One night stand mean less sex or not

[mr gear]

One night stands means more sex end off

[Pblinder]

Back to your self obsessed bullshit drivel.
Painful
And your crying about people giving you some sort of bad rating ?!?!?

Is one night stand mean less sex or is it pleasure sex with no attachment to worry about.....?

Now this been on my mind for a while. But when you least expect it , that when these thing happen. I won't say where it happen, but it happen not long back. Was out drinking with a few Mate in a bar. All good as it was a Friday night and finish work.

We where into over 1 hour drinking and it was past 9pm. But 3 of us and two Ladies came over chatting, a black hair and brunette. So remember the 3 of us Gents and only two Ladies. I decided to back away as I felt uncomfortable. I walk back up to the bar and on my own drinking.

But short time one of the Ladies who came to our table, walk up and touches my hand. At this stage I hold a beer bottle and don't see her coming. But her touch make me drop my bottle and spill it over the bar. She look and laugh, to say look like I owe you a drink Mr....? I reply my name and said no thanks, as I am drinking alone. (Wrong thing to say to a Lady) But cheeky she reply but you are not as your two friends are over there.

Damn she got me. Got another beer and so I pipe up and said so how my friend had you getting on. She look at me and took deep breath and reply he not my type. But you seem nice, but nervous guy who intrigue me. Then said I like a challenge to bed a guy. I not lie, but I must swallow half of my bottle of beer, as I choke hearing that. Why me was my reply, as lot of gents around who bed you if want that. To be honest I wasn't push of going home with anybody let alone her.

She seem bit confuse and took that as bit of insult, as her next words where, why say stupid thing like that and are you gay...? No I reply but I came for a quiet drink, which i wasn't planning go home with anybody. She walk off and so I thought the end of that, or so I thought. Mate are killing themselves laughing and bit if banter is going on.

The black hair Lady with green eyes who I told I wasn't interested. Must seen or been watching it, and next thing she walk over and kiss my Mate and then my next Mate. Then look to me and said you have to wait later for your kiss later, when you come home with me. (Are all Ladies this forward)

We chat and it drag on and I am thinking now, how do I lose her or be polite to say she can do better then me. Even if it one night stand. Got a taxi together with her , as my mate laugh and said see you tomorrow hopefully

When we get back to her place. She try to French Kiss me in her door. But seriously I reply I don't kiss n hug on greeting people first time. Which ok we kiss later then. She made me coffee and then another coffee, as I quite nervous and chat going on for a while now on her settee. She snuggle up and I said can I use bathroom to freshening up.

No problem she reply and I in the bathroom thinking what the feck am I doing here. Come out and she in her lingerie, which it hit me then. This whole situation feel like meeting a Escort. Minus the time allowance. As you still pay for drinks and food after.

Then one black hair Escort come into my head, who I done a overnight with. So I said to her let just chat and see what happen to the Lady in lingerie. Now I am in client mode and thinking great I could chat to it too late and we both fall
asleep of tiredness. But just like the black hair Escort she also not having any of it. So that was the end of another coffee and long chat. As she said enough bullsh*t and stop trying to avoid any sexual actively. As it disrespectful and make a Lady feel worthless and unattractive. Plus why are you so nervous as you acting like a idiot. God help any Ladies who get or try to get sexual activity with you she reply. (I thought it was little harsh of her to say that) Not even the Wardrobe could save me then.

Very active safe night with share shower, which I did ask her as I said it be more erotic. Woke up
in her arms that morning with little hangover. Look at her as she wake up and I said coffee, she reply later as I am frisky. But I wasn't as I tired and want coffee. Even offer cook breakfast but she wasn't budging. After that little more sleep and then she cook breakfast and i left. Thanks her and she gave me her number, to which I never call back. Smart of me, as I never gave her my number.

But a one night stand for me, feel like a overnight with a Escort. It just feel mean less sex a one night stand (no offence meant on that to anyone)

Now I am off to watch Love island and it going to be heartbreak for one couple. As one couple will be vulnerable to be evicted out of Love island.

[philipkntz]

Please can the Mods find out who the vindictive little bitch is that keeps handing out low star ratings for threads.

Whoever you are - you're pathetic.

If you think the thread deserves a better rating why don't you uprate it yourself?

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Msg, I read your complete post twice and still not sure what you're on about. (Much like many of your other posts actually, but I usually just read the first and last lines).
When you say mean less sex, do you actually mean "meaningless sex"?

Yes exactly Phillip and apparently my English by some is not the best But it true one nightstand are ok, but it feel like you kind of use and discarded after. I mean both people in that. It fun while it last and when you a client you tend to go into defense mode, unless you really like that person. You treat them with respect all times.

It like leaving the company of Escort you met. You take with you your happy thought, but after you soon forget, and thinking of your next adventure with a Escort or one nightstand. For Gents who are coming out of relationship or someone you love is move on. It different as your emotion and feeling are raw.

Plus you are weary of getting close to anyone else on that time. Which one nightstand with a Lady can be uncomfortable for a person like that. In saying that sex can be good and fun, but also meaningless also.

That where meeting Escorts, come into being better then one nightstand. Because both can be good sex, but one nightstand can bring complication, and something them people who are still raw from loving someone, or out of relationship. More problematic and don't need heartache of more stress of Lady you just met night before. But that my opinion and other will think differently, which they are entitle to.

If that's how you feel and where your head is, that's just the way it is. But thinking about a girl that you know you're not going to be with is wasting your time literally. You're don't get younger and you don't get this time back.
I think the more girls you see the more distance you will put between you and the girl you love. That's my approach but we're not all the same.

Spot on Jinxed and you only one understand me. Intelligent Gent you are Mate, as what you post on other thread make lot of sense also. You do speak lot of truth in your posts.

Your post does indeed sum up what everyone should do. Is get out and meet new people, as a new relationship start from meeting a stranger first.

But in saying that when I like a Lady, I prefer to slow approach and not bedding her on first time we meet. It feel shallow and also using her, to which I have a 3 week period or few dates before sex take place. Which to her, she could say and feel, I am just using him for good sex also.

Maybe also that why my meeting with Escorts, goes into long chat from the start, from 1-2 hours before and if any sexual activity take place. But as my Mate's say, it not a date and don't treat it as one.

Which of course we paying the Escort time n companionship.But seriously how many Gents are going to chat to a beautiful Lady for long spell.
It just business sex they want and 30 min Gents are not their for a chat
Maybe the 2 hours upwards Gents will do nice long chat in between that time.

But a one nightstand is not much different to meeting Escorts. Except minus the time allowance. As clients want business sex plain and simple, just like you meet a Lady in bar or club and just go off and have one nightstand.

Now which we should excuse a massage provider or a dominatrix who offer different service to a sexual service. Them clients have their own needs. Which also I told my story to see people opinion on it, and what they thought of any one nightstand they encounter in their time.

Thanks for advice Jinxed, and well put across also

[Nikkita]

If you think the thread deserves a better rating why don't you uprate it yourself?

I just did. I'm off to give everyone else a 1 star rating now because that's what spiteful people do instead of just not rating at all. Losers.

[MarkM2020]

I just did. I'm off to give everyone else a 1 star rating now because that's what spiteful people do instead of just not rating at all. Losers.

Where do we sign the petition for Nikkita to become a mod? 😂 #givenikkitathepower

[Barney Rubble]

I just did. I'm off to give everyone else a 1 star rating now because that's what spiteful people do instead of just not rating at all. Losers.

At least this thread has 3 stars Nikkita. My thread about multiple accounts and MSG's other 1 about this and that only have 1. I am feckin devastated.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Back to your self obsessed bullshit drivel.
Painful
And your crying about people giving you some sort of bad rating ?!?!?

I say this in nice way, as people like you I have no time for or the guy who thanks your post. He really should look at his own fault before he take sly digs.

First I think over thinking on everything is ok. But that been conscience of your feeling and concern for other who I know and care for. Even people I meet , I like to express respect and gratitude and I won't tolerate people who use someone.

Which I can't help that. Yes caring for someone , which I don't like them be taken advantage of. I also dislike people, who prey on the weak minded or vulnerable. Maybe something you should try also and turn that attitude you have, to do something nice.

Which I didn't want to take advantage of that Lady who I met in bar that night. I was been straight up honest with her. To which she persuaded me to come back to her place for coffee.

This story was put up to get people opinion on their encounter, to which I did post up in past about my friends. So if you don't tell a story, then how you going to get opinion or advice on it. I been calm about this, as I don't have to answer You.

But my friends claim you are wrong, about your behavior in a post, that was put up in the past. Why should I listen to guy like you and I have enough sh*t in my life going on. So do me a favour, and ignore me will you like a good chap.

[FinnMickC00L]

Where do we sign the petition for Nikkita to become a mod? �� #givenikkitathepower

At the back of the wardrobe in Narnia with all the other fantasists.

[FetishCherry]

Is one night stand mean less sex or is it pleasure sex with no attachment to worry about.....?

Now this been on my mind for a while. But when you least expect it , that when these thing happen. I won't say where it happen, but it happen not long back. Was out drinking with a few Mate in a bar. All good as it was a Friday night and finish work.

We where into over 1 hour drinking and it was past 9pm. But 3 of us and two Ladies came over chatting, a black hair and brunette. So remember the 3 of us Gents and only two Ladies. I decided to back away as I felt uncomfortable. I walk back up to the bar and on my own drinking.

But short time one of the Ladies who came to our table, walk up and touches my hand. At this stage I hold a beer bottle and don't see her coming. But her touch make me drop my bottle and spill it over the bar. She look and laugh, to say look like I owe you a drink Mr....? I reply my name and said no thanks, as I am drinking alone. (Wrong thing to say to a Lady) But cheeky she reply but you are not as your two friends are over there.

Damn she got me. Got another beer and so I pipe up and said so how my friend had you getting on. She look at me and took deep breath and reply he not my type. But you seem nice, but nervous guy who intrigue me. Then said I like a challenge to bed a guy. I not lie, but I must swallow half of my bottle of beer, as I choke hearing that. Why me was my reply, as lot of gents around who bed you if want that. To be honest I wasn't push of going home with anybody let alone her.

She seem bit confuse and took that as bit of insult, as her next words where, why say stupid thing like that and are you gay...? No I reply but I came for a quiet drink, which i wasn't planning go home with anybody. She walk off and so I thought the end of that, or so I thought. Mate are killing themselves laughing and bit if banter is going on.

The black hair Lady with green eyes who I told I wasn't interested. Must seen or been watching it, and next thing she walk over and kiss my Mate and then my next Mate. Then look to me and said you have to wait later for your kiss later, when you come home with me. (Are all Ladies this forward)

We chat and it drag on and I am thinking now, how do I lose her or be polite to say she can do better then me. Even if it one night stand. Got a taxi together with her , as my mate laugh and said see you tomorrow hopefully

When we get back to her place. She try to French Kiss me in her door. But seriously I reply I don't kiss n hug on greeting people first time. Which ok we kiss later then. She made me coffee and then another coffee, as I quite nervous and chat going on for a while now on her settee. She snuggle up and I said can I use bathroom to freshening up.

No problem she reply and I in the bathroom thinking what the feck am I doing here. Come out and she in her lingerie, which it hit me then. This whole situation feel like meeting a Escort. Minus the time allowance. As you still pay for drinks and food after.

Then one black hair Escort come into my head, who I done a overnight with. So I said to her let just chat and see what happen to the Lady in lingerie. Now I am in client mode and thinking great I could chat to it too late and we both fall
asleep of tiredness. But just like the black hair Escort she also not having any of it. So that was the end of another coffee and long chat. As she said enough bullsh*t and stop trying to avoid any sexual actively. As it disrespectful and make a Lady feel worthless and unattractive. Plus why are you so nervous as you acting like a idiot. God help any Ladies who get or try to get sexual activity with you she reply. (I thought it was little harsh of her to say that) Not even the Wardrobe could save me then.

Very active safe night with share shower, which I did ask her as I said it be more erotic. Woke up
in her arms that morning with little hangover. Look at her as she wake up and I said coffee, she reply later as I am frisky. But I wasn't as I tired and want coffee. Even offer cook breakfast but she wasn't budging. After that little more sleep and then she cook breakfast and i left. Thanks her and she gave me her number, to which I never call back. Smart of me, as I never gave her my number.

But a one night stand for me, feel like a overnight with a Escort. It just feel mean less sex a one night stand (no offence meant on that to anyone)

Now I am off to watch Love island and it going to be heartbreak for one couple. As one couple will be vulnerable to be evicted out of Love island.

What??? what kind of woman will believe that? I mean a guy if he dont want to go in bed with you means is gay? Jesus! Maybe he DONT LIKE YOU , or just dont want for various reasons. I know guys who dont like to be approached , they like to choose not to be choosed... or any reason really eh can have. Only because u have a available pussy not means everybody will want it . Damn! this type of women i think they believe guys are so desperate then they will accept any offer. Really?