"Men who use escorts are losers"

[monster_monster]

calling men who use escorts "losers" is a moronic statement, not that I care what people think of me. Basically I visit escorts for nothing more than instant sexual gratification, yeah i do go out and chat up women, sometimes successfully but as stated many times on this site it's not the same. I don't want any strings attached, it could be my lunch time etc. and I'm horny as hell so I want to be with someone right now, not on Saturday night.

[rover]

men who go to escorts ARE losers,why? because we devalue the woman, no girl,to a paid for sexual ejaculation,thats all we want is the ejaculation

I dunno about losers, but speaking for myself, I use escorts because I am extremely selfish and once you have stepped over the line, there is no turning back. The presence of all those stunning ladies makes it very difficult to turn back, so what the fuck, I may as well carry on being a loser or a selfish bastard.

[luther]

I dunno about losers, but speaking for myself, I use escorts because I am extremely selfish and once you have stepped over the line, there is no turning back. The presence of all those stunning ladies makes it very difficult to turn back, so what the fuck, I may as well carry on being a loser or a selfish bastard.

Ah Rover, I wouldn't take much notice of Ric Hardgears posts from last night..........

He was in the boozer before he was posting............

How's the head Ric???

[rover]

Ah Rover, I wouldn't take much notice of Ric Hardgears posts from last night..........

He was in the boozer before he was posting............

How's the head Ric???

I was away on holidays for the last 8 days and there was a lot of chat about Ronan Keating, the general concensus from the women was that he was a low life bastard and kick that fella out the door - permanently,all I could do was gulp and look like an angel.

[Dirty Harry]

I was away on holidays for the last 8 days and there was a lot of chat about Ronan Keating, the general concensus from the women was that he was a low life bastard and kick that fella out the door - permanently,all I could do was gulp and look like an angel.

welcome back rover i missed you

[rover]

welcome back rover i missed you

I missed you too Harry, the only other watersport lover.

[Dirty Harry]

I missed you too Harry, the only other watersport lover.

that picture looks pretty good but i would rather the other watersport you know the type

[Cable87]

Ahh, the old "Only LOSERS pay for sex" thing...


Heard it before, we'll all hear it again I trust, but I'm not deterred, and like most of the others, I've got my own reasons for sometimes preferring a professional over taking my chances out in pubs & night clubs.

I've been punting for about 7 years now, and I've only got a handful of friends that I've ever told about my punting, just the ones I know aren't going to be judgemental about it; not that I'd be too worried/bothered if they were, they wouldn't really be a mate worth keeping anyway if they rejected you over something like this. But I still only mention it to the friends of mine that I know are at least comfortable hearing about it, although to my knowledge, none of those same close friends have ever punted, or at none of them have ever admitted it to me. The only friend that's ever told me he's punted is an older friend of mine. He'd been living in Japan and the Phillipines in the late 60's & early 70's, and him & his mates called into prositutes out there regularly. Maybe it was his influence and open, direct, and non-judgemental attitude about paying for sex that finally led me to give it a try, and I've never felt bad or guilty from a moral standpoint about punting. In fact, the only time I've ever felt bad about has been on spending too much money on them, or regretful if I went in and felt I didn't get my money's worth or didn't really get-on with the lady all that well. We all know that punting can be hit-or-miss, but overall I've had a lot more positive experiences than I've had negative when it comes to punting.

I'm like some of the other gents that have weighed-in on the topic, in that I feel that I can (and sometimes do) have a reasonable amount of luck with 'regular' women, but sometimes, I'm really just put-off with all the work that's involved with so many of them! So many women I've met seem to expect you to give them the world and more, just so you can have the 'pleasure' of their company, which at times can be mediocre at best, as I'm sure we've all had girlfriends that were both high-maintenance and that were absolutely CRAP in bed!

In fact that reminds me, the older friend I mentioned had been engaged a few years back, and he used to do up a budget sheet for all his expenses for the month, as he was really tight on cash at the moment, and he wanted his fiance at the time to understand why the expensive holidays she wanted were out of the question for the time being. He specifically pointed out the amount of money he was spending on a category we specifically referred to as "Broad Maintenance"-- this included gifts, flowers, dinners, films, and any/all other expenses he encurred as a result of his relationship with her. He was easily spending a minimum of 250 a month, usually more like 300-- and for Valentine's Day, her Birthday month, & Christmas, he bugeted at least an additional 200 for each! It really struck me as a hell of a lot of money, especially for the fact that they were only having sex 2 times a week at absolute best, and according to him, the sex was no where near the best he'd had (either from escorts or other women he'd been with).

We used to speculate about how frequently he could go punting at the comparative prices it used to cost him back when he was younger and punting all the time, and epending on what was available within his current budget. We'd concluded that he could punt, at the comparative rates that he used to do so and within his current budget, at least twice a month, and 3 times a month for special occasions such as his Birthday. All this and he'd have spent the same money OR LESS per-month as he'd been spending on his by then pain-in-the-hole fiance, and all without any of the extra work and headaches that went into 'Broad Maintenance'.

I've always remembered that ever since, and I keep it in mind when I'm put looking for women in pubs/clubs-- that many of them will be just as much if not more money (not to mention HASSLE) as going to an escort and having a really good, no-strings session with a beautiful woman that will be kind and pleasant to you throughout the encounter (as long as you're respectful to her). Which would you choose?


So, am I a 'LOSER' because I punt? Maybe some would say so. But I've still got my sanity and am obligated to no one, and am not in a position where I'm having my life and it's direction dictated and decided for me by a woman who only wants to control me.


Cable 87

[Forrest]

I go to escorts cause I can't get a women in the real world. And that is sad I know, but sad that no one is interested in me, even though I'm fairly interesting.

I doubt thats true Espensen, or maybe you are referring to the dude in your avatar.

[Forrest]

I wouldn't consider myself or anyone else that visits escorts a loser. I know I am paying a lady to be with me but most of the ones I have met have been incredibly funny, interesting and sexy. It cuts out the awkwardness of dating a woman for days, weeks, months and spending a fortune on meals, weekends away, gifts only for the relationship to end because the spark went out. When I visit an escort, that spark is always there, albeit for just an hour, and without all the nagging, complaining and compromising.