Should I start to make multiple appointments?

[sharkskin]

Let's say that I have a three hour window in which to see an escort.

A day ahead of time, I make an appointment and at the start of my three hour slot, I head off to her location. It takes me 45 minutes to get there and, in order to be sure that I am on time, I have made the appointment one hour into my window. I want a 60 minute visit and that will give me time to get back at the end.

I turn up and the escort fails to make the appointment. This happens 80% of the time - I am keeping count.

I start to head off to wherever it happens that I need to be at the end of my time-slot and as I do that, I start to call other escorts on my contact list. If I am really lucky, I find somebody who is located on my route back who can see me with 30 minutes notice for a 30 minute appointment. Usually, I am not so lucky and faced with a closing time-slot I admit defeat and accept that I have wasted 3 hours.

Now, the last time that this happened to me, I did get offers from several escorts to see me but they all needed time to get ready and the best option would have left me with enough time for a 15 min quickie which is of no interest to me.

Alternatively, I could just make 5 appointments spaced apart by 15 minutes in the expectation that one of them will actually happen and the other 4 escorts will not really be inconvenienced since they had no intention of keeping the appointment anyway.

What does everyone think?

Most importantly, what would an escort think? Your choice is this:

I have made an appointment with another escort and she fails to keep it.

So, I phone you and ask are your ready now? You say that you need half an hour to get ready and I tell you sorry but that is no good. You don't get any of my money.

Alternatively, I make a backup appointment with you and if you decide to make yourself available for it, you have an 80% chance that the first escort will cancel and you will get the business.

[Patricia]

I turn up and the escort fails to make the appointment. This happens 80% of the time - I am keeping count.

I don't agree with this statistic. It is usually the other way around in my experience, escorts getting messed about by clients. Of course it can go both ways, but for this to be happening to you 80% of the time seems very unfortunate.

Are you only basing this statistic on a small number of experiences which are unfortunately bad? If not I think you need to look at which escorts you are making appointments with and what your manner is like. Maybe you aren't good at selecting good escorts yet, you need to get more familiar with reviews and all the things that help you choose a good escort, or maybe there is something about your manner which is putting escorts off, e.g. you are asking loads of questions and making them fear you could be a journalist.

I don't think multiple booking escorts is the answer.

Pat x

[sharkskin]

Are you only basing this statistic on a small number of experiences which are unfortunately bad? If not I think you need to look at which escorts you are making appointments with and what your manner is like.

Comparing a 100% success rate in Germany to an 80% failure rate in Ireland makes me suspect that the problem is not me.

... maybe there is something about your manner which is putting escorts off, e.g. you are asking loads of questions and making them fear you could be a journalist.

All that I ask is "can I make an appointment?" and "where should I go?" and I remember to say please and thank you.

Also, given that I am a native English speaker, I would expect to have more problems communicating in Germany.

I don't think multiple booking escorts is the answer.

Well, I was being intentionally provocative with that suggestion but consider how that would have affected one lady who I called today. I called within her listed hours and she was not busy but was just not immediately ready. If I had made a booking with her the day before as a backup, she would now be one or two hundred Euros better off.

[Quarterpoundher]

You have to hand it to those Germans, they are professional in damn near everything it seems if that stat is correct but was it one German you saw which leads to a 100% success rate? You need to provide a more details breakdown if you are keeping count of Irish stats then did you also keep count of German stats?

dont think its fair to just blanket book escorts and not take into account one escorts good rep in time keeping as in effect you would be punishing the good ones for the sins of the many. Be better to read reviews and if good and with a few known reviewers (did not say badged btw but "known") then extend those escorts at least the courtesy of not messing them around if they have a good rep for being professional.

[thehighwayman]

Your just choosing the wrong escorts. The good escorts won't mess you around like that. It's not very often that an escort cancels or messes me around. I would put the statistic the other way around. Maybe someething between 10 to 20 % of the time an escort will cancel or mess you around.

[Dirty Harry]

i know a mate of mine was having trouble getting an appointments before he on two ocassions got no answer when he got to the land mark place where the escort told him to go i would say they thought he was a doggy guy because to be fair he looks it even thou he is a friendly guy he has very bad phone manners also he seems to shout at people on the phone dose this ring any bells to you

[sharkskin]

... but was it one German you saw which leads to a 100% success rate?

No, it was a mix of nationalities. Just like here.

Be better to read reviews and if good and with a few known reviewers ...

That is a fair point and has also been made by Pat but I am here for variety which means that going off the beaten track becomes inevitable after a while.

[Quarterpoundher]

No, it was a mix of nationalities. Just like here.

Then if you truly had a 100% success rate there then it points to a difference is culture (punting culture) and possibly those escorts don't get messed around and endlessly have messers booking who never show up and so therefore don't have to themselves double book to the degree that happens here to ensure they are not out of pocket or lost time. Its probably a self sustaining loop, the escorts get messed around so double book and the real clients get canceled and so themselves perhaps adopt your idea and book more then one.

That is a fair point and has also been made by Pat but I am here for variety which means that going off the beaten track becomes inevitable after a while.

If you are after variety then going off the beaten track will mean getting mud on your boots now and then.

[Rayden]

i would say in my experiences meeting with escorts i have about an 80% success rate. Funnily enough in my 10 reviews i have submitted 8 are positive and 2 are n/a cases.

[sharkskin]

i know a mate of mine was having trouble getting an appointments before he on two ocassions got no answer when he got to the land mark place where the escort told him to go i would say they thought he was a doggy guy because to be fair he looks it even thou he is a friendly guy he has very bad phone manners also he seems to shout at people on the phone dose this ring any bells to you

:-)

No bells ringing there. Also, if I have no time pressure and I just go to the centre and start calling escorts in the D1 area then everything works out fine. Under those circumstances, every single escort who has ever answered the phone to me has either offered me a time that day (usually in one or two hours) or asked me to call the next day and almost every short notice appointment that I have made has been kept. There are two exceptions to that, in one case, an escort sent me an SMS to say that she way really sorry but a regular had just extended and could I put the appointment back by a few hours and in the other case, an escort said that she got a call from somebody who was in her street a minute before me and thought that it was me (her booking) and so saw another client. She apologized and most certainly made it up to me later that day.

So, I really do not think that it is me. I think that the problem is that most escorts here do not see any reason to honour appointments that they make for "tomorrow".