One night stand mean less sex or not

[FetishCherry]

Is one night stand mean less sex or is it pleasure sex with no attachment to worry about.....?

Now this been on my mind for a while. But when you least expect it , that when these thing happen. I won't say where it happen, but it happen not long back. Was out drinking with a few Mate in a bar. All good as it was a Friday night and finish work.

We where into over 1 hour drinking and it was past 9pm. But 3 of us and two Ladies came over chatting, a black hair and brunette. So remember the 3 of us Gents and only two Ladies. I decided to back away as I felt uncomfortable. I walk back up to the bar and on my own drinking.

But short time one of the Ladies who came to our table, walk up and touches my hand. At this stage I hold a beer bottle and don't see her coming. But her touch make me drop my bottle and spill it over the bar. She look and laugh, to say look like I owe you a drink Mr....? I reply my name and said no thanks, as I am drinking alone. (Wrong thing to say to a Lady) But cheeky she reply but you are not as your two friends are over there.

Damn she got me. Got another beer and so I pipe up and said so how my friend had you getting on. She look at me and took deep breath and reply he not my type. But you seem nice, but nervous guy who intrigue me. Then said I like a challenge to bed a guy. I not lie, but I must swallow half of my bottle of beer, as I choke hearing that. Why me was my reply, as lot of gents around who bed you if want that. To be honest I wasn't push of going home with anybody let alone her.

She seem bit confuse and took that as bit of insult, as her next words where, why say stupid thing like that and are you gay...? No I reply but I came for a quiet drink, which i wasn't planning go home with anybody. She walk off and so I thought the end of that, or so I thought. Mate are killing themselves laughing and bit if banter is going on.

The black hair Lady with green eyes who I told I wasn't interested. Must seen or been watching it, and next thing she walk over and kiss my Mate and then my next Mate. Then look to me and said you have to wait later for your kiss later, when you come home with me. (Are all Ladies this forward)

We chat and it drag on and I am thinking now, how do I lose her or be polite to say she can do better then me. Even if it one night stand. Got a taxi together with her , as my mate laugh and said see you tomorrow hopefully

When we get back to her place. She try to French Kiss me in her door. But seriously I reply I don't kiss n hug on greeting people first time. Which ok we kiss later then. She made me coffee and then another coffee, as I quite nervous and chat going on for a while now on her settee. She snuggle up and I said can I use bathroom to freshening up.

No problem she reply and I in the bathroom thinking what the feck am I doing here. Come out and she in her lingerie, which it hit me then. This whole situation feel like meeting a Escort. Minus the time allowance. As you still pay for drinks and food after.

Then one black hair Escort come into my head, who I done a overnight with. So I said to her let just chat and see what happen to the Lady in lingerie. Now I am in client mode and thinking great I could chat to it too late and we both fall
asleep of tiredness. But just like the black hair Escort she also not having any of it. So that was the end of another coffee and long chat. As she said enough bullsh*t and stop trying to avoid any sexual actively. As it disrespectful and make a Lady feel worthless and unattractive. Plus why are you so nervous as you acting like a idiot. God help any Ladies who get or try to get sexual activity with you she reply. (I thought it was little harsh of her to say that) Not even the Wardrobe could save me then.

Very active safe night with share shower, which I did ask her as I said it be more erotic. Woke up
in her arms that morning with little hangover. Look at her as she wake up and I said coffee, she reply later as I am frisky. But I wasn't as I tired and want coffee. Even offer cook breakfast but she wasn't budging. After that little more sleep and then she cook breakfast and i left. Thanks her and she gave me her number, to which I never call back. Smart of me, as I never gave her my number.

But a one night stand for me, feel like a overnight with a Escort. It just feel mean less sex a one night stand (no offence meant on that to anyone)

Now I am off to watch Love island and it going to be heartbreak for one couple. As one couple will be vulnerable to be evicted out of Love island.

wow this is a good one OMG ... i might be very old fashion then... )) How come is that :'' have sex with me otherwise i feel insulted and unattractive'' is disrespectful )))))) wow Interesting way to see things ... wow... this is really something new for me, never heard in my life such of things or words to come up from a woman mouth... usually the guy try to bring u in bed not the woman bring u in bed and then ask to be... respected by the guy ))

[Mr Sweet Guy]

wow this is a good one OMG ... i might be very old fashion then... )) How come is that :'' have sex with me otherwise i feel insulted and unattractive'' is disrespectful )))))) wow Interesting way to see things ... wow... this is really something new for me, never heard in my life such of things or words to come up from a woman mouth... usually the guy try to bring u in bed not the woman bring u in bed and then ask to be... respected by the guy ))

Hi FetishCherry

Now it take 2 people want to be comfortable in bed. And that Lady took offence, because to her she felt I wasn't attractive to her. Which it made her feel uncomfortable and annoyed, when I delay any sexual activity. When a Lady take you back into her apartment, it can be likely she want sex.

But NOT always, as consent can be given and taken away at anytime from both people. Which it has indeed happen with escorts I met. Which long chat has cause problem with escorts I been in company with. P*ss some to that I met to. My reviews don't lie about my anxious of getting sexual activity.

But it work both way, as a lady chat a guy up in the bar. She thinking I like him and maybe I bed this guy. Where' as the guy could have his eye on someone else or just not bother. Not all Gents go out looking to be pulled. Some just want peace and quiet.

Then again I could hope to get business sex with a escort consent. So I could book 30 min appointment with a escort and skip the long chat.

Maybe I should try few appointments like that, and might rid me of my plague of long chat. Nah I won't, as I find it to quick and little time for slow build up.

But whole point is, a Lady pride themselves on their look and Beauty. Also like hearing it also, and EXPRESS it to them in friendly and erotic way also. But if any Gents reject a Lady advances, of course she feel insult, unattractive and disrespected. Because it work same for a Gent when they been rejected by a Lady. It might be different with escorts. But in my meeting with escorts it certainly came across they to want to know they attractive , beautiful and desired by the clients who come to see them.

It business, but them 3 words are very real and a escort want to hear and feel it to. She a Lady with feeling and emotion. So them words would put a smile on any Lady face and when they feel rejected by Gents or client. It mean the Gent doesn't think she any if the 3 words, attractive, beautiful, desired.

[Forceuser]

Hi FetishCherry

Now it take 2 people want to be comfortable in bed. And that Lady took offence, because to her she felt I wasn't attractive to her. Which it made her feel uncomfortable and annoyed, when I delay any sexual activity. When a Lady take you back into her apartment, it can be likely she want sex.

But NOT always, as consent can be given and taken away at anytime from both people. Which it has indeed happen with escorts I met. Which long chat has cause problem with escorts I been in company with. P*ss some to that I met to. My reviews don't lie about my anxious of getting sexual activity.

But it work both way, as a lady chat a guy up in the bar. She thinking I like him and maybe I bed this guy. Where' as the guy could have his eye on someone else or just not bother. Not all Gents go out looking to be pulled. Some just want peace and quiet.

Then again I could hope to get business sex with a escort consent. So I could book 30 min appointment with a escort and skip the long chat.

Maybe I should try few appointments like that, and might rid me of my plague of long chat. Nah I won't, as I find it to quick and little time for slow build up.

But whole point is, a Lady pride themselves on their look and Beauty. Also like hearing it also, and EXPRESS it to them in friendly and erotic way also. But if any Gents reject a Lady advances, of course she feel insult, unattractive and disrespected. Because it work same for a Gent when they been rejected by a Lady. It might be different with escorts. But in my meeting with escorts it certainly came across they to want to know they attractive , beautiful and desired by the clients who come to see them.

It business, but them 3 words are very real and a escort want to hear and feel it to. She a Lady with feeling and emotion. So them words would put a smile on any Lady face and when they feel rejected by Gents or client. It mean the Gent doesn't think she any if the 3 words, attractive, beautiful, desired.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Ahh my STALKER , to which I am impressed you read my post.

I forgive you, as you don't or might not intelligent to understand what my post meant. But you either been sarcastic or another sly dig. But I will in future when people correct you, will thanks their post in future

[Floki]

Hopefully back on track with the rest of the thread....

[Mr Sweet Guy]

What??? what kind of woman will believe that? I mean a guy if he dont want to go in bed with you means is gay? Jesus! Maybe he DONT LIKE YOU , or just dont want for various reasons. I know guys who dont like to be approached , they like to choose not to be choosed... or any reason really eh can have. Only because u have a available pussy not means everybody will want it . Damn! this type of women i think they believe guys are so desperate then they will accept any offer. Really?

No she was beautiful and got lot of attention from my mates. She never came across ever desperate not at all. But she was looking for fun that night. And my two mates where pushy guys. Maybe to her when I walk off , she was impress or think he more of Gent who not pushy or forceful.

I know Escort like the laid back approach Gents. As I been told that. She knew I was nervous and it intrigue her. (Her words) I not pushy Gent and if a Lady like me, then she have to come to me. As I rarely make the first move. Call it a safe zone.

But to that Lady. Maybe to her it made her felt she not setting her standard high enough. As all Ladies want and feel good in company they like. Let say and know, she could had most Gents in the bar and Ladies also, if she wanted to.

[Barney Rubble]

Hopefully back on track with the rest of the thread....

I would normally say that God only knows Floki but seeing as you are an atheist I'll just say fuck knows.

What was it about anyway this thread?

[Floki]

I would normally say that God only knows Floki but seeing as you are an atheist I'll just say fuck knows.

What was it about anyway this thread?

It was about who is better than each other and with some confusion in there
But before that, it was just about one night stand being better or poorer pleasure.

As the thread starts: Is one night stand mean less sex or is it pleasure sex with no attachment to worry about.....?

For me, I love a one night stand, never had a bad one yet.
Well apart from one which turned into a relationship. Glad I am out of that one.

[Forceuser]

But before that, it was just about one night stand being better or poorer pleasure.

I thought it was about a man who has women constantly forcing him to have sex???

[Stephanie]

I thought it was about a man who has women constantly forcing him to have sex???

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