hi guise, the last few experiences i have had were big let downs and disappoints. part of this is also my nerves but otherwise i dont reallly connect with any of the girls - and i dont mean that in a special meaningful way - but unless i am not sober, i find it a bit hard to call a girl i dont know, show up at her house and then be taken to the bedroom straight away.

ive been on this site a few years now and in the past i did manage to get to know girls before i seen them, either on msn, from the chatroom or just talking over the phone. this was good because rather then the above scenario, we talked like we knew each other when we met and then when it would feel right, we would move on.

is it too much to ask for one of the girls here to get on msn to me (since noone uses the chatroom anymore) and we just chat about life or whatever?