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    Default Why is it??

    Ok i'm new this so bear with me,
    Why is it you meet the girl of your dreams.... shes sexy,intelligent,witty,caring,sesnsitive and is great in the Bedroom...then after a few years you find she is still the girl of your dreams but the bedroom no longer matters??
    I consider myself to have a high sex drive and love passion and anything goes between the sheets but yet i find myself on this website searching for someone to fill the missing void??
    Perhaps its a bit much for a first post,
    Sexmadman.

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    same here mate. im also in a long term relationship which i am very happy with but yet i am still on here. i guess it is just the buzz for me and it is better (well maybe not) than having a full blown affair.

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    Most girls generally don't have a higher sexdrive as men do and they tend to lose interest after a couple of years of marraige,probably why some married people come here for a bit of uncomplicated sex.
    I have lived a life of regrets.

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    not in that type of situation so can't say what i'd do, i do know that when I have been in relationships in the past i managed to stay away from punting

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    Attraction fades, my friends... It's impossible to keep that 'spark' that existed between you going on indefinitely, that's just the way it works. That's the thing that (at least initially) brings people together, but it's mutual respect and love that keeps people together. Either that, or it's just too tough to break out of bad habits and move on!

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    love is a mis understanding between two people!!wen she is trying 2 rap u up you will get mind blowing sex but wen she has ya after a few years its just rutine 4both..

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    The 'spark' that appears to fade is not a spark at all, it is the initial getting to know you stage of every relationship when it feels incredibly exciting, it lasts about three months. Then the relationship moves into a different, better, more stable stage, when sex isn't the the top priority but family life, emotional intimacy and working for the future is. I think blaming women for this decrease of sex is unfair. the relationship is changing into a more stable and meaningful one. If your relationship is healthy, why not talk about your issues with sex with your partner, really talk, not just complain or huff about it, or worse, just avoid it altogether. ask her if you are getting her off properly and how you can make sex better for her, surpise her and remind her of the man she fell in lust with. Try other things before cheating (even if you don't consider punting cheating). Think about how devastated she would be to find out about what you do. I've spoken about this with a fair few clients in the past and one thing that came up a few times was that the partner didnt like anal, and they loved it. I'm in the same boat, my bf won't have anal sex on me, or be rough, or be in charge the way I like, he's just not that into it (at the moment anyway). so i watch porn and get off on it that way and put up with it because I love him. However because we talked about it, he now pulls my hair sometimes things get better through communication!
    Im not lecturing anyone here, I've cheated in the past myself and know how easy it is, but the long term consequences heavily outweigh the short term gains.

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    ppl who are in long term relationships are crazy imo. It seems virtually impossible to do it right. There will always be disagreements and arguments and the dreaded compromise. But i hear you say thats part of any normal and healthy LT relationship, but i gotta ask - is there really enough good stuff to at least balance it out?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mioux View Post
    The 'spark' that appears to fade is not a spark at all, it is the initial getting to know you stage of every relationship when it feels incredibly exciting, it lasts about three months. Then the relationship moves into a different, better, more stable stage, when sex isn't the the top priority but family life, emotional intimacy and working for the future is. I think blaming women for this decrease of sex is unfair. the relationship is changing into a more stable and meaningful one. If your relationship is healthy, why not talk about your issues with sex with your partner, really talk, not just complain or huff about it, or worse, just avoid it altogether. ask her if you are getting her off properly and how you can make sex better for her, surpise her and remind her of the man she fell in lust with. Try other things before cheating (even if you don't consider punting cheating). Think about how devastated she would be to find out about what you do. I've spoken about this with a fair few clients in the past and one thing that came up a few times was that the partner didnt like anal, and they loved it. I'm in the same boat, my bf won't have anal sex on me, or be rough, or be in charge the way I like, he's just not that into it (at the moment anyway). so i watch porn and get off on it that way and put up with it because I love him. However because we talked about it, he now pulls my hair sometimes things get better through communication!
    Im not lecturing anyone here, I've cheated in the past myself and know how easy it is, but the long term consequences heavily outweigh the short term gains.
    It's good to hear your perspective on things Mioux, so you should drop in more often.
    I'm glad you are getting on with life after escorting. I agree, my partner would be pretty pissed if she found out about my penchant for visiting escorts, and I know it's not all her fault that our relationship has gone the way it has.
    I did, believe it or not, try to re-ignite our sex life but she totally lost her interest in sex(after hysterectomy), so after a couple of barren years I ended up here. These days she won't even talk about it so where do you go from there.
    Your b/f is a lucky guy that he has a g/f that is as horny and kinky as you sound. Hope he appreciates you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cable87 View Post
    Attraction fades, my friends... It's impossible to keep that 'spark' that existed between you going on indefinitely, that's just the way it works.
    I have to disgree Cable, or at least I hold out hope that I disgree because I haven't found it yet, but I live in hope that this kind of love does exist but maybe that's just the idealist or the romantic coming out in me, but I live in hope, I have to, I've let myself and to many others down not to believe this..........

    Maybe I'm just sad, either tonight or in life in general.........




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