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    The children are much more important than the passion.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jinxed View Post
    Is it money, children, habit, fear, reputation, feeling of worthlessness.

    Why stay?
    All of the above. It's so dammed expensive to rent or buy another property a lot of couples have no choice but to share accommodation. It's a terrible situation to be in, one I'm glad to be away from
    We have two lives , the second begins when we realise we only have one .....

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    Physical passion can leave a marriage for many reasons, health of either partner, the change, comfort of sleeping separately, snoring and other assorted reasons.

    This doesn't always mean that the love that was physical has dimmed .............. it may even be stronger.

    While a man may still love his wife, who for one reason or another can no longer have sex, he still has needs and that is often where an escort's service is important.

    It may well be that by being unfaithful to his wife with an escort a man may well be strengthening his marriage.

    An escort presents no real danger to a marriage and provides that which may be missing from the it.

    This is true also of unmarried men who seek out escorts.

    They too have needs, wants and desires that they are unable to fulfil in their real world and so rely on the fantasies provided by escorts.

    The only real reason two people remain together for a lifetime is because deep down they are always in love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magicman View Post
    Physical passion can leave a marriage for many reasons, health of either partner, the change, comfort of sleeping separately, snoring and other assorted reasons.

    This doesn't always mean that the love that was physical has dimmed .............. it may even be stronger.

    While a man may still love his wife, who for one reason or another can no longer have sex, he still has needs and that is often where an escort's service is important.

    It may well be that by being unfaithful to his wife with an escort a man may well be strengthening his marriage.

    An escort presents no real danger to a marriage and provides that which may be missing from the it.

    This is true also of unmarried men who seek out escorts.

    They too have needs, wants and desires that they are unable to fulfil in their real world and so rely on the fantasies provided by escorts.

    The only real reason two people remain together for a lifetime is because deep down they are always in love.
    A very realistic answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jinxed View Post
    OK children I can get, if only for the fact that I think another man living with my children would be very hard if not impossible.
    By 40 lots of women have children finished in school and maybe out of home. Why stay after that.

    OK the grass isn't greener. But life is short when you break it down into 4 quarters.

    1 day to 20 years. Under rule of parent and education.

    20 to 40. In your prime and most likely under the rule of possible education/employer/family.

    40 to 60. Bodies slowing down, options are running out, not feeling young at all anymore.

    60 to 80. Countdown is set on the timer to your end date. Retirement with all that time on your hands but too old to give a shit.

    Now you're dead.

    I can't see how anyone will live in a house with a woman they don't like, with each day being as miserable as the day before. This shouldn't be fathers day. We should be celebrating single happy carefree day.

    I'm glad I'm selfish when it comes to giving up my one time here for other people
    Jaysus... life isnt this calculated... If this is your true outlook I can only but feel sorry for you...

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    nobody mentioned those parasites known as solicitors who exploit peoples personal distress at marriage breakdown
    Other opinions are allowed
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magicman View Post
    Physical passion can leave a marriage for many reasons, health of either partner, the change, comfort of sleeping separately, snoring and other assorted reasons.

    This doesn't always mean that the love that was physical has dimmed .............. it may even be stronger.

    While a man may still love his wife, who for one reason or another can no longer have sex, he still has needs and that is often where an escort's service is important.

    It may well be that by being unfaithful to his wife with an escort a man may well be strengthening his marriage.

    An escort presents no real danger to a marriage and provides that which may be missing from the it.

    This is true also of unmarried men who seek out escorts.

    They too have needs, wants and desires that they are unable to fulfil in their real world and so rely on the fantasies provided by escorts.

    The only real reason two people remain together for a lifetime is because deep down they are always in love.
    Very well put magicman , sex is a small but significant part of a marriage, and if your partner is no longer interested then visiting an escort is an option , I do not think my wife would be surprised to know that’s what I do , but would choose to ignore it , as everything else is good.

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    I recon its a matter of whether a couple grows apart or learns to hate each other.
    A couple that I know say their marriage is over, but they say that they are very good friends with benefits. They have actually promised to hump each other occasionally even if they set up house with someone else.
    My wife caught me wearing ladies underwear and threatened to leave me.
    So I packed up all her clothes
    And left.

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    property, a motel and 80 acres of prime land

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    Quote Originally Posted by Normansmother View Post
    property, a motel and 80 acres of prime land
    And a very nice collection of Knives aswell.

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