Why are minders off putting?????

[Irish Soairsa]

I was reading another thread which went slightly off topic but it got me thinking so I thought to start this thread.

Do you really believe minders are boyfriends??
Why do they put you off??
You do understand that because of the increase in attacks by deeply unwell men that security men have become a necessity now??
They will not hurt anyone unless something drastic occurs.
Also, I have many times been asked if I am agency because I tour with friends but the starc reality is I would feel unsafe without my friends.
Just interested in your opinions on this.

[Mymisters]

I'm not put off by others in the same apartment as I can understand the need for safety and security.
Usually these have been other ladies.
If there was a bloke then at least he had the good grace to be quiet and discreet.
I think as long as they stay quiet and out of the way then why not have them.
It will make for a more relaxed girl so should make for a better appointment.

[dave1dave]

I understand the need for either a minder / friend as the reality is that safety is very important.
But the fact is that it can be off putting as we are dealing in fantasy here.
And a big minder bloke or boyfriend belongs nowhere in any of my fantasies !!

But as long is their presence is kept unobtrusive its not a problem.

[benin]

I was reading another thread which went slightly off topic but it got me thinking so I thought to start this thread.

Do you really believe minders are boyfriends??
Why do they put you off??
You do understand that because of the increase in attacks by deeply unwell men that security men have become a necessity now??
They will not hurt anyone unless something drastic occurs.
Also, I have many times been asked if I am agency because I tour with friends but the starc reality is I would feel unsafe without my friends.
Just interested in your opinions on this.

some of the minders are a bit scary

[An don]

I dont find minders a bit off putting . Ladies security is very important and they should organise this what ever way thhey deem fit

[Irish Soairsa]

Yes I agree with you there, the security should be quiet and unobtrusive so as not to interupt the fantasy. Thankfully this has only evr happened to me once but it was actually my friends client who made all the noise, even I found it off putting lol

[ThomasJ]

Don't have any real problem with - escorts are at risk and only prudent to take steps to reduce - in all my punting have never been aware of so I suppose as long as in the background not a problem for me.

[Experienced Punter esq]

minders would put me of completely I'm pretty loud like to talk dirty aloud & shout out all kinds of things when I'm coming, I wouldnt like to think theres is someone in the next room probably laughing at me..

[JAMESCORK]

Hi Soairsa

Twas me wasn't it. HeeHee. Hey babe I'd never deny a girl her minder and TOTALLY agree with the necessity. But.... dont let me see him/her. If you can imagine the courage a guy has to muster up to arrive at your door and knock without anyone seeing him. Even to have a small nun in the same corridor is off-putting. Hehe. In my case the guy had his back to the wall a few yards down the hall and would glare at ya as you were approaching. I actually asked my date if she knew him and she acknowledged he was her friend. Tis kinda like needing to buy Anusol cream for piles at a busy chemists, you would rather an empty counter....cringe factor, lol...

[ksteve]

under no circumstances would I knowingly attend a booking where there was a minder in the house/apartment. Dont even like there being a second girl -- due to privacy and legal [ brothel ] risks but defo no way to any male presence.