how it all began

[iamnewtothis]

Hey i was just wondering how you all started in the whole " punting" business?

was it a bad relationship you got out of?

lack of self confidence?

Also can you remember your very first escort? was it all you expected it to be?

[Epsilon]

For SEX!!! plain and simple....
A little bit of something/someone different is nice every now and then

[iamnewtothis]

i think the whole excitment of the meet is part of the attraction. never know what ur gonna get when the door opens

[Westsidex]

never know what ur gonna get when the door opens

True.

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Westside.

[kelso]

Hey i was just wondering how you all started in the whole " punting" business?

was it a bad relationship you got out of?

lack of self confidence?

Also can you remember your very first escort? was it all you expected it to be?

i was looking for a dating site and up popped EI - honest!!! my first time i was like a 15year old again; i was so lucky with my first, gorgeous brazilian babe that i ended up dating falling in love with and yes spending a fortune on her that i dont really have!! it is a very very addictive experience; it takes a long time to blow 200 lids on beer, but a lot more pleasurable than giving iur money to paddy power

[joemac32]

I was on an adult-dating website and contacted this seriously hot woman through it. A few emails and she basically explained she was an escort. I'd never imagined paying for it before, but she was extremely hot, willing to help me out with a few fantasies...and I was extremely horny! I was really nervous going to her apartment but once inside (pun intended!) I was delighted to be there

[iamnewtothis]

i dont think anyone has any regrets about escorts, no one i have talked to :P

[anon361]

A lot of guys i would imagine its so they can sleep with ladies they would normally have no chance with but for me it's purely for variety and the fact there is no attachment.

[iamnewtothis]

but for me it's purely for variety and the fact there is no attachment.

indeed. however i wouldnt be surprised if people do form an attachment with some of these ladies, because afterall as you said these girls are the type i would only dream of

[Cable87]

Guess I got into it for many of the same reasons most other guys do...


I was actually in a relationship the first time I saw a 'professional' (in Amsterdam) at the age of 24, and I guess I was tempted just to increase the number of women I'd been with, in addition to scoring with the types that always seem to be "out of your league", even though those same types of girls MUST have BF's sometimes, but I digress...

I was one of those guys back in school that didn't feel like I had all that much luck with regular girls, even though I did have a good looking GF at 16 as well as a few other 'encounters' over the years, I was just one of those guys that didn't know how to chat/relate to women very well back then, and never felt that I was getting nearly as much going as I could have. Besides, all the games and crap that you have to deal with, not to mention the time, effort, and emotion/financial drain that it certainly can be trying to 'score' with non-professionals.

One thing I can say for sure is that spending time with escorts has no doubt IMPROVED my ability to meet/chat-up other women. There's nothing nicer than walking into the room to see an absolutely stunning woman, the exact type I would've no doubt been far to intimidated to even talk to in a public setting years ago, and to engage her in friendly and pleasant conversation (both before and after the 'main event'). I've had lots of experiences where the chat was almost as important to the overall experience as the sex itself. I suppose it's just nice to discover that they are real people behind the flashy pics we see here on this and other sites, and many do have genuinely nice personalities. Though it can be considered a normal part of the overall 'package' when one goes to see an escort, it's always nice to be able to relate to them as people on a friendly and personable level. I guess this is the main point of the "no attachment" idea-- the fact that you will have sex with them is a foregone conclusion, so there's no need for the awkwardness and effort that it takes to score a women in a pub or night club, and you can get right down to most of the good things about sex and dating without the effort, time and hassle.

As for concerns about money, I guess there was a time when I had more of it immediately available to me that I was was punting rather frequently, between here and other countries, that yes, maybe I WAS spending money I should've been spending on other things, but I NEVER went into debt, missed rent or bill payments or something like that, I just had less spending money for other things.


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