patience.A lot of fights are avoided in this way.The most important thing is her not to find out why you are so nice suddenly!

You talk a lot of sense Jessica. I think I would be divorced, separated, on a murder charge or in the grave if didn't visit escorts.

[JessicaJessy]

Would you rather your man having a full blown affair and risk him falling in love with another(perhaps it just be lust) or with him from time to time having the occasional "punt" in order for him to fulfil his desires and fantasies??? (even if he has tried to invole you without success)

You are making a difference here that i don't agree with:you think that only if you are having an affair you can fall in love and if you visit escorts you can't!in my opinion this is wrong!it is truth that when you visit escorts,you use another principles then when you have an affair,but don't forget that at the end of the day both,customer and escort are human and everything is possible!
So if i think like a woman and not as an escort,for me it would be the same if my partner would have an affair or would be an experienced punter and if he tried to involve me to fulfil his desires without success,then is my fault that i am "loosing him"!

[goofy]

jess, you could full fill my desires any time beautiful, must make time to see you! xx