Safety Ideas for the ladies

[El Gordo]

I'm going to think about this and post again but 2 things and sorry for being negative but how many times have we heard back that someone else has visited a girl and said they are somebody well known on these boards. So you can't rely on username references.

A guy on the phone saying he's anon361 or El Gordo could be anyone, but if the booking is by pm then the lady can be pretty sure that it's you or me. A lot of escorts who are active on the boards prefer pm bookings. Aside from safety, it decreases the chance that it's a timewaster. It doesn't eliminate it, since some well known posters are known to be serial timewasters. For a while Karin was offering a discount for pm bookings. She had to stop because too many clients found the concept difficult to understand.

ps Ladies, if someone who hasn't sent you a pm says he's me, he's almost certainly lying.

[LEE]

[QUOTE=anon361;152766]I'm going to think about this and post again but 2 things and sorry for being negative but how many times have we heard back that someone else has visited a girl and said they are somebody well known on these boards. So you can't rely on username references.

Lee, sorry but just because a person wears a suit and may look professional doesn't mean anything, you would never see me in a suit and yet I'm probably one of the nicest guys you can meet in person (and could buy and sell most of the guys wearing suits also )


i do agree with you ........... and i do not agree as well
I MARK RED FOR THE NEGATIVE SAID OF YOU: you use but and sorry so many time
and i agree with you for you could be nice lad .
when you going to date lady you will be dressed nice , becouse you making you day,
you going for pleasure and you want to feel nice insaid as outsaid.
suit or shirt you dress as you like and you tlake as you dress, profissional gentelman as you
even builder they told me before they come , we all human, and what happend its worth ever in ireland.....
god bless you all

[Dirty Harry]

i agree with forrest ladies should take bookings by pm at least there is a good chance that the client is genuine i had this conversation with spanish aida before and i adviced her to use the pm or email system at the time of my visit she was telling me that some guys would make an appointment and then not show up and in the mean time she could have turned down another client these would be just phone calls from time wasters but unfortunately she is still not set up to use the pm system and there is a lot more ladies not set up to use it

[thehighwayman]

The pm system would be ideal for making bookings and for the safety of the escort. I know all clients aren't registered here. But it wouldn't do them any harm to register. Every client that has seen an escort or tried to make abooking must have gone on to this site at some stage. How else would they know what escorts were touring. Alot of escorts don't use the forum and don't have computers. But what price safety if this helps.

For those who aren't registered users Elles idea about what adultwork does would be a good idea. If there was a system in place where e-i could be notified that a client has come and gone would add to the safety of escorts.

[Prickly]

I've found that making contact thru' the boards here, by PM, is the best way. The escort knows that there's some kind of record of you, and that you're not a timewaster. Appointments are usually much more relaxed too. I include my number in the PM, so that they can save it and they know who it is when I ring. All escorts should have a profile here for this.

As regards the credit card issue, I wouldn't like to give my card details here. However I have a PayPal account, and maybe that would be a way to trace a punter, if need be.

As for references, escorts aren't as keen about giving them as they are about getting them. Too much hassle for them. And often touring escorts are unavailable when needed.

Simple fact is, as long as escorts meet unknown punters at short notice on the strenght of a mobile number they're vunerable to attack. Appointments through this site for first meets is best at the moment.

[espensen]

All escorts should be prepared for such attacks.

http://slimages.macys.com/is/image/M...0.5,0&fmt=jpeg

[UKHeather]

All escorts should be prepared for such attacks.

http://slimages.macys.com/is/image/M...0.5,0&fmt=jpeg

Is that a piss take?
The only damage that's going to inflict on an attacker is if its rammed up his arse.. sideways

[espensen]

it was a piss take, don't worry.


Yes, it's a serious matter. And yes, hopefully they'll get their come-uppace some time.

[Stewie]

Ok this maybe off the wall, but how about a girl ask's the client to take a pictrure of himself with his phone, he then hands her the phone before he enters that way she has his picture and fingerprints, she puts it somewhere secure (in a safe) and when the appointment is finished she hands him back his phone...

The problem with that is it involves face to face contact some kind of verification before face to face contact is I presume what the girls would prefer.
I honestly don't know what the solution is I hate to sound negative but Pats credit card idea won't work as I just can't see guys giving over credit card details.

The other main problem is that any system is unlikely to be adopted universally and making it difficult for guys to get verified will mean that they go to the girls that don't look for verification.

I think elles idea of the SMS angel is probably about the best. The only other thing I can suggest is that girls encourage PM bookings by perhaps offering a slight discount for bookings made through the site.

[nicegirlsarenice]

The problem with that is it involves face to face contact some kind of verification before face to face contact is I presume what the girls would prefer.
I honestly don't know what the solution is I hate to sound negative but Pats credit card idea won't work as I just can't see guys giving over credit card details.

The other main problem is that any system is unlikely to be adopted universally and making it difficult for guys to get verified will mean that they go to the girls that don't look for verification.

I think elles idea of the SMS angel is probably about the best. The only other thing I can suggest is that girls encourage PM bookings by perhaps offering a slight discount for bookings made through the site.

You could write the time and date on a piece of paper you have with a marker.

pming? I can't see how that would make things any safer or in any way better at all. That's even worse than texting.