hiv std's

[jake1280]

hi,
thanks for replies.

in response i can say yes i have slept with non escorts without a condom.

but it is a very rare thing for me. 4 girls in my whole life. two were girlfriends, one a one night stand, and the other this black escort.

and i agree with the point about regular girls having as good a chance of carrying an std.

the point is you or i or anyone could never know.

but just to clarify my case. i completed a medical for a new job, involving bloodtests, a few months before this happened i.e. before i slept with this escort without a condom. so i know i had no std's.

i sleep with this escort. i get sick 11 days later for two and a half weeks. all typical and expected when initially infected with HIV.

and finally i said black escort because she happened to be black.

she could just as easily have been white, irish, british, european etc etc

its a hazard of the trade. but in my experience too a lot of escorts are extra cautious with their health. which is great.

unfortunately for me some people just dont give a fuck about anything or anyone, but thats in every walk of life.

[D1 John Doe]

Thanks for sharing Jake, sorry to hear what happened.

The last escorts I visited I've made a point to ask them straight out if they have anything, to see the reaction and hear the answer is a small comfort. The last two were crazy.

The penultimate girl said she gets tested for HIV once a year and everything else every 3 months... she said she doesn't need to get tested any more regular than that as she always uses a condom... someone needs to re-read the Safer Sex handbook...

The last girl looked a little startled by the question and said she'd had tests lately and made a pile of excuses as to why she hadn't picked up the results yet all without me saying a word. I wasn't very keen on her after that.

All of these little things, your post included, make me want to bow out of this little vice of mine.

[experienced punter]

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All of these little things, your post included, make me want to bow out of this little vice of mine.

I agree I feel the same way.....

[Westsidex]

anyway i hope people believe me and be safe.

i dont,
Westside.

[Dirty Harry]

hello all,

as this is my first post on the site (yes i signed up just to say this) i will say something about myself first. i am a 30 year old normal irish guy who has been visiting escorts probably for about 7/8 years in dublin. not too frequently. maybe about 10 times a year on average. usually a different one every time, but have returned to others on a couple of occasions.

i never signed up before to write reviews etc etc as i dont, or at least didnt, see it as a big part of my life. anyway i just wanted to remind people of the possible dangers, and tell people what happened to me.

Late november last year i visited a black escort, from south america. as you can imagine she was actually african. She advertised on "other site" at the time, from seychelles i think. Maybe some of you have also visited her. Nice face, very small tits, slim-ish, with real big booty. At that time she was based in park apartments i think it was called. Big wooden doors right on the street. Im sure its known. i even remember the number. its now ingrained with me forever.

Anyway i arrived there drunk and stoned, and didnt want or ask for sex without a condom but she was on top, she never mentioned a condom, i was too drunk and stoned, and so we fucked without one and here i sit one year later with HIV. Yes my own fault and my responsibility, but i have to wonder why a person with HIV would sleep with another without a condom. Anyway i just wanted to warn every one. BE CAREFUL, BE SAFE.

A condom will save you from HIV and HEP C, but not nescesarily from chlamydia, and then herpes and other stds transmittable through just skin contact.

Anyway it would be nice to find this girl and confront her. Anyone know anything?
I dont expect so. Not even angry with her anymore. would just like to know why she would do that. What was the gain for her. or did she just not give a shit.

anyway be safe. yes these days HIV is manageable, with drugs and the life expectancy in the western world is 69 years with proper medical attention. little consolation though i can tell you.

also if you pick up an std like herpes or chlamydia etc etc which can be got say through skin contact or OWO the chances of HIV are greatly increased. For example if you have chlamydia and a condom burst with an escort who has hiv i would be very worried.

ONE OTHER VERY VERY IMPORTANT POINT. If you are exposed to hiv there is a good possibility that the infection can be stopped/ killed if the correct drugs are taken within the first 72hrs. The treament is called PEP (google it). Advice: go straight to doctor or hospital. its a pity the education system in ireland didnt point this out. i am a third level educated guy and didnt know this until it was too late.

anyway i hope people believe me and be safe. i am open to any questions and queries and will respond when i can.

hi jake if what you are saying is true then i do sympathise with you we are all aware that when alcohol and drugs are taken then stupid mistakes can happen you mentioned that you arrived there drunk and you were also stoned and you still managed to get a hard on well i find that a little hard to believe to be honest with you

[Dirty Harry]

just to add to this i cannot imagine any escort taking an appointment from a client if he shows up drunk and stoned because he would be more trouble than what the punt would be worth the more i think of your thread jake the more it sounds like bullshit sorry i don't believe you

[anitasizzle]

just to add to this i cannot imagine any escort taking an appointment from a client if he shows up drunk and stoned because he would be more trouble than what the punt would be worth the more i think of your thread jake the more it sounds like bullshit sorry i don't believe you

Someone wrote the same exact thing last year on the 'orange' site

[Dirty Harry]

Someone wrote the same exact thing last year on the 'orange' site

yeah he is full of shite for sure he can quote me on that if he wants

[Doozer]

hi jake if what you are saying is true then i do sympathise with you we are all aware that when alcohol and drugs are taken then stupid mistakes can happen you mentioned that you arrived there drunk and you were also stoned and you still managed to get a hard on well i find that a little hard to believe to be honest with you

You find it hard to believe he could get an errection because he was stoned and drunk?

Showing your age now Harry

[Dirty Harry]

You find it hard to believe he could get an errection because he was stoned and drunk?

Showing your age now Harry

thats true doozer you smart bastard i walked in to that one didn't i a few beers and sex is fine but not drunk and stoned well not for me