Phoned A Girl, Now I'm Not Sure

[YesIWouldLikeSomePancakes]

I'm not a time waster, what makes you think I am?

[Lincoln]

I'm a bit disappointed about the call, I was hoping for something a bit more friendly and more informative. I forgot to introduce myself, that's my fault. But she could have said something like "I'm not sure about 8pm, I have X PM free if that's ok with you" not just "not sure call me back". It kinda put me off.

I like to plan things, so I was at home on Google Maps getting directions to her general area and planning what time to get the bus and how long it would take to walk there, I spent ages shaving down there and all

I know they try to avoid time wasters and all that, but if I have to confirm 15 minutes beforehand I'm assuming she was confirming if another client was going at 8 or not?

Adding to that, another girl I was really interested in isn't on the site anymore

Little buddy you all don't sound old enough to have anything to shave off down there (as you so coyly put it).

But anyhows I don't really believe your story. If ypu were for real yopu would have put the phone down and made plans to camp on her door step on the off chance she'd let you in....

[carriebbw]

I think the girl was been honest in saying she didnt know - prob cos she has got someone who has said they are visiting - but as we girls know in Dublin there are a lot of time wasters about. I will often tell a guy to ring 15 mins before to confirm - so she may have that as well, and then if the other guy didnt make it your in.
You shouldnt moan guys it all your faults we have to do tis nowhere do i get the amount of timewasters as in dublin. To be honest thats why a lot of the girls no longer visit.

[YesIWouldLikeSomePancakes]

Little buddy you all don't sound old enough to have anything to shave off down there (as you so coyly put it).

But anyhows I don't really believe your story. If ypu were for real yopu would have put the phone down and made plans to camp on her door step on the off chance she'd let you in....

So you think I'm lying? Well I'm sorry I didn't want to waste my time. She wasn't sure it she was free at 8, you're either busy or you're not, so I didn't want to waste 3+ hours for nothing.

I'm starting to think why I even bothered.

[the good guy]

well if your not bothered you can't expect anybody else 2 be 2 bothered either??
just take 1 or 2 or 3 numbers of a few girls you like and if 1 girl is busy try the other girl. just have some back up bud!

[Cable87]

Personally, I've NEVER made an appointment more than an hour or so in advance for seeing a lady, and have never pm'ed for an appointment, despite the length of time I've been an E-I member. I don't live in Dublin City either, so I make my way into town and THEN I get down to ringing the ladies I would like to see. I always go with a prepared 'short-list' of potential ladies, as there's no way to guarantee that your 'first-choice lady' will be available when you want, or at all for that matter!

I was, on at least 2 occasions, delayed for an extra hour or so for my appointment, once due to the lady being busy right before seeing me, and the other because of a series of bad directions from the escort as well as every passerby I asked on the street. I've only ever been declined (perhaps more accurate to say delayed) appointments on 3 occasions, twice because the lady was booked-out for the next few hours (and I was too horny to wait), and the other because the lady in question had moved to the next destination on her tour.

But other than that, I've had ladies that have agreed to see me in as little as 15 minutes from my first call, but that's certainly not standard operating procedure for most of them, and there are definitely (and understandably) many who tell you they can see you in 30 min to 1 hour so they can get themselves showered and ready, as well as to filter out the far-too-numeous timewasters they have to deal with. And remember that many of the ladies stay as vague as possible about their exact location until they know for sure that you're actually going to show-up, hence you should be prepared to have to ring several times from certain 'landmarks' when getting directions ("When you get to the Spire, turn left. When you get to the next corner by the Centra, turn right, then ring again from there"... etc).

Might seem like a lot to go through, but I can promise that it's (nearly) always worth it in the end! Happy punting Pancakes (so long as you're NOT a wind-up artist)!

[YesIWouldLikeSomePancakes]

First off, sorry if I seem like a dick, I just wasn't happy with the phone call earlier, then being called a time waster and a liar didn't help. I'm new to this and I wasn't sure what to do. I thought calling 4 hours beforehand was short notice, I didn't know 30mins-1hour was ok. If I knew she was available at 8pm I would have went, but not sure isn't a very reassuring answer, especially when there's a possibilty of wasting 3 hours with travel when I get there and she wasn't available. I can assure you, I am not a time waster or a liar. I do want to be with a girl and I was telling the truth about the phonecall.

Personally, I've NEVER made an appointment more than an hour or so in advance for seeing a lady, and have never pm'ed for an appointment, despite the length of time I've been an E-I member. I don't live in Dublin City either, so I make my way into town and THEN I get down to ringing the ladies I would like to see. I always go with a prepared 'short-list' of potential ladies, as there's no way to guarantee that your 'first-choice lady' will be available when you want, or at all for that matter!

I was, on at least 2 occasions, delayed for an extra hour or so for my appointment, once due to the lady being busy right before seeing me, and the other because of a series of bad directions from the escort as well as every passerby I asked on the street. I've only ever been declined (perhaps more accurate to say delayed) appointments on 3 occasions, twice because the lady was booked-out for the next few hours (and I was too horny to wait), and the other because the lady in question had moved to the next destination on her tour.

But other than that, I've had ladies that have agreed to see me in as little as 15 minutes from my first call, but that's certainly not standard operating procedure for most of them, and there are definitely (and understandably) many who tell you they can see you in 30 min to 1 hour so they can get themselves showered and ready, as well as to filter out the far-too-numeous timewasters they have to deal with. And remember that many of the ladies stay as vague as possible about their exact location until they know for sure that you're actually going to show-up, hence you should be prepared to have to ring several times from certain 'landmarks' when getting directions ("When you get to the Spire, turn left. When you get to the next corner by the Centra, turn right, then ring again from there"... etc).

Might seem like a lot to go through, but I can promise that it's (nearly) always worth it in the end! Happy punting Pancakes (so long as you're NOT a wind-up artist)!

Thanks for the info, I think I'll try that tomorrow. At least being in the city I can confirm an appointment 30-15 minutes before hand. At home I can't call a girl 15 minutes beforehand to see if she's available then leave my house. It takes too long to get there.

[Blond chick NIKKY]

Thanks for all the info, she has a good few reviews so she probably is quite busy. I guess I should have told I live far away, but the call was kind of hurried and as I was nervous I wasn't thinking. Maybe she was just having a bad day or something. At least now I have a better insight to what I'm doing.

I'm still new to this though, how often do you guys call in advance? What do you usually say over the phone? What about when you get there? Does the time start when I get there or when we start having fun?

U are welcome! Just next time be sure and make a girl sure u will really show up. Enjoy!

[Jasmin]

...and rule number one... do not introduce yourself as anything other then your username (but thats a bit of a mouthful) or a made up name, they will not be telling you theirs.

It great that you have manners and polite and they are probably the two things all escorts like to see in any client but no point in being polite to the point of compromising yourself, not to an escort that you have just rung for first time.

There are people here just itching to cause you real problems in the real world and spend most everyday toward that end and some escorts cant keep the mouth shut and pass around info on the grapevine.

Some very nice people here also but I am just telling you like it is and you need to look out for yourself.

If I was looking for an escort for the first time and heard this kind of comment I would probably be scared and give up.
No escorts are going to ask someone's name on the phone, for the simply reason that when someone says we don’t believe anyway.
Some people do get nervous when ringing to make an appointment which is completely normal.
I understand that sometimes not everything that the client wants to know is on the girl's profile and asking is completely acceptable however having many people ringing and asking for example "how much" or "what do you like" is quite annoying to be honest.

I'm still new to this though, how often do you guys call in advance? What do you usually say over the phone? What about when you get there? Does the time start when I get there or when we start having fun?

Some girls ask 30 minutes notice, some ask for more, it really depend on each girl but as you said you live far from her locatio the best thing is let her know about it (you don't need to give her your address ). ring earlier, set up the time and tell her that you are going to confirm when you are just about to leave home, before you do, contact her and let her confirm that she is going to be waiting for you
Good luck, relax and enjoy