Nervous Lad

[Rockman]

I know I will be slagged for posting this but what the heck.

Im an average guy with decent equipment and no health or performance issues. Also I am toned generally keep myself clean even my arse lol and brush my teeth daily. Feeling lately that I needed a little extra fun I decided to contact an escort through here. As this would be my first time with an escort I really admired myself with how easy it was to find a girl with good reviews. I made the appointment and attended the meeting in her hotel.

I paid and went in to have my shower and when I came out we chatted a little and she got on the bed and I beside her. She was a nice girl but pointed out a list of rules first which I felt were a little strict. These included things like not kissing her lips, inserting fingers or even my tongue. She also didnt like my hands on her anytime I touched her with my hands she jumped. Anyway putting all this aside I decided to do what I came for and guess what disaster my lad had retreated and would not budge.

She decided to help a little with her hands to no avail then to covering my limp lad with a condom for oral. I couldnt feel a thing and the more she tried the less happened. So basically I couldnt get it up when I went to see and escort and Im putting it down to nervous.

Really the main reason for posting this is what do I do, Was it just the escort didnt put me at ease and my lad got shy. I want to go again to another escort but now Im afraid it will happen again. Would vigra help with this or should I have a few shots of whiskey first or what ?

[Notatwork]

I know I will be slagged for posting this but what the heck.

Im an average guy with decent equipment and no health or performance issues. Also I am toned generally keep myself clean even my arse lol and brush my teeth daily. Feeling lately that I needed a little extra fun I decided to contact an escort through here. As this would be my first time with an escort I really admired myself with how easy it was to find a girl with good reviews. I made the appointment and attended the meeting in her hotel.

I paid and went in to have my shower and when I came out we chatted a little and she got on the bed and I beside her. She was a nice girl but pointed out a list of rules first which I felt were a little strict. These included things like not kissing her lips, inserting fingers or even my tongue. She also didnt like my hands on her anytime I touched her with my hands she jumped. Anyway putting all this aside I decided to do what I came for and guess what disaster my lad had retreated and would not budge.

She decided to help a little with her hands to no avail then to covering my limp lad with a condom for oral. I couldnt feel a thing and the more she tried the less happened. So basically I couldnt get it up when I went to see and escort and Im putting it down to nervous.

Really the main reason for posting this is what do I do, Was it just the escort didnt put me at ease and my lad got shy. I want to go again to another escort but now Im afraid it will happen again. Would vigra help with this or should I have a few shots of whiskey first or what ?

Name and Shame,what a shite escort!

[experienced punter]

so u couldn't put your hands on her? ah here ya twas her fault alrite what a complete waste of time & money no wonder the mickey was unresponsive u have nothing to be embarrassed about you've just met a timewaster escort there is such a thing despicable thing about it too is she robbed u of your hard earned cash......

[youngandhard]

yeah man that is way too strict sorry for the bad first time experience man

[anon361]

Some escorts will say in passing they don't like finger insertion or no anal play but not really strictly, I would put it down to nervousness and the escort being so strict didn't help either. Yes Viagra would help but a shot of something would also help relax you. Next time go for a sensual massage first, even massage her sometimes works and when he's ready go for it, I find a Mickey is like a kettle, keep watching it and it will never boil....

[Rockman]

Name and Shame well firstly this happened about 6 months ago and believe it or not I cant remember her name. I know before hand I checked her reviews she had a lot and they were pretty good and she was mainly based in Dublin but touring down here in Cork where I met her. A few weeks after I checked back and looked at her profile and reviews and also found another mention of a punter complaining about her not wanting to be touched. But for the life of me I cant remember her name and also as I paid for 1hour but left after only 1/2 she said the she would owe me the 1/2 hour next time.

And no Capt. its not my first time with a woman just my first time with an escort so It wasnt a case of my first attempt and it been too much for me.

I prob. will have another punt but need to get the viagra first just to make sure im not gona waste my money. lol

Thanks for your advice lads

[Notatwork]

Name and Shame well firstly this happened about 6 months ago and believe it or not I cant remember her name. I know before hand I checked her reviews she had a lot and they were pretty good and she was mainly based in Dublin but touring down here in Cork where I met her. A few weeks after I checked back and looked at her profile and reviews and also found another mention of a punter complaining about her not wanting to be touched. But for the life of me I cant remember her name and also as I paid for 1hour but left after only 1/2 she said the she would owe me the 1/2 hour next time.

And no Capt. its not my first time with a woman just my first time with an escort so It wasnt a case of my first attempt and it been too much for me.

I prob. will have another punt but need to get the viagra first just to make sure im not gona waste my money. lol

Thanks for your advice lads

ALEXIS???Great escort,but would eat a novice like you for breakfast if aloud.

[Westsidex]

Some escorts will say in passing they don't like finger insertion or no anal play but not really strictly, I would put it down to nervousness and the escort being so strict didn't help either. Yes Viagra would help but a shot of something would also help relax you. Next time go for a sensual massage first, even massage her sometimes works and when he's ready go for it, I find a Mickey is like a kettle, keep watching it and it will never boil....

the sensual massage.




he wont even remember it was so good,
Westside.

[Rockman]

Thank you Zara D that offer sounds very tempting but unfortunately I am not available on those dates but I will keep you in mind as I sometimes travel.

Karin in hindsight you are right I should have walked but I was green when it comes to this and truly taken for a ride. No I was not trying to insert fingers or my tongue in anal areas I gave here oral and was going to insert my finger or tongue to pleasure her but she stopped me.

Mr. B im a Dub and left the big smoke for this smaller smoke never to return so only a blow-in.

Also I dont think viagra will solve this, its in the head as I am active anyway. I reckon I will try again just need to do homework before hand.

[capt.pugwash]

Yaaarrrr tis easy to diagnose yer problem lad.
Firsly ye need a wench ye can take control of,
You be the rule-maker n take no shit off her.
All the "dont do this" n "dont do that" crap forced yer into a mental state of rejection.
Hence yer todger felt unwanted.
Seeing twas yer first attempt maybe all them female "bits" available were too much fer thee.
Suggest ye start with a good ole T.S. lass n you`ll feel more on common ground.
Failing that do as the Cap`n does n find a cabin boy to wank e off.