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  1. Default I am beginning to think its not the legal issue but my own fear of sex

    Basically I contemplated going to see a girl today but again chickened out. I mean even thinking of it got me so nervous. I mean how sad is that.I really have psychlogical issues with intimacy , I mean im in my 30's and I havent even kissed a girl. One of the real reasons I want to visit escorts is not only to get myself off but to build up some experience so I wont look like a total loser when I eventually do get with a girl. I dont know why im like this maybe part of it is because I have so little confidence in myself and how I look.Maybe i dont look as bad as I think I look because recently a girl at a bar hit off me by accident after that she commented that the drink I was getting looked nice.My response was so sad I dont want to even say it.I am at a loss at how im going to short this out
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    Quote Originally Posted by mrpink View Post
    Basically I contemplated going to see a girl today but again chickened out. I mean even thinking of it got me so nervous. I mean how sad is that.I really have psychlogical issues with intimacy , I mean im in my 30's and I havent even kissed a girl. One of the real reasons I want to visit escorts is not only to get myself off but to build up some experience so I wont look like a total loser when I eventually do get with a girl. I dont know why im like this maybe part of it is because I have so little confidence in myself and how I look.Maybe i dont look as bad as I think I look because recently a girl at a bar hit off me by accident after that she commented that the drink I was getting looked nice.My response was so sad I dont want to even say it.I am at a loss at how im going to short this out

    I see qph is using his other account again



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    If you've been a member for all this time and you haven't seen an escort yet it seems it's not the thing for you.
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    I have just not in ireland

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrpink View Post
    recently a girl at a bar hit off me by accident after that she commented that the drink I was getting looked nice.
    I'm almost afraid to ask, but, what was the drink that looked nice???
    "It's far easier to fight for principles than to live up to them."
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    Quote Originally Posted by mrpink View Post
    Basically I contemplated going to see a girl today but again chickened out. I mean even thinking of it got me so nervous. I mean how sad is that.I really have psychlogical issues with intimacy , I mean im in my 30's and I havent even kissed a girl. One of the real reasons I want to visit escorts is not only to get myself off but to build up some experience so I wont look like a total loser when I eventually do get with a girl. I dont know why im like this maybe part of it is because I have so little confidence in myself and how I look.Maybe i dont look as bad as I think I look because recently a girl at a bar hit off me by accident after that she commented that the drink I was getting looked nice.My response was so sad I dont want to even say it.I am at a loss at how im going to short this out
    U need therapy here buddy in the meantime check in to a hotel have a nice meal few pints or shorts(even if u don't drink) southern comfort or two will put u at ease get a callout works for me as I'm very shy

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrpink View Post
    I have just not in ireland
    I don't understand why the reluctance to go in Ireland if you have gone elsewhere

    Take the advise of a hotel room, a few stiff ones (forgive the pun) and an outcall.

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    Quote Originally Posted by luther View Post
    I'm almost afraid to ask, but, what was the drink that looked nice???
    Well i think u should have lots and lots of that nice drink

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    i dont think that drink is the answer here buddy, if anything u should do it while your sober, u dont wanna fall in to the whole getting drunk before u fuck an escort thing coz that will transend into ur social life if u ever do get with a girl, just look about and get one of the good ones, take time to choose and make sure that you check the review, and remember when it comes time to do the nasty that its you thats hiring the girl and if she's any bit good that she'll want to do a good job for you, im sure they've had every type of nervous guy before so ull be grand, u wont get anywhere in life by not doin things, look for a suitable girl and just go for it, you only live once, carpe diem

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    I assume your choice of title for this thread stems from your last thread................

    https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...-saturday.html
    "It's far easier to fight for principles than to live up to them."
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