she said she loves me

[Westsidex]

I wouldnt touch one. Why put yourself under that sort of upset unless one is willing to move? Not worth it. There are plenty of girls around locally without having to put pressure into a relationship.

Having said that my brothers gf is Spanish and they are together 4 years now. He plans on moving over there for good though but not this year. she comes over here and he goes over to her every few weeks.

not for me though,
Westside.

[Alec Horan]

I went missing from EI for a few weeks as I met a lovely South American girl we dated for over 2 weeks every day we just kinda chilled out she was only here for a month went home last week we talked on Skype the last 2 nights,last night she said 'I Love u'() for the first time to me balling crying she was said she missed me() have to admit I was kinda whingeing too I've been in a similar situation before long distance r/ships dont work shes committed to a decent job over there too so I told her we need to cease communication not that I dont want to find a long term love but there was no future for us being so far apart whats the point? she was hysterical & said I simply am a horrible user I'm not am I?

I think its really weird that you refer to her as 'South American' rather than her actual nationality. Methinks you are making this all up to hide the embarassment of forgetting your password.............

[JohnRambo]

I went missing from EI for a few weeks as I met a lovely South American girl we dated for over 2 weeks every day we just kinda chilled out she was only here for a month went home last week we talked on Skype the last 2 nights,last night she said 'I Love u'() for the first time to me balling crying she was said she missed me() have to admit I was kinda whingeing too I've been in a similar situation before long distance r/ships dont work shes committed to a decent job over there too so I told her we need to cease communication not that I dont want to find a long term love but there was no future for us being so far apart whats the point? she was hysterical & said I simply am a horrible user I'm not am I?

Look on the bright side EP you know the old say, “its better to have loved and lost than never loved at all,” and again look on the bright side you’re obviously not dead which we were all told you were.

[Taylor of Manchester]

I went missing from EI for a few weeks as I met a lovely South American girl we dated for over 2 weeks every day we just kinda chilled out she was only here for a month went home last week we talked on Skype the last 2 nights,last night she said 'I Love u'() for the first time to me balling crying she was said she missed me() have to admit I was kinda whingeing too I've been in a similar situation before long distance r/ships dont work shes committed to a decent job over there too so I told her we need to cease communication not that I dont want to find a long term love but there was no future for us being so far apart whats the point? she was hysterical & said I simply am a horrible user I'm not am I?

There are ways of saying things EP....you know 'its not you - its me'

We women are shallow creatures, couldn't you have tried abit of letting down gently.....we don't like to be dumped !

T
xxx

[Westsidex]

There are ways of saying things EP....you know 'its not you - its me'

We women are shallow creatures, couldn't you have tried abit of letting down gently.....we don't like to be dumped !

T
xxx

sincerely,
Westside.

[luther]

sincerely,
Westside.

That's getting recycled, it's different.............Like shagging her friend afterwards..................

[Taylor of Manchester]

That's getting recycled, it's different.............Like shagging her friend afterwards..................

Or her sister....

[luther]

There are ways of saying things EP....you know 'its not you - its me'

We women are shallow creatures, couldn't you have tried abit of letting down gently.....we don't like to be dumped !

T
xxx

Hi T..........

I'm trying this at the moment. I've never even gone out with her. I'm trying to gently tell her that I don't want to..............

She's just not getting it..............

Message after message after message...........

Could be 5 in a row without me replying..............

I may have to go the direct route..................

[luther]

Or her sister....

She has a sister???..................

Good thinking T




Hey EP.............DOES SHE HAVE A SISTER???

Any pics???..................

[kelso]

based on very recent experience of 4 months dati ng a brazilian girl i think you ddi the right thing buddfy ,although you could have done it in a better way!
long distance with a younger gorgeous girl is pretty tough on you r head, in the end you either have to cut your losses or move there asnd give it a go, sounds to me like you dont love her mate, if you did, you would be on ebookers
in our case i am 8 yrs older, and discovered early on she was in a marriage of convenience in spain for papers, we got on great, i fell for her very fast and helped her out in various ways, but it was not gonna work long term, but WERE STILL BEST OF FRIENDS!