Don't you just love this?
Ox-y-mor-on: n, pl: Any variety of tantalizing, self-contradictory statements or oberservations that on the surface appear false or illogical, but at a deeper level are true, often profoundly true.
'To lead the people, walk behind them'
'You'd be surprised how much it costs to look this cheap'
Just make up your own oxymoron or give us one you heard before.
Just that simple!