Hey all,

I've been to a few escorts now, and I have to say that the major reason I started seeing escorts was to try and become more confident in the bedroom... after all, if you meet a girl out in a nightclub and bring her home, you're never 100% sure what's going to happen, but if you meet up with an escort... well.... you get what I mean!!

Basically I'm a fairly confident person in normal life, but as soon as it gets down to business in the bedroom, i can't speak! or take control, i need my partner (whoever that might be at the time) to take over and tell me what to do next.

it's partly because I don't want to start doing something that an escort isn't comfortable with, but is this something that is discussable before meeting up?

my last two punts were 2 VERY bad punts, where I had asked about certain favourites over the phone and confirmed they were do-able, but then to get there and not know how to go about initiating contact.

for instance, i'm a dirty fecker, I love a-levels and facials, and it's been a fantasy of mine to give it a go for ages, but I can't pluck up the courage to ask about it when im in bed with a girl.

I suppose I'm asking all you fine punting types out there, what is the best way to go about doing this? talk face-to-face with an escort at the start of an appointment?

maybe there are a few escorts out there who might be reading this and think I'm mad, but if there are let me know your point of view on clients requests and how you prefer this side of things to be handled.

-FTR-