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    clearing things up here.. Of course my gf doesnt know I use escorts jesus Id be dead but I could never do the dirt its just the way I am.. Anyways had a nice experience with a girl last nite.. so thats that..

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    Question You mean.................................................. you mean.

    You cheated on your gf? Last night?A nice experinece and your the guy that said escorts only let you hear what you want to hear and to have cop on? Right lad.And i note the use of the past tense ,she doesnt know you use escorts implying that you do all ready.

    Im not sure if you mean sex by nice encounter but i can say this.For all my faults ,i have never ever met an escort while dating another woman.Never. Its shallow and two faced and i wouldnt like it done to me.

    Bring on the anti West brigade. I stand here in all my glory.

    PS anyone know how to get rid of a two week old chest infection?


    Did she touch your Lad, Lad?
    Westside.

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    Quote Originally Posted by westside View Post
    You cheated on your gf? Last night?A nice experinece and your the guy that said escorts only let you hear what you want to hear and to have cop on? Right lad.And i note the use of the past tense ,she doesnt know you use escorts implying that you do all ready.

    Im not sure if you mean sex by nice encounter but i can say this.For all my faults ,i have never ever met an escort while dating another woman.Never. Its shallow and two faced and i wouldnt like it done to me.

    Bring on the anti West brigade. I stand here in all my glory.

    PS anyone know how to get rid of a two week old chest infection?


    Did she touch your Lad, Lad?
    Westside.
    I wouldnt consider it in any way cheating if all he was doing was looking for some company, like a dinner date. The world is not just black and white. If sex is involved then yeah its cheating. However, if in a relationship, I wouldnt meet an escort myself for company but thats not because I consider it "cheating".

    Go to the doctor with your chest infection!

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    believe it or not some guys just want ompanionship or a dinner date with a classy girl on his arm which is fine by me. getting paid to keep some1 company or being taken out to a fancy restaurant. dont charge for this the meal costs enough as it is and its nice to be pampered in a while instead of being treated like a piece of sexy meat xxx
    safer sex is better

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    Lightbulb This is great fo killing time........................................

    The reason that hed be better off not doing it ,is it sows the seed of doubt which is the evry last thing that someone in a happy relationship wants.Note the "happy". If i was lads gf and i found out about this ,i would say to myself, " what else is he doing that he is not telling me about and why didnt he tell me?" and if lad did tell her she would say "why would he meet an escort when there aloads of other things to do to pass the time."Why an escort? An escort but no sex? You see it all plants the seed of doubt.
    I remember meeting an ex gf one night.We were yapping in her car and we had been apart for about three weeks and had being togwther two years.Every time she broke up with me shed always show up just when i was having fun.Only this time it was an escort.I told her and you know what the very first thing she said was? That it made her feel inadequate. Forget the fact that we were apart.This is the way a gf would look at it.They will not see the reasons for it but express their feelings about it.

    I have never ever known a woman ,even alot of those in the sex industry would be like this, that would have no problem with their bf goping out to a hotel for dinner with another woman.They just dont think like that and in a lot of cases it can be justified.

    Its your Life lad, your relationship, and your world.

    Doc? Pay 50 eurs so he can tell me what i already know? And those silly anti biotics that make us mentally constipated.No thanks.


    Mcdonalds Lad?
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    Quote Originally Posted by westside View Post
    You cheated on your gf? Last night?A nice experinece and your the guy that said escorts only let you hear what you want to hear and to have cop on? Right lad.And i note the use of the past tense ,she doesnt know you use escorts implying that you do all ready.

    Im not sure if you mean sex by nice encounter but i can say this.For all my faults ,i have never ever met an escort while dating another woman.Never. Its shallow and two faced and i wouldnt like it done to me.

    Bring on the anti West brigade. I stand here in all my glory.

    PS anyone know how to get rid of a two week old chest infection?


    Did she touch your Lad, Lad?
    Westside.
    it's great that you have such high morals that you stand by WS, but you shouldn't condemn those of us in more complicated situations as shallow - cheaters? yes of course we are, but like every one the issues are always more complicated than can be summed up in a couple of words. After all - where would the escorts be without out all the married men?

    My only issue with what Dub Lad stated earlier was that it was all just "harmless" - of course it isn't... even if all he did was play pat a cake he still hired an escort, and that still puts him in the ha'penny place if he ever told the gf. From the married or attached man's point of view there is nothing that will make his hiring of escorts a noble act but there are often many angles to a story

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    Smile Im starting to enjoy being sick...................................

    Nope not comdemning but the impression i got from his post was that he had sex with an escort last .But hey if im wrong my bad.
    Any guy who is married with kids and loves his wife and using escorts is i repeat A SHALLOW PIECE OF SHIT. Dont you think that money would go well on a nice meal for the wife or to take the kids somewhere decent? Now if the guy is in an unhappy marraige then a marraige counciller would be their best bet and not escorts.Now if he discussed his urge to use an escort correctly with wife ,it may not go down well initially but it could help wake up the relationship that has obviously gone stale.

    Of course i do aggree that every side is different but its usually the peoples own fault and escorting sure wont fix it.

    Dr, Ruth who?
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    I cant believe this is sparking such messages.. I didnt have sex and what is the story with you playing pata cake my gawd do you do that when your chatting to females here i know what youll love pata cake... u child.. And it was just for company like even if i was single i would still use an escort just for company.. Maybe I am a romantic at heart and thats what I get the most out of...maybe if you just stopped humping the girls u mite actually realise that you can find something deeper than meaningless sex...

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    Quote Originally Posted by westside View Post
    Nope not comdemning but the impression i got from his post was that he had sex with an escort last .But hey if im wrong my bad.
    Any guy who is married with kids and loves his wife and using escorts is i repeat A SHALLOW PIECE OF SHIT. Dont you think that money would go well on a nice meal for the wife or to take the kids somewhere decent? Now if the guy is in an unhappy marraige then a marraige counciller would be their best bet and not escorts.Now if he discussed his urge to use an escort correctly with wife ,it may not go down well initially but it could help wake up the relationship that has obviously gone stale.

    Of course i do aggree that every side is different but its usually the peoples own fault and escorting sure wont fix it.

    Dr, Ruth who?
    Westside.
    hey now - keep your moralising for yourself... that's my one and only point. You have no idea what anothers reasons are - or what is going on in their life so pontificating about it isn't very clever IMHO. Everybody finds their own way and as long as it's with the minimum of pain and distress (prefferably none at all) to those they meet on the way then I'm not one to judge. Nothing is black and white after all...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dub Lad View Post
    I cant believe this is sparking such messages.. I didnt have sex and what is the story with you playing pata cake my gawd do you do that when your chatting to females here i know what youll love pata cake... u child.. And it was just for company like even if i was single i would still use an escort just for company.. Maybe I am a romantic at heart and thats what I get the most out of...maybe if you just stopped humping the girls u mite actually realise that you can find something deeper than meaningless sex...
    oh grow up will you? the pat a cake reference is to the movie Roger Rabbit - just used as an illustration that an innoccent passtime for one is sordid rendezvous for another, that's all.

    My point is quite simply that while you had no sex it wasn't harmless fun - ask your gf if you think it was

    Meaningless sex hmmm makes me think - to paraphrase woody allen - meaningless sex is an empty experience, but as empty experiences go it's one of the best

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