when is wrong to post a bad review

[Just_joe]

Does anyone feel there are certain circumstances when posting a negative review would be considered wrong, maybe even dangerous.


I was with this escort a few weeks before xmas.. the punt was okay'ish but during the intercourse I looked down and noticed a couple of scars on the girls arm.. then I looked a little closer and could see loads of old ones - very faint all over her forearms... it was pretty obvious that girl is/was a "self harmer"

If i put this in her review it would most likely put other punter off, but actually the girl was quite sweet and pretty good at her job.

then i got to thinking that maybe she wasn't doing her job by choice.. I'm not saying she was trafficked or anything but maybe she was escorting to earn a few quid to support a kid back home or a dying brother or a mother with cancer or god knows what and even though she hated the job she needed the job.. know what i mean?

...and by posting a negative but albeit honest review I might be doing the wrong thing by this girl

[Alec Horan]

Joe -

I think if a girl is willing to allow a review then posting the above is acceptable - you are of course correct in that your review may have greater repurcussions but that goes for all reviews which is why I dont do them full stop -

Am I contradicting myself - Probably Yes. - Sorry !

[Patricia]

I would say don't do nothing, post the review. But I wouldn't necessarily publish it all. We should all try to help any escorts we encounter who may need help. That includes me and you. If I were informed of any issue like this, perhaps I wouldn't feel it necessary to publish all the review, but we might contact the escort ourselves to check how she is or even report our concern for her to the relevant authorities if for any reason we were seriously concerned.

[Anna23]

One question were the scars light coloured or freshly made colour?

As I don't see why you would give her a negitive review because you had a good service but she had a few scars on her arm from when she was a depressed teenager

fair enough if she's trafficed etc it would be a good idea for pat to check up

I couldnt agree more with Kelly here.. What has a few scars to do with the service? Everyone can have a scar, but that doesnt mean she is a bad escort or forced to escorting.

[Just_joe]

thanks for the replies everyone..
To answer an earlier question - the scars i noticed at first were recent or fresh (still had red-brown scabs) but there was at least ten on each arm that were older - much older.

As I said earlier the punt/service was quite good but the reviews aren't just about the sex, they're about the overall experience thats why punters mention the parking, the location, the shower facilities etc.

[Anna23]

thanks for the replies everyone..
To answer an earlier question - the scars i noticed at first were recent or fresh (still had red-brown scabs) but there was at least ten on each arm that were older - much older.

As I said earlier the punt/service was quite good but the reviews aren't just about the sex, they're about the overall experience thats why punters mention the parking, the location, the shower facilities etc.

Well, if it was fresh, then that is a different story. The woman obviously has some serious problems but if you mention it in her review, that wont help her.
I understand, that punters probably wont like to visit such an escort but in this case warning them isnt worth to ruin her life completely.
On the other hand if she is good at her job, you would be surpriced how little details the clients notice(or care).
I think you should have asked her if she was ok, now there isnt much anyone can do.

[whiteknight111]

thanks for the replies everyone..
To answer an earlier question - the scars i noticed at first were recent or fresh (still had red-brown scabs) but there was at least ten on each arm that were older - much older.

As I said earlier the punt/service was quite good but the reviews aren't just about the sex, they're about the overall experience thats why punters mention the parking, the location, the shower facilities etc.

This sounds like she is an long -term intravenous drug addict i.e. heroin needles

This raises two questions

1:Its morally wrong to use give money to heroin addicts
2:If she is an long-term intravenous drug addict and is prostituting herself
then she is VERY highly likely to be infected with something AIDS hepatitis etc.

YOu should get an STD test and post review
Good luck

[Forrest]

Does anyone feel there are certain circumstances when posting a negative review would be considered wrong, maybe even dangerous.


I was with this escort a few weeks before xmas.. the punt was okay'ish but during the intercourse I looked down and noticed a couple of scars on the girls arm.. then I looked a little closer and could see loads of old ones - very faint all over her forearms... it was pretty obvious that girl is/was a "self harmer"

If i put this in her review it would most likely put other punter off, but actually the girl was quite sweet and pretty good at her job.

then i got to thinking that maybe she wasn't doing her job by choice.. I'm not saying she was trafficked or anything but maybe she was escorting to earn a few quid to support a kid back home or a dying brother or a mother with cancer or god knows what and even though she hated the job she needed the job.. know what i mean?

...and by posting a negative but albeit honest review I might be doing the wrong thing by this girl

Why do you think you should post a negative review? If the overall experience was good you can mention the scars but say that it didn't affect the encounter too much.

[El Gordo]

Does anyone feel there are certain circumstances when posting a negative review would be considered wrong, maybe even dangerous.

Yes

it was pretty obvious that girl is/was a "self harmer"

If i put this in her review it would most likely put other punter off, but actually the girl was quite sweet and pretty good at her job.

I would probably post no review in this case. I certainly wouldn't post a negative one. If she was really good then I would consider posting a positive one, without mentioning the scars. Later punters might be annoyed at the omission, but my attitude is that I write the the truth, and nothing but the truth, but that I don't owe anyone the whole truth.

[Notatwork]

Worst thread ever!