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    Question One night stand mean less sex or not

    Is one night stand mean less sex or is it pleasure sex with no attachment to worry about.....?

    Now this been on my mind for a while. But when you least expect it , that when these thing happen. I won't say where it happen, but it happen not long back. Was out drinking with a few Mate in a bar. All good as it was a Friday night and finish work.

    We where into over 1 hour drinking and it was past 9pm. But 3 of us and two Ladies came over chatting, a black hair and brunette. So remember the 3 of us Gents and only two Ladies. I decided to back away as I felt uncomfortable. I walk back up to the bar and on my own drinking.

    But short time one of the Ladies who came to our table, walk up and touches my hand. At this stage I hold a beer bottle and don't see her coming. But her touch make me drop my bottle and spill it over the bar. She look and laugh, to say look like I owe you a drink Mr....? I reply my name and said no thanks, as I am drinking alone. (Wrong thing to say to a Lady) But cheeky she reply but you are not as your two friends are over there.

    Damn she got me. Got another beer and so I pipe up and said so how my friend had you getting on. She look at me and took deep breath and reply he not my type. But you seem nice, but nervous guy who intrigue me. Then said I like a challenge to bed a guy. I not lie, but I must swallow half of my bottle of beer, as I choke hearing that. Why me was my reply, as lot of gents around who bed you if want that. To be honest I wasn't push of going home with anybody let alone her.

    She seem bit confuse and took that as bit of insult, as her next words where, why say stupid thing like that and are you gay...? No I reply but I came for a quiet drink, which i wasn't planning go home with anybody. She walk off and so I thought the end of that, or so I thought. Mate are killing themselves laughing and bit if banter is going on.

    The black hair Lady with green eyes who I told I wasn't interested. Must seen or been watching it, and next thing she walk over and kiss my Mate and then my next Mate. Then look to me and said you have to wait later for your kiss later, when you come home with me. (Are all Ladies this forward)

    We chat and it drag on and I am thinking now, how do I lose her or be polite to say she can do better then me. Even if it one night stand. Got a taxi together with her , as my mate laugh and said see you tomorrow hopefully

    When we get back to her place. She try to French Kiss me in her door. But seriously I reply I don't kiss n hug on greeting people first time. Which ok we kiss later then. She made me coffee and then another coffee, as I quite nervous and chat going on for a while now on her settee. She snuggle up and I said can I use bathroom to freshening up.

    No problem she reply and I in the bathroom thinking what the feck am I doing here. Come out and she in her lingerie, which it hit me then. This whole situation feel like meeting a Escort. Minus the time allowance. As you still pay for drinks and food after.

    Then one black hair Escort come into my head, who I done a overnight with. So I said to her let just chat and see what happen to the Lady in lingerie. Now I am in client mode and thinking great I could chat to it too late and we both fall
    asleep of tiredness. But just like the black hair Escort she also not having any of it. So that was the end of another coffee and long chat. As she said enough bullsh*t and stop trying to avoid any sexual actively. As it disrespectful and make a Lady feel worthless and unattractive. Plus why are you so nervous as you acting like a idiot. God help any Ladies who get or try to get sexual activity with you she reply. (I thought it was little harsh of her to say that) Not even the Wardrobe could save me then.

    Very active safe night with share shower, which I did ask her as I said it be more erotic. Woke up
    in her arms that morning with little hangover. Look at her as she wake up and I said coffee, she reply later as I am frisky. But I wasn't as I tired and want coffee. Even offer cook breakfast but she wasn't budging. After that little more sleep and then she cook breakfast and i left. Thanks her and she gave me her number, to which I never call back. Smart of me, as I never gave her my number.

    But a one night stand for me, feel like a overnight with a Escort. It just feel mean less sex a one night stand (no offence meant on that to anyone)

    Now I am off to watch Love island and it going to be heartbreak for one couple. As one couple will be vulnerable to be evicted out of Love island.

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    Ok thanks to the person who hide behind a neg rep. I will be reporting your comment as disrespectful to say the least.

    Disrespect and pm me if you a problem... I hope now the mod look into it and be dealt with, as I seem to be the same person from their words, and writing style.
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    Please can the Mods find out who the vindictive little bitch is that keeps handing out low star ratings for threads.

    Whoever you are - you're pathetic.

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    OP you described the perfect night and the perfect morning. And you fought against it.

    Are you broken?

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    Dear fucking Jesus, on bended knee I beseech you to enlighten me on the merits of Buddhism.
    So that I may retain my equanimity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jinxed View Post
    OP you described the perfect night and the perfect morning. And you fought against it.

    Are you broken?
    I will answer you Jinxed... And the reason I wasn't push or bother about that night was, which I wouldn't call perfect, night or morning, as nothing is perfect....

    My feeling and heart belong to a Lady, and I do still care for her. Even do it finish now and have to move on. Which if you have strong feeling for them, it hard to let go. But their is a say Mate. If you truly Love someone you let then go, if it make them happy and that more important then my own needs. I told her that on one of my last message to her.

    Which yes we all do crave company at times and need to. And I didn't look for her company that night as it just happen. But that why also I never let that Lady have my number, as I don't want anyone else in my life at moment.

    Because when your head and feeling is turn by someone you adore. Your emotion and feeling is not real to anyone else, and even the sex feel mechanical. Like I said, I just went into client mode and shut off all my feeling and emotion.

    I hope that Lady who I have feeling for and had many happy times with. Is happy wherever she is and I do miss and care for her. As you never forget the good times with them.

    Maybe that a broken heart or not Jinxed..... Hope that answer your question, and honest is best way to describe it.

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    Msg, I read your complete post twice and still not sure what you're on about. (Much like many of your other posts actually, but I usually just read the first and last lines).
    When you say mean less sex, do you actually mean "meaningless sex"?
    My wife caught me wearing ladies underwear and threatened to leave me.
    So I packed up all her clothes
    And left.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Sweet Guy View Post
    I will answer you Jinxed... And the reason I wasn't push or bother about that night was, which I wouldn't call perfect, night or morning, as nothing is perfect....

    My feeling and heart belong to a Lady, and I do still care for her. Even do it finish now and have to move on. Which if you have strong feeling for them, it hard to let go. But their is a say Mate. If you truly Love someone you let then go, if it make them happy and that more important then my own needs. I told her that on one of my last message to her.

    Which yes we all do crave company at times and need to. And I didn't look for her company that night as it just happen. But that why also I never let that Lady have my number, as I don't want anyone else in my life at moment.

    Because when your head and feeling is turn by someone you adore. Your emotion and feeling is not real to anyone else, and even the sex feel mechanical. Like I said, I just went into client mode and shut off all my feeling and emotion.

    I hope that Lady who I have feeling for and had many happy times with. Is happy wherever she is and I do miss and care for her. As you never forget the good times with them.

    Maybe that a broken heart or not Jinxed..... Hope that answer your question, and honest is best way to describe it.
    If that's how you feel and where your head is, that's just the way it is. But thinking about a girl that you know you're not going to be with is wasting your time literally. You're don't get younger and you don't get this time back.
    I think the more girls you see the more distance you will put between you and the girl you love. That's my approach but we're not all the same.

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    Wtf...........

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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    Wtf...........
    It could be on the curriculum for University level language students, as challenging as reading James Joyce, it needs two or three views, you get a different interpretation each time. We need David Norris on here to explain.

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