how it all began

[anon361]

A lot of guys i would imagine its so they can sleep with ladies they would normally have no chance with but for me it's purely for variety and the fact there is no attachment.

[iamnewtothis]

but for me it's purely for variety and the fact there is no attachment.

indeed. however i wouldnt be surprised if people do form an attachment with some of these ladies, because afterall as you said these girls are the type i would only dream of

[Cable87]

Guess I got into it for many of the same reasons most other guys do...


I was actually in a relationship the first time I saw a 'professional' (in Amsterdam) at the age of 24, and I guess I was tempted just to increase the number of women I'd been with, in addition to scoring with the types that always seem to be "out of your league", even though those same types of girls MUST have BF's sometimes, but I digress...

I was one of those guys back in school that didn't feel like I had all that much luck with regular girls, even though I did have a good looking GF at 16 as well as a few other 'encounters' over the years, I was just one of those guys that didn't know how to chat/relate to women very well back then, and never felt that I was getting nearly as much going as I could have. Besides, all the games and crap that you have to deal with, not to mention the time, effort, and emotion/financial drain that it certainly can be trying to 'score' with non-professionals.

One thing I can say for sure is that spending time with escorts has no doubt IMPROVED my ability to meet/chat-up other women. There's nothing nicer than walking into the room to see an absolutely stunning woman, the exact type I would've no doubt been far to intimidated to even talk to in a public setting years ago, and to engage her in friendly and pleasant conversation (both before and after the 'main event'). I've had lots of experiences where the chat was almost as important to the overall experience as the sex itself. I suppose it's just nice to discover that they are real people behind the flashy pics we see here on this and other sites, and many do have genuinely nice personalities. Though it can be considered a normal part of the overall 'package' when one goes to see an escort, it's always nice to be able to relate to them as people on a friendly and personable level. I guess this is the main point of the "no attachment" idea-- the fact that you will have sex with them is a foregone conclusion, so there's no need for the awkwardness and effort that it takes to score a women in a pub or night club, and you can get right down to most of the good things about sex and dating without the effort, time and hassle.

As for concerns about money, I guess there was a time when I had more of it immediately available to me that I was was punting rather frequently, between here and other countries, that yes, maybe I WAS spending money I should've been spending on other things, but I NEVER went into debt, missed rent or bill payments or something like that, I just had less spending money for other things.


Cable 87

[iamnewtothis]

Guess I got into it for many of the same reasons most other guys do...


I was actually in a relationship the first time I saw a 'professional' (in Amsterdam) at the age of 24, and I guess I was tempted just to increase the number of women I'd been with, in addition to scoring with the types that always seem to be "out of your league", even though those same types of girls MUST have BF's sometimes, but I digress...

I was one of those guys back in school that didn't feel like I had all that much luck with regular girls, even though I did have a good looking GF at 16 as well as a few other 'encounters' over the years, I was just one of those guys that didn't know how to chat/relate to women very well back then, and never felt that I was getting nearly as much going as I could have. Besides, all the games and crap that you have to deal with, not to mention the time, effort, and emotion/financial drain that it certainly can be trying to 'score' with non-professionals.

One thing I can say for sure is that spending time with escorts has no doubt IMPROVED my ability to meet/chat-up other women. There's nothing nicer than walking into the room to see an absolutely stunning woman, the exact type I would've no doubt been far to intimidated to even talk to in a public setting years ago, and to engage her in friendly and pleasant conversation (both before and after the 'main event'). I've had lots of experiences where the chat was almost as important to the overall experience as the sex itself. I suppose it's just nice to discover that they are real people behind the flashy pics we see here on this and other sites, and many do have genuinely nice personalities. Though it can be considered a normal part of the overall 'package' when one goes to see an escort, it's always nice to be able to relate to them as people on a friendly and personable level. I guess this is the main point of the "no attachment" idea-- the fact that you will have sex with them is a foregone conclusion, so there's no need for the awkwardness and effort that it takes to score a women in a pub or night club, and you can get right down to most of the good things about sex and dating without the effort, time and hassle.

As for concerns about money, I guess there was a time when I had more of it immediately available to me that I was was punting rather frequently, between here and other countries, that yes, maybe I WAS spending money I should've been spending on other things, but I NEVER went into debt, missed rent or bill payments or something like that, I just had less spending money for other things.


Cable 87

i can relate to that quite alot to be honest. as my name suggests i am new to this whole thing in the way that i am ready to actually go through with it. i have looked on this site at the various girls on offer and to be honest it intimidates me. i usually tend to have girlfriends who are your normal looking type. I am horrible with girls as stunning as the ones on offer here, and i just think oh shit what if i turn up and am totally horrible at this. i guess my low self confidence is the reason im on this site in the first place tho