Just a few thoughts
The first time I ever visited a sex worker was in a brothel on Sherrard Place (long long gone but some of the older punters might remember it)
It was mid september in 1997 I was 24 and feeling extremely lonely.
She was a dublin working girl and called her self Eva, really pretty, about 26 I'd say.
I still remember hardly being able to believe I was there and undressing in front of her...it was so exciting....
Massage and topless hand relief, as reliable and ubiquitous as a Ford Focus...
Even as she worked on me I knew I would be doing this again...already looking forward.....
That was 13 years ago and I have visited so many girls and women since then, I find it kinda unreal sometimes.
I'm not sure if i want to do this sort of thing anymore but I can't quite let it go either.
And it's not prudishness or disrespect to girls working as escorts...I have met some spectacularly lovely girls and women over the years (Clair a Czech sweetheart, Natalie 21 from Portugal, hasnt worked here in 2 years I will never ever forget her, girls from older times....Chelsea now a published writer, again older punters will undoubtedly remember her, how could you forget??? and further back irish girls back when dublin had actual brothels, Roisin, Nikki, Linda....i truly hope they are well these days but I have a suspicion maybe not; I have seen Nikki around town from time to time and I think things have not gone too good for her but maybe she'll be ok)
Sorry to ramble I was just wondering how other folks felt about paying for sex services year after year, i'm kinda startin to feel i may be paying a high spiritual or psychic toll...
Anyway I don't mean to be a downer, I can't talk to my pals about this sorta stuff I was just wondering how other folks felt??
No judgement: everyone is free to make their own choices.
Respect to everyone girls and boys, Lincoln.
Yeah Lincoln,respect.I personally feel fantastic about it,visiting escorts helps me perform better in other aspects of my life.
Originally Posted by Lincoln
Hey Lincoln, respect your feelings but most people are just passing through, for one reason or another. The girls need money, drugs or whatever, the guys need sex, emotional release, companionship or whatever. It's not very often that you get to cross their paths in real life and get to see, the real woman behind the facade ( unless, you're Dick Spunk ), so for most, easy come, easy go.
Thanks for the replies lads, I appreciate it.
Yeah I know the reasons both parties participate in the transaction vary and are numerous (I still cling to the belief that most girls see it as a reasonably easy way to make a lot of money quickly and in the context of escorts that accessing drugs ISN'T the prime reason).
Hey, at the end of the day phoning for an appointment and goin to an apartment and seein the girl (and possibly her partner too!!!) remains a pretty powerful erotic jolt, no question of that....
I just find meself lookin for a really good GFE more and more....speaks volumes really.
anyway cheers lads, lincoln.
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