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    Question I get so nervous!

    Hey all,

    I've been to a few escorts now, and I have to say that the major reason I started seeing escorts was to try and become more confident in the bedroom... after all, if you meet a girl out in a nightclub and bring her home, you're never 100% sure what's going to happen, but if you meet up with an escort... well.... you get what I mean!!

    Basically I'm a fairly confident person in normal life, but as soon as it gets down to business in the bedroom, i can't speak! or take control, i need my partner (whoever that might be at the time) to take over and tell me what to do next.

    it's partly because I don't want to start doing something that an escort isn't comfortable with, but is this something that is discussable before meeting up?

    my last two punts were 2 VERY bad punts, where I had asked about certain favourites over the phone and confirmed they were do-able, but then to get there and not know how to go about initiating contact.

    for instance, i'm a dirty fecker, I love a-levels and facials, and it's been a fantasy of mine to give it a go for ages, but I can't pluck up the courage to ask about it when im in bed with a girl.

    I suppose I'm asking all you fine punting types out there, what is the best way to go about doing this? talk face-to-face with an escort at the start of an appointment?

    maybe there are a few escorts out there who might be reading this and think I'm mad, but if there are let me know your point of view on clients requests and how you prefer this side of things to be handled.

    -FTR-

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    Default I know nerves are tough but..........

    You need to get straight to the point...........

    Be as clear as you can on the phone when making the appointment about what you want, this will avoid disappointment when you arrive, and be very exact while you are there to avoid more disappointment before you leave............

    The girls are there to help................. honest..............
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    Thumbs up nervous

    like luther has said, find a lady who provides both the services you fantasise about, when you phone her be confident on the phone and tell the girl exactly what you want. so that when you get there, there is no awkward conversation about what you want, if you respect the lady she will respect you and show you a good time, dont forget what job these ladies are doing, they have seen and done it all before, so dont be shy to say what you want, they can only say no to you, just relax and if you want to control the meeting go ahead, just relax and enjoy urself!!!!!

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    Shame this girl doesn't work. I dont think you'd have too many problems. Quality of pic is crap but the rest........OMG!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by FeelTheRhythm View Post
    if you meet a girl out in a nightclub and bring her home, you're never 100% sure what's going to happen for instance, i'm a dirty fecker, I love a-levels and facials, and it's been a fantasy of mine to give it a go for ages, but I can't pluck up the courage to ask about it when im in bed with a girl.
    A picture paints a thousand words, woke up to this post this morning and had me laughing with the thought of you in a club saying hey babe before we go home can i just ask do you take it up the ass and oh i want to finish off on your face, thanks for starting my day off with a big

    Quote Originally Posted by FeelTheRhythm View Post
    maybe there are a few escorts out there who might be reading this and think I'm mad, but if there are let me know your point of view on clients requests and how you prefer this side of things to be handled.-FTR-
    Seriously though as has been said its all about respect and doing your homework prior to any punt.
    If the girl has it on her enjoy list its a good start and when calling her for appt instead of saying do u do anal and facials a better way would be to say do you do what you have on your enjoy list as alot of girls wont discuss the finer detail in a telephone call because most but not all guys are just on the phone.
    When you get there just relax and be "normal" and request what your looking for but remember its the way that you request it that matters polite. light humoured, funny, are all things a girl would prefer to deal with and set you up for a great time.

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    So it's not ok to just tell the lady to bend over, ram it up her jacksie, then whip it out for a shampoo and set
    I was wondering why my last few encounters ended abruptly with Mr. Security chucking me out the window.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FeelTheRhythm View Post
    Hey all,

    I've been to a few escorts now, and I have to say that the major reason I started seeing escorts was to try and become more confident in the bedroom... after all, if you meet a girl out in a nightclub and bring her home, you're never 100% sure what's going to happen, but if you meet up with an escort... well.... you get what I mean!!

    Basically I'm a fairly confident person in normal life, but as soon as it gets down to business in the bedroom, i can't speak! or take control, i need my partner (whoever that might be at the time) to take over and tell me what to do next.

    it's partly because I don't want to start doing something that an escort isn't comfortable with, but is this something that is discussable before meeting up?

    my last two punts were 2 VERY bad punts, where I had asked about certain favourites over the phone and confirmed they were do-able, but then to get there and not know how to go about initiating contact.

    for instance, i'm a dirty fecker, I love a-levels and facials, and it's been a fantasy of mine to give it a go for ages, but I can't pluck up the courage to ask about it when im in bed with a girl.

    I suppose I'm asking all you fine punting types out there, what is the best way to go about doing this? talk face-to-face with an escort at the start of an appointment?

    maybe there are a few escorts out there who might be reading this and think I'm mad, but if there are let me know your point of view on clients requests and how you prefer this side of things to be handled.

    -FTR-
    Would say your problem is more common than you imagine...
    Might be worth your while going to a lady of your choice for 30 mins.. Bring her a box of chocs and tell her your name (make up one if u want) to make her remember you..
    Then ring the same lady again when you can afford another punt telling her who you are and book another appointment.. Before you arrive send her a polite text explaining what you would like to happen during your visit..
    Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by skyblue41 View Post
    Shame this girl doesn't work. I dont think you'd have too many problems. Quality of pic is crap but the rest........OMG!!!!!

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    Fair enough, you posted a video of a blowjob but what is the extraordinary part about it? I do this to my boyfriend almost every night

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    Default Honesty

    Honesty is best here

    I have particular interests too. I always text the ladies them.

    I start off with a text along the lines, Hi Im mike.... Cork..... Good looking..... I am hoping to meet. i have a fetish Id like to elaborate. Will you let me text this and if your cool with it, send me a "yes" and I'll ring ya

    Works pretty damn often

    Anything with animals is clearly out, but most stuff is considered by the girls on EI

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    Red face confidence through education!!

    thanks everybody for the advice!!

    I have to say, I've never used these boards before really, but now that i've started I've made two threads about things that I've wondered/worried about and got a great response!

    ye're a pretty cool bunch of people, i must come here more often!

    --ftr--

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