Anyone feel like this?

[Westsidex]

Lately i have being thinking quite a bit about the way i am with other ppl. Now i dont consider myself a gent and i dont consider myself any better or worse than anyone else but i am very helpful and have always being there for anyone who needed it. All they had to do was phone, mail or whatever and i am there. Now im not a crawler or a soft arse but i am a big big help if someone had probs of any kind.

Heres what im thinking. Anytime the shoe has being on the other foot, i dont have those same luxuries. Anytime, i have ever being stuck or going through a hard time ,i never had anyone who has being there. Now anyone who knows me would tell you that "he doesnt need help" etc but just because i dont cry or just because i dont let things get me down doesnt mean it would be nice not to have someone wonder is everything ok with him.

Whats brought this up are two things,

(1) i have someone ,a former escort who will and always will be nameless here ,odd with me over what i do not know. Have know idea,yet this girl was through some pretty tough times lately and again i was always there if she texted or whatever despite the fact that i barely know her and have never met face to face.

(2) A thai girl i knew.A girl that i have helped out very well and being very good to, yapping to ppl spreading lies about me behind my back. Her friend is the same but she is only like that because i didnt respond to her advances.But this other brat, i never did anything for her, for a wife, a gf, a blow job ,a freebie etc.Yet she says lies about me to ppl that dont even fuckin know me.This bitch says lies about me not paying for her or something , i remember the day well, the same day i dropped her up to Argos to buy a heater cause her own one was broken.

Now dont get me wrong,at the end of the day ,i dont give two fucks but i really have evaluated big time, helping ppl out like this again.

Alot of women asked me and find it hard to believe that im single and they wonder why. Now they know. Its because very few ppl have looked behind the image and the exterior to notice that there is actually a human being in there the same as everyone else.

I couldnt be bothered my hole helping ppl out anymore. While i understand you help ppl out of the goodness of your heart with no expectation of thanks its fuck all good to anyone if nothing comes out of it and im not talking about some bullshit like sex, im talking about basic appreciation at least.

Im not saying treat ppl like shit but i am saying to step well back and let them feel the water themselves.

deep but would go way deeper,
Westside.

[Mymisters]

I feel the same sometimes myseld.

I consider myself to be kind and considerate to others.
Itry to do my best and help anyone who needs help out.

I don't always get it in return. Friends of mine think I can be a bit of a doormat.

Now the way that I look at it is the way I act is what's important. I shouldn't lower my standards and beliefs because I don't get it in return.
So to you westie I'll say the same. Don't change who you are, hold yourself up to the high standards you set for yourself, but unfortunately you will from time to time have to deal with the disappointment of others letting you down.

[JessicaJessy]

I think we all may have moments when we feel the same,but i only know one thing:the way i look at myself is the way most of the ppl see me and nothing and nobody in the world deserves me to change!Just be yourself and act the way you want to act,the way that makes you happy,because no matter how you will be and what you will do,some people will disappoint you always anyway!

[aml]

I always try to be there for others,even though wouldn't do the same.Believe i am not perfect but i try to do things the right way.

[rover]

Cheer up Westie, it's a lovely sunny day, here's a lovely song I picked for you.

[Westsidex]

Cheer up Westie, it's a lovely sunny day, here's a lovely song I picked for you.

Thats one horrifying piece of rubbish. Is there a story to it? Its like watching paint dry.

oh wait LOL,
Westside.

PS i am ok

[rover]

Thats one horrifying piece of rubbish. Is there a story to it? Its like watching paint dry.

oh wait LOL,
Westside.

PS i am ok

That's what you get when you try to help, so you're right fuck everybody else and look after No. 1.

I'll try again, here's another song I picked for you.

[Doozer]

Be yourself Westie. If you like who you are who are others to change you. You helped out someone in need and you got burnt, but dont let that put you off helping. There are always going to be people who will screw you over at the first chance you get but their are also some genuine people out there who would appriciate any help that you give them.

If being like Oscar the Grouch is your thing go for it

We all Love you anyway man

[Westsidex]

Be yourself Westie. If you like who you are who are others to change you. You helped out someone in need and you got burnt, but dont let that put you off helping. There are always going to be people who will screw you over at the first chance you get but their are also some genuine people out there who would appriciate any help that you give them.

If being like Oscar the Grouch is your thing go for it

We all Love you anyway man

Its not a case of getting screwed or burnt. Im actually a very difficult one to screw or burn but even so it does get tiresome at times. Like i said its not even a case of looking for thanks or even anything in return but more of a case of at least a person recognising that not everyone would help them but i guess thats why these ppl are stuck with crap around them. The only thing is most of these ppl eventually learn but its too late then.

Westside.

[Experienced Punter esq]

yes its this 'taken for granted' thing by people, its good to help out people but u should make it clear u are doing it as a favour people can start taking u for granted if they feel u are stuck with them & u are going nowhere, let people know u too can be upset speak your mind, I know your not looking for eternal thanks but its a low feeling to be taken for granted
As for Thai women well I have much experience of their kind believe me I speak from experience when I say that in general they are manipulative scheming selfish type who have scammed monies from friends of mine through lies & deceit , all the same I have one nice Thai friend -I used to steal knickers from her...