Escorts, when do you like to be paid?

[El Gordo]

There was an interesting exchange on another thread recently:

1: look at the pic (if your mickey twitches= see step 2)
2: Call said escort (if mickey gets harder during convo =see step 3)
3: Go put mickey in said escort ( when mickey spits at escort= see step 4)
4: pay escort and fuck off home till the next time you want to put your mickey in somthing.

I usually pay before step 3. The escorts I've visited seem pretty insistent about that.

U must come across as untrustworthy then.

Either Wildthang and I have been visiting different escorts, or they've been treating us differently. I don't mind paying at the start, but I am curious, so I am setting up a poll.

This is a public poll to make sure that only escorts vote.

[DollyDarling]

My thought on this:

There are risks involved both ways. There are good clients and bad clients, there are good escorts and bad escorts. If a girl doesnt ask it up front, she may never get it then. I have had a few guys in my past who I serviced and then he just left without paying. There have also been guys if you leave the money on the counter they will grab it quick when your not looking and put back in pocket then leave fast (after being serviced first). On the otherhand, if the escort is a bad person, and the guy pays upfront, then he may get ripped off and lose this money. My suggestion for the punter would be to pay a girl up front who has good reviews that proves she is genuine. If an escort is not reviewed then you will want to be a bit more cautious. One thing you could do is say you will lay half down and the other half after. She may kick you out on your arse tho perhaps if you explain how she has no verified photos or reviews that you feel this is a fair compromise if she knows she is genuine. Another possibility is to leave donation in a location that is easy to reach just in case you need to make a grab for it if you see something fishy down below on her . All these are dodgy moves tho. So really if paying upfront concerns you, then seeing a well reviewed escort is going to be the safest and most trustworthy act you could do in regards to getting your money's worth. The way I do things is I do expect it up front. However, I do not confront or make someone uncomfortabe. I do not make eye contact or act confrontational. I turn my back to them and do something else such as put lipstick or put on music and say "leave the donation over there somewhere" or "just putting on some lipstick here if you dont mind sorting me out over there somewhere". thats the hint and they always get it. No confrontation and everythings set. Next I say the bathroom is over there if you want to just wash yourself. While they are in bathroom I check what they left and when they come out of shower we begin our session. I think if I was a punter Id be a little worried if an escort was aggressive at the start and confrontational in asking for it, like sticking out her hand and making eye contact and saying things like "you have to pay now"... There are subtle ways to make everyone comfortable before starting.

[wtd2004]

I've had escorts ask me for the money at the start but I've also had escorts who are on their knees with my cock in their mouths the minute I'm through the door and are not in a position to ask for anything

Guess which ones I prefer

[DollyDarling]

Yes thats how it works here in USA too. The guys will write in the reviews "she never even asked for the donation". They are very impressed when its never mentioned. We are lucky when we get a good guy who has all intention to be fair on us, and then it works out well because he feels happy we never asked, and we are happy to have him write it in the review that we never mentioned it. But thing is, not all men are good or fair. Sometimes it even will tempt the good guys. I have had regulars even or usually good guys who I dont ask in advance, and in the end they say "How much was it again?" and Im thinking what a chancer he is since I didnt ask him but now he is asking me! When Im reviewed they rarely mention that they sorted it out in advance. I guess because of the way I go about it. I am very gentle so they dont feel threatened or put on the spot. So it doesnt phase them one bit. If its done properly, you will still be just as happy as you are when not asked. It should be a very painless moment, and if a punter feels a discomfort by the way hes asked for it, then Id say she is going about it the wrong way.

[Derry Rose]

Hi Hun,

with new clients I like to get it sorted beforehand ...then I can relax

with regular clients after is fine but I leave that with client ..some just like to get it out of the way.

Rose xx

[DollyDarling]

Hi Hun,

with new clients I like to get it sorted beforehand ...then I can relax

with regular clients after is fine but I leave that with client ..some just like to get it out of the way.

Rose xx

I have to admit Derry Rose, regulars in ireland are alot more reliable then here in USA. I hear American escorts often say the men they've seen for years who they thought were trusted just turned suddenly. But I think you are right about Irish men. Honor is strong in Ireland. I love that about Irish men. Honor. Not all have it of course, but the ones who do, have it strong. And when they are honorable then they are trustworthy. Honor is not so much important here in america. It was a long time ago, but now ego would be more noticed then honor. And ego cant be trusted. Where honor can be trusted.

[MissX]

This is the most common question asked.

I always decline
I never physically accept any fee before or after an appointment

Its always left on the locker

I was told by accepting money you are legally entering into a contract and can be arrested on the spot if your client turns out to be an officer of the law

By not accepting payment before your service

first you have not been paid for your time or services so cannot be arrested
second a policeman will never let you perform a regular service

Someone also told me, if you ask a client if he is a policeman and he is and is there covertly, he is legally obliged to answer you honestly

Has anybody else heard of this?

x

sinead

[DollyDarling]

This is the most common question asked.

I always decline
I never physically accept any fee before or after an appointment

Its always left on the locker

I was told by accepting money you are legally entering into a contract and can be arrested on the spot if your client turns out to be an officer of the law

By not accepting payment before your service

first you have not been paid for your time or services so cannot be arrested
second a policeman will never let you perform a regular service

Someone also told me, if you ask a client if he is a policeman and he is and is there covertly, he is legally obliged to answer you honestly

Has anybody else heard of this?

x

sinead

Well there are stories here of the police getting their blow jobs, then telling after they are police, taking all the money, laptop, phone, and arresting the girl. Not all do this, but in some states they are allowed to get serviced before the arrest. Pretty bad huh?

[Anna23]

Why is SUPERMAN voting in this poll? Is he an escort?

[Alyssa Jenkins]

To be totally honest I prefer when someone comes to see me for a firsttime to leave the gift in an envelope on the dresser or somewhere if it is not in an envelope then maybe just leave it on the dresser in plain view and while he is having a shower I can then check all is in order...With people I have seen before I am rather lenient about my gift...I dont like embarassing situations where I will have to ask for my gift as I dont like this its the same as discussing extras it is not very nice to be discussing an extras while you are being intimate, in saying this the only extra I charge for is anal all other xtras are included. I believe all of this should be taken care of in advance as then the date will go very well and not have embarassing moments...I must admit I can see why some ladies ask in advance for thier gifts even I have had someone visit me and leave without leaving my gift in my case I was quite fortunate as it was someone I already knew and he came straight back up as he realised he had forgotten cos we had such a good time....