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    I havent visited an escort in over a year(thats not to say I'm not getting my iron) but having met 2 or 3 girls in the past year with the potential of starting a relationship I just cant get interested I'm just being honest I love the company of women(I have a few lovely female friends) but being long term with a girl now seems sooo boring, other guys would jump at the opportunities I've had in the past year,honestly I think I've been too many years visiting escorts & now find it near impossible to form a relationship Its not a nice feeling...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Experienced Punter esq View Post
    I havent visited an escort in over a year(thats not to say I'm not getting my iron) but having met 2 or 3 girls in the past year with the potential of starting a relationship I just cant get interested I'm just being honest I love the company of women(I have a few lovely female friends) but being long term with a girl now seems sooo boring, other guys would jump at the opportunities I've had in the past year,honestly I think I've been too many years visiting escorts & now find it near impossible to form a relationship Its not a nice feeling...
    maybe your Expectations are too high now... thats what can happen when you visit good escorts if you have the cash keep meeting escorts i recommend
    Last edited by Dirty Harry; 28-05-10 at 18:53. Reason: spelling

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    i know how you feel mate.
    came out of a bad relationship over a year ago and turned to escorts as didnt want the hassle of a relationship again, well not at the moment.
    i have had a few girls that i liked over that time, even 2 polish girls who were hot, but if i tryed hard enough could have made something out of them but i just couldnt be arsed, i was that cold to the last girl she even wrote to me on face book to say sorry dont think it will work as theres no spark there, thank fuck she told me first ha, saves me coming up with an excuse! but yet i find it easy to go and see an escort and do what i have to and go home in peace!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dirty Harry View Post
    maybe your Exectations are too high now... thats what can happen when you visit good escorts if you have the cash keep meeting escorts i recommend
    first part of your answer rings home but as for the second part well I'll say nothing....

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    problem is in a relationship, the sex is based on agreement, she likes/he likes and most times its a compromise, in time the glow loses its appeal, next you start looking for that something which is lacking in the relationship, the fact is we live in a must have it all world and as such anything else is not up to mark, and i think this the sad part ,a good relationship IS BASED ON AGREEMENT, so most do not want to sign up to this, if i find the lady i will sign on the bottom line limitations and all, but hey thats just me

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    Best to keep it simple - I visit an escort for exciting sex - it's a fantasy nothing more. The difficult choice is at what stage does a relationship require you to stop visiting escorts or does it at all - this is something you have to work out yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Experienced Punter esq View Post
    I havent visited an escort in over a year(thats not to say I'm not getting my iron) but having met 2 or 3 girls in the past year with the potential of starting a relationship I just cant get interested I'm just being honest I love the company of women(I have a few lovely female friends) but being long term with a girl now seems sooo boring, other guys would jump at the opportunities I've had in the past year,honestly I think I've been too many years visiting escorts & now find it near impossible to form a relationship Its not a nice feeling...
    Ya, your fucked alright................
    "It's far easier to fight for principles than to live up to them."
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    if your in a relationship wouldnt that mean you automaticaly stop seeing escort?

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    Alot of men visiting escorts are in relationships or married and its is emotion and sex they after since most women lose interest after kids. I find this incredibly sad.

    I as a woman have two views on escort usage:
    If I am not satisfying my man emotionally or sexually I would send him to an escort as the other two options are, affair or unhappy husband/relationship
    However, if I caught my man scewing any woman escort or otherwise without my consent, he would not be able to walk for a week and his world would crumble!

    Most women would disagree with my first view but almost all would agree with the 2nd view.

    I feel sad that your interest in real women and a meaningful real relationship is not there because of escorts. This is not our intention hon

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    hi EP!

    I find this post intriguing, Im curious as to why this seems to be the way you see it/feel it.
    do you know? a clue i picked up on was 'sooo boring', could you expand on this a little?
    Last edited by warmcome; 28-05-10 at 20:43.

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