i think im gay!!

[christy b]

hi all ,im a member here with a good bit,love looking at the girls,never managed to get the confidence to meet any of them,im also a virgin ,im 25,but the last few nights ive found myself looking at gay websites,and gay datiing websites,i dont want to be gay no way but im starting to look at guys and think about being with a guy,has any other guy experienced this

[Patricia]

I'm not sure this is the best site to ask this question, but don't be afraid to be gay, it's ok to be gay. This world is full of gay people, we all have friends and family members who are gay, it's not a disease! Anyone who has an issue with gay people is just stupid and not worth it.

[Doozer]

hi all ,im a member here with a good bit,love looking at the girls,never managed to get the confidence to meet any of them,im also a virgin ,im 25,but the last few nights ive found myself looking at gay websites,and gay datiing websites,i dont want to be gay no way but im starting to look at guys and think about being with a guy,has any other guy experienced this

You are who you are Christy, its nothing to be ashamed of. Chaces are if your bstill into girls then you arent entirely gay just bi. Either way dont try and change who you are just to fit in our impress others. Be yourself, as Pat said the world is full of gays and if your one then dont worry about it.

All the best

Doozer

[carlos marvado]

hi all ,im a member here with a good bit,love looking at the girls,never managed to get the confidence to meet any of them,im also a virgin ,im 25,but the last few nights ive found myself looking at gay websites,and gay datiing websites,i dont want to be gay no way but im starting to look at guys and think about being with a guy,has any other guy experienced this

You sound a bit confused christy b. Just talk to Iris Robinson and she'll straighten you out........no, on second thoughts, you're too old for her........just find yourself a nice lady/man/TS/TV and do what you were put on the planet to do........and P.S. ENJOY!

[Westsidex]

has any other guy experienced this

nope.

looks like your gay christy,
Westside.

[Westsidex]

I'm not sure this is the best site to ask this question, but don't be afraid to be gay, it's ok to be gay. This world is full of gay people, we all have friends and family members who are gay, it's not a disease! Anyone who has an issue with gay people is just stupid and not worth it.

i know a few gay ppl and they are very nice ,genuine ppl.

as long as it stays in its pouch im fine with it,
Westside.

[anon361]

hi all ,im a member here with a good bit,love looking at the girls,never managed to get the confidence to meet any of them,im also a virgin ,im 25,but the last few nights ive found myself looking at gay websites,and gay datiing websites,i dont want to be gay no way but im starting to look at guys and think about being with a guy,has any other guy experienced this

Whether you are or aren't why care, not like it makes any difference to your lifestyle or infringe on your social life like it would have years ago and if you discover you are gay or bi why worry, don't you know that statistically gay men are far more promiscuous than a hetro men, just take the neccesary precautions and you'll be grand

[rimmerguy]

Good man christy , fair play for having the guts to put this out there . And don't mind what Westlife says , you're not gay ... i think you're just confused . You could be bi ? But being a virgin is what's possibly confusing you i.m.o. . Pluck up the courage and arrange a visit with a girl off this site for a half hr .
I'd recommend you choose an escort to which you are VERY attracted to , simply because us men are visually stimulated . A half an hour later you should have a good idea whether or not you are gay ! By all means book a male escort , but i'd do that only after you see a female one , cause i'd hate to walk out from the male escort thinkin you have just made a horrendous mistake and you're not gay or even bi .
Hope all goes well and this is of some use to you

[luther]

hi all ,im a member here with a good bit,love looking at the girls,never managed to get the confidence to meet any of them,im also a virgin ,im 25,but the last few nights ive found myself looking at gay websites,and gay datiing websites,i dont want to be gay no way but im starting to look at guys and think about being with a guy,has any other guy experienced this

I doubt you're even bi, your lack of confidence with the ladies is just leading you to believe that you would be more confident talking to men, and that it would be easier...........

And even if you are, I still don't see the problem.......

Best of luck, but it's all about the confidence I'd say, all about who you feel more comfortable around and talking to at the moment.............

Take a dip in the river of lady love and see how you feel. Don't be dipping a toe in to test the water, just jump in..........

[experienced punter]

yes if the urge to be with a man is that strong go visit a Male escort go ahead I wouldn't dwell much more thinking about this wouldn't that be much better than trying to find a male partner getting into r/ship then realizing that u really are not gay & its not for u ? I wish u luck..