I asked for references yesterday.....suddenly no-one had 'done this kind of thing before'
We also still have the issue where you can buy yourself another SIM card/phone/axe
Genuine guys would quite gladly offer a reference, I've provided them in the past and have asked for them myself.
There could be a booking system on the website, but how many guys look at the profiles and don't actually bother with the rest of the site ??
How about when someone clicks on the profile it could come up with a window that says 'this lady requires references' - you would then have to tick a box or provide a name or something similar...
I'm not being very articulate, but you get my drift I hope ?
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for starting a thread like this. As I have said already on the board, and via pm to a couple of ladies, you can never be too careful.
Unfortunately, we are back to the bad old days of the 80's where robbery - banks, jewellers, houses etc are back in vogue with force. It is another sign of the economic downturn. I don't know if the attack on the escort in Wicklow was money related or not but it is probably a motivation.
I think that the reference system and the pm system, used in tandem, can help to significantly reduce the threat of attack. Unfortunately, there are not nearly enough punters, from the escort perspective, that even log in. I have been looking at the number of members/visitors that are viewing EI at any given time and the proportion is usually less than 50/50. Similarly, the number of reviews that are posted, in comparison to the number of escorts advertising in any given week, is quite low.
I would think that the majority of appointments that ladies on this site take are done by phone.
If business is quiet ladies are going to take a risk, rather than lose potential income. There are, probably, too many escorts registered on EI for the volume of business that is being generated at the moment, and some of the resident escorts will suffer as, men being men, like variety and
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Girls regardless of what the law says .........
I was with the girl in question when she gave her statement
The garda told me we should never work alone .
We should always be in pairs or use security
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I ran out of time on my post and when I tried to edit and complete it I ran out of time too.
I should have put it on word or something and then copied it on here.
I am going to abbreviate the rest of my comments just in case I run out of time again.
I think that a lifestyle change is required for everyone involved in the escort business - EI(advertisng host), Escorts(advertisers), Members(Potential cusomers for the advertisers)
EI should reduce the number of escorts advertising in any given week, as it seems to me that there is an oversupply of escorts. This situation will for ladies to take more risks and increase the danger of attack. They should also set up a loyalty system for resident escorts and ladies that tour Ireland on a regular basis. Reduced cost of advertising will mean less need to take risks.
The ladies need to adopt the booking by pm/reference system to filter the bona fide, genuine, punters. Taking a booking by phone less than 30 mins before the required time increases the risk unless it is from a regular visitor.
Members/Punters need to take on board the need for security for the ladies and use the pm/reference system, rather than ringing a lady 30 minutes before the required appointment and expecting to receive a service.
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Hi Abby,
That must have been a traumatic experience for your friend.
If the Garda are saying that ladies shouldn't work alone then it's probably an 'off the record' comment. Regardless of the law, maybe they could relax the enforcement when the ladies can prove that they are not being trafficked or pimped.
Hope you are keeping well.
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like forrest and taylor has said, theres guy out there who dont become members here!
i was the same myself last year, as i was in a relationship and couldnt even get near a computer to join or to even post, so i just browsed on my phone, see who i liked and phoned!
yes the volume of members is not sufficient enough for the volume of escorts on this site, and every time you log in, you will see at the bottom of the page theres more quests than there is members! but a referral system and maybe if someone else comes up with an idea would be a good way to go, for a start!
but even still this dosent secure the safety of the lady, if a guy comes to you with the intention of harming you, even if you have 2 ladys in the apartment its not secure enough. i had this conversation with an escort last night, i know business is bad and you ladys try to make hay while the sun shines so to speak, but after a certain time especially now when its dark early, say around
8pm, only take regular clients, ones that you can trust and you have seen before, never take a client who is a 1st timer, you just dont know who he is or whats hes motives, yes your turning lets say 200euro down for the last hour of your day, would you like to earn 200euro or still be emotionally stable the next day, just ask yourself that question when the phone rings after 8pm!
Great idea pat but its not the best
i do recourd all calls as i take booking with names and where they are from i do chat to find out when they speak if they are professional gentleman wearing suits , then i text the number to good frieds they help when they i need it. every time i toure i tel them where i am and for how long ... and the day i am leaving .
should all girls work as united and if client book and did not show that dos not mean bad it could be somthing happend but if he did it again you should blook him.
my advice as well if any one abuse you over the phone just egnore him and blook him.
when work should be in safe place with alot of people around do not work late unless you have some security.
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I'm going to think about this and post again but 2 things and sorry for being negative but how many times have we heard back that someone else has visited a girl and said they are somebody well known on these boards. So you can't rely on username references.
Lee, sorry but just because a person wears a suit and may look professional doesn't mean anything, you would never see me in a suit and yet I'm probably one of the nicest guys you can meet in person (and could buy and sell most of the guys wearing suits also )
3V credit cards are a waste of time, as a test I previously registered one in a false name to one of my addresses, the card arrived as it is normally rented accomodation so there is no record of that person anywhere other then that address, if i was contacted I would like any other landlord say sorry never heard of him, likewise someone renting a place could do the same.
Ok this maybe off the wall, but how about a girl ask's the client to take a pictrure of himself with his phone, he then hands her the phone before he enters that way she has his picture and fingerprints, she puts it somewhere secure (in a safe) and when the appointment is finished she hands him back his phone...
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